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I am a junior high school student, 20 17 female candidate. My attitude towards this matter is that if I meet someone from two of a kind, we can be together.
1. The feelings at this time are the purest and truest.
For junior high school students, they haven't had much contact with society, and their inner feelings can't be hidden or lied. At this time, feelings are as pure as distilled water. It's just the throb of one heart to another, and the attitude of one soul to another has nothing to do with romance, money, power, family or even appearance. Why should such a beautiful feeling be suppressed? In my opinion, after entering the society, can you really find such simple feelings when you are old enough to fall in love freely?
After entering the society, we will experience more people and things, and it is difficult to have the youthful and immature psychology of junior high school. I don't want to remind my youth that "I regret not doing xxx at that time", "I knew I had xxx at that time" and "Why didn't I have xxx at that time". I want my youth to have no regrets, so I want to boldly do what I want to say and do what I want to do.
Falling in love can make people full of hope and vitality.
This is my personal experience. I was with a boy in the second grade (*/Ω \ *) and later separated. I talked to my best friend about this some time ago. She said that at that time, you seemed to have eaten Popeye's spinach roll, and everything was full of enthusiasm. Every day, your eyes shine brighter than the stars, and the whole person exudes unknown charm and momentum. I think, because of feelings.
Another example is my friend, who is now with a boy in the next class. Teachers are all the same, so they often study together. Adhering to the principle of complementarity, boys teach girls science and girls teach boys liberal arts. The two men encouraged each other and made progress in the mid-term exam. Every time I mention each other's eyes, the flashing light is really better than the sun.
So I think love does have a buff, which will make you unconsciously look forward to tomorrow. Why not do it for the person you love to become a better self?
In the third day of the war, I seem to understand why so many friends can't wait to confess. In our opinion, it is a wonderful thing to find spiritual support and keep moving forward.
I know many people will think my thinking is too simple and superficial. Adolescence is easy to chop and change, and I hate learning. Breaking up will affect mood and study. But for us, the most important thing is not how good our grades are and how powerful our future will be, but that we can follow our hearts. There are too many uncertainties in the future for us, and no one can guarantee that we can grow old together. Then I'll settle for the second best, not for the future, but for the present. I just want to treat each other sincerely, hold each other's hands and run forward unswervingly. You don't need to worry about whether the person you like is tall or short, handsome or ugly, rich or poor, stubborn or academically excellent. As long as he cares enough about you and loves you, he will try to go in a certain direction. To paraphrase an online saying, "If you gamble with him all your life, he won't be willing to let you lose."
The premise must be two of a kind. Otherwise, at the same time, you will have a bad shadow on your feelings from the beginning, which is not conducive to physical and mental health.