In children's minds, parents are like a wall that never collapses. However, no one will always be a child, and no one will always stand under the roof of the family. Stepping into life, leaving the harbor of parents and the help of relatives and friends is the road to growth of life. We must learn to be independent.
You need independence in life. We are not adults yet, and we don't need to work to support ourselves for the time being, but our basic independent ability is to take care of ourselves, manage our pocket money, do our own thing, cook for ourselves and so on. As an adult, you should know how to support yourself. There is a saying circulating in the society: "Parents who really know how to educate their children give their children not a fortune, but an independent and self-reliant spiritual wealth." Mr. Stanley is the president of one of the 500 largest companies in America and the richest man in the world. He teaches children how to manage money, how to make money and how to treat money. At the same time, he told them that their hard-earned money is the most precious, and they should learn to be independent.
You need to be independent in your studies. Nowadays, many students don't take learning as their own business, and often let their parents supervise and blame them. Some people complain that their parents are not college students and take it for granted that they are behind others, but in fact, learning ultimately depends on themselves. It is true that it is not uncommon to "muddle through" at all times and in all countries. Madame Curie's daughter is a scientist and a Nobel Prize winner. San Sutong was one of the "Eight Masters in Tang and Song Dynasties" ... They were influenced by their parents since childhood and became interested in a certain subject, which is one of the reasons for their success. China mathematician Zhang Guanghou's father was an illiterate miner and his family was poor. However, Zhang Guanghou has made great achievements in mathematics research through his own efforts and diligence. It can be seen that their success is not inherited by their parents, but the result of their own efforts. As the saying goes, "the master leads the door and practices in the individual." Parents and teachers have pointed out the direction and learning methods for us, and they can't accompany us all our lives. Further study and research depends on yourself.
You need to be independent at work. As the saying goes, "depend on your parents at home and your friends when you go out." But this sentence is no longer applicable in today's society. Today's society needs competition, real materials and DIY talents, and people who "enter through the back door" have no place. Be independent at work, know how to find a job by yourself, rise step by step by relying on your own strength, be good at showing your talents in front of leaders, don't lament your talents all day, complete tasks independently, solve difficulties independently, and be brave in trying. As Hugo said, "I would rather rely on my own strength to open the future than seek the favor of the powerful." Believe that "I am my own master!" When Yang Lan was a senior, she applied for the job of CCTV host. In the face of such a strong player as Lin, she resolutely said to the judges: "Whether you choose me or not, I must show it today." She did so, and as a result, she defeated many strong players and got her wish. Su Xun, a famous essayist in Song Dynasty, once showed his 22 carefully written articles to Hanlin Ouyang Xiu for appreciation and recommended them to the imperial court.
I remember a Latin American proverb: "Self-reliance is better than the hand of God." A person's growth is inseparable from the upbringing of parents, the upbringing of society and the teaching of teachers. However, these are external factors, and learning independence is the key. Only when a person attaches importance to independent ability and strictly demands himself under favorable conditions can he move towards the other side of success!
As we all know, the law followed by nature is "survival of the fittest". Only those who have a good grasp of the law of survival can adapt to the environment more quickly. Let's take a look at the growth history of Kitty Hawk first. The mother eagle gave the baby eagle the first life, but the second and third lives had to be won back by the baby eagle, because in the eagle family, every baby eagle had to go through many "gates of hell" to be reborn. Once you can't stand on your own feet, you will be eliminated, which is beyond the power of mother eagle. This is the first hurdle when the baby eagle first sheds its hair. This hurdle depends entirely on the eagle's own will to fight against life. In this fierce competition, those young eagles who can't stand on their own feet and have no perseverance will be taken away by death, while those young eagles with tenacious perseverance can survive without the care of their mothers. Learning to fly high is another hurdle for young eagles to become eagles. During the experience, sometimes the mother eagle will push the baby eagle off the cliff. If the eagle does not have a tenacious will to stand on its own feet, it will be shattered. In the animal kingdom, animals need to be self-reliant, and so do humans. Although Zhang Haidi is accompanied by a wheelchair, he can "read the whole world" instead of "walking on Wan Li Road". Without the guidance of a famous teacher, she learned three foreign languages with tenacious perseverance, which is not easy for ordinary people. But Zhang Haidi did it with the spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement. Not only that, she has also made remarkable achievements in literary creation. In her works, we can clearly see her self-reliance and self-reliance character. If she is not a self-reliant person and depends on others and parents because of her disability, will she have today's brilliant achievements? However, in today's society, some people have great dependence on ideas. They are called "neets", gnawing at the society, gnawing at their parents and fooling around all day. These idle people have nothing to do, can't do big things, don't want to do small things, and do nothing all day. Such people are extremely lacking in the spirit of self-reliance. They can't live independently and rely on their parents or social support. But their parents can't take care of them all their lives, others' support is limited, and their skills are unlimited. Such people will be eliminated by society. I hope there are as few such people as possible, otherwise, they are like locusts in crops and termites in banks, endangering the world. To this end, we should learn to stand on our own feet, learn to be self-reliant and not become a burden to others. However, in order not to become a burden to others and be eliminated by society, we must learn to stand on our own feet from an early age. When I was a child, the kindergarten teacher told every child to "do your own thing". By now, when we grow up, we should be more self-reliant and strive to be useful people in society.
People should learn to stand on their own feet.
Mr. Ibsen once said: "The strongest person in the world is an independent person." Yes, because independent individuals will make a difference, independent countries will not be bullied and achieve prosperity. Mr. Tao Xingzhi also said: "It is not a hero to sweat, eat, rely on people, rely on the sky and rely on ancestors." These undoubtedly show that people should learn to stand on their own feet, but also know how to stand on their own feet. Because one day we will grow up and have to solve and face many things by ourselves. We can't rely on others for everything, because people who are not sensible and self-reliant will be eliminated by society. It is reported that a mother in Jinan, Shandong Province once found her son lost in the street, and the mother looked for it for a long time before finding it. She looked at her son and said, "Mom won't let you go out." Since then, her son can't go to school, and even eat and wash his face can only be in bed, and nothing is allowed. Now her son is over 30 years old, but as smart as a 7-year-old child, he can't stand on his own feet at all. This report undoubtedly illustrates a problem that people should learn to stand on their own feet.
Zhang Wentian is a senior cadre of the Party, but his education for his son is very strict. He doesn't want his son to be vain and dependent on his father's position. Even after his death, he gave 40 thousand yuan in his will to the party organization as a party fee, and didn't give a penny to his son. Because he understands that it is the best legacy to let children learn to stand on their own feet. Self-reliance also makes the country rich and strong. 1840 When the Opium War broke out, China fell into a semi-colonial and semi-feudal society. Due to the incompetence of the Qing government, it signed a series of treaties with imperialism, but these did not defeat independent China, and were finally built on 1949+00+ 1. President Mao Zedong said in Tiananmen Square: "The people of China have stood up!" Since then, China can stand proudly among the nations of the world.
From the individual to the country, self-reliance is a strong backing. Teenagers should get out of your greenhouse quickly, because they will never grow up in it. Only by learning to stand on your own feet and knowing how to stand on your own feet can you become a pillar of the country!