First, Han Xin was humiliated by his crotch and won the enemy team, thus becoming the general of Han Xin. When Han Xin was young, he was poor and looked down upon. One day, a butcher pointed to Han Xin's nose and said, "Dare you stab me twice? If you dare not, please climb under my crotch. " It's really cruel Hearing this, Han Xin couldn't help getting angry and wanted to teach him a lesson. But on second thought, I Han Xin why want to argue with the butcher, have a plenty of time, so a grind, a cruel, then laid hands on him from the butcher's leg. Later, Han Xin was released as a general by Liu Bang. Instead of killing the butcher, he gave him gold and appointed him as an official, which deeply moved him. He not only cleared up personal grudges, but finally became a warrior who gave his life to protect Han Xin. Han Xin's tolerance and measurement are great, and his patience is strong! This is unthinkable. It was his self-denial that influenced the butcher and won the enemy's team. The butcher became Han Xin's personal soldier. It can be seen that forbearance is not cowardice, on the contrary, it requires self-confidence and perseverance, and it is focused on the future.
Secondly, Lin Xiangru is a country, and Lian Po is a general of Zhao, who is very brave. Lin Xiangru made great contributions in One Piece's Return to Zhao and Mianchi Conference, ranking above Lian Po. Lian Po was unconvinced and tried to humiliate Lin Xiangru many times, but Lin Xiangru often avoided it. On one occasion, when Lin Xiangru went out by car, he saw Lian Po's carriage far away and made a detour. Wait until near the imperial court, in order not to compete with Lian Po before and after the ranking, Lin Xiangru often pushed the patient not to court. These forbearing behaviors humiliated Lin Xiangru in public and offered to resign. Lin Xiangru said, "The governors dare not attack Zhao for fear of me and Lian. Now that two tigers are fighting, there is bound to be a wound. I am not afraid of him, but I am revenge for my country! " Lian Po was greatly moved after hearing this, and went to confession with Vitex negundo on his back. That's why there was a "humble apology", and from then on, the princes of Zhao lived in harmony. It can be seen that tolerance is the overall situation.
This is why I think tolerance is not cowardice, but the overall situation and the future. In a complicated life, it is valuable to be patient. Endurance does not mean retreat or cowardice. It doesn't mean that you are indifferent to misunderstanding, injustice or even slander. Tolerance is the overall situation, focusing on the future. Forbearance always influences the superficial behavior of others with a quiet and peaceful attitude, and tolerates the unreasonable behavior of others with a generous attitude. In the end, it warned the world with undisputed career success. Therefore, we can say that tolerance is rational, forbearing and rigid, and retreat for progress; People who can endure will be firm, patient, have good psychological and moral qualities, and will get everyone's support and respect.
Tolerance is not only a realm, but also a life knowledge. Let's master and apply this knowledge in our life!
2. composition: cowardice is not better than forbearance, but it does not mean cowardice. "A scholar can be killed but not humiliated" is a well-known wisdom, but I have another opinion on this statement. Some people say, "forbearance is cowardice, hegemony and incompetence, and being a man cannot be inferior to others."
The classmate said, "If someone hits you, you have to pay back ten times, and you can't be ashamed." The friend said, "People should have dignity, and you can't swallow it." And I said, "forbearance means taking care of the overall situation and focusing on the future."
Maybe you will say, "Don't you fight back when others hit you?" But I will say, "I won't fight back until I know why others hit me." I will put up with it. After a while, I will find the reason to make others friends with me, so that I have one less enemy and one more friend. "
I think tolerance is the overall situation, focusing on the future. There are other reasons.
First, Han Xin was humiliated by his crotch and won the enemy team, thus becoming the general of Han Xin. When Han Xin was young, he was poor and looked down upon. One day, a butcher pointed to Han Xin's nose and said, "Dare you stab me twice? If you dare not, please climb under my crotch. "
It's really cruel Hearing this, Han Xin couldn't help getting angry and wanted to teach him a lesson. But on second thought, I Han Xin why want to argue with the butcher, have a plenty of time, so a grind, a cruel, then laid hands on him from the butcher's leg.
Later, Han Xin was released as a general by Liu Bang. Instead of killing the butcher, he gave him gold and appointed him as an official, which deeply moved him. He not only cleared up personal grudges, but finally became a warrior who gave his life to protect Han Xin. Han Xin's tolerance and measurement are great, and his patience is strong! This is unthinkable.
It was his self-denial that influenced the butcher and won the enemy's team. The butcher became Han Xin's personal soldier. It can be seen that forbearance is not cowardice, on the contrary, it requires self-confidence and perseverance, and it is focused on the future. Secondly, Lin Xiangru is a country, and Lian Po is a general of Zhao, who is very brave.
Lin Xiangru made great contributions in One Piece's Return to Zhao and Mianchi Conference, ranking above Lian Po. Lian Po was unconvinced and tried to humiliate Lin Xiangru many times, but Lin Xiangru often avoided it.
On one occasion, when Lin Xiangru went out by car, he saw Lian Po's carriage far away and made a detour. Wait until near the imperial court, in order not to compete with Lian Po before and after the ranking, Lin Xiangru often pushed the patient not to court.
These forbearing behaviors humiliated Lin Xiangru in public and offered to resign. Lin Xiangru said, "The governors dare not attack Zhao for fear of me and Lian.
Now that two tigers are fighting, there is bound to be a wound. I'm not afraid of him, but I want to avenge my country! Hearing this, Lian Po was greatly moved and went confessing with Vitex negundo on his back. "。 That's why he "offered a humble apology" and lived in harmony with the princes of Zhao from then on.
It can be seen that tolerance is the overall situation. This is why I think tolerance is not cowardice, but the overall situation and the future.
In a complicated life, it is valuable to be patient. Endurance does not mean retreat or cowardice. It doesn't mean that you are indifferent to misunderstanding, injustice or even slander.
Tolerance is the overall situation, focusing on the future. Forbearance always influences the superficial behavior of others with a quiet and peaceful attitude, and tolerates the unreasonable behavior of others with a generous attitude.
In the end, it warned the world with undisputed career success. Therefore, we can say that tolerance is rational, forbearing and rigid, and retreat for progress; People who can endure will be firm, patient, have good psychological and moral qualities, and will get everyone's support and respect.
Tolerance is not only a realm, but also a life knowledge. Let us master and apply this knowledge in our life.
3. Composition: Not cowardice is better than patience, but patience is not cowardice.
"A scholar can be killed but not humiliated" is a well-known wisdom, but I have another opinion on this statement. Some people say, "forbearance is cowardice, bullying and incompetence, and you can't be inferior to others." The classmate said, "If someone hits you, you have to pay back ten times, and you can't be ashamed." The friend said, "People should have dignity, and you can't swallow it." And I said, "forbearance means taking care of the overall situation and focusing on the future." Maybe you will say, "Don't you fight back when others hit you?" But I will say, "I won't fight back until I know why others hit me." I will put up with it. After a while, I will find the reason to make others friends with me, so that I have one less enemy and one more friend. " I think tolerance is the overall situation, focusing on the future. There are other reasons.
First, Han Xin was humiliated by his crotch and won the enemy team, thus becoming the general of Han Xin. When Han Xin was young, he was poor and looked down upon. One day, a butcher pointed to Han Xin's nose and said, "Dare you stab me twice? If you dare not, please climb under my crotch. " It's really cruel Hearing this, Han Xin couldn't help getting angry and wanted to teach him a lesson. But on second thought, I Han Xin why want to argue with the butcher, have a plenty of time, so a grind, a cruel, then laid hands on him from the butcher's leg. Later, Han Xin was released as a general by Liu Bang. Instead of killing the butcher, he gave him gold and appointed him as an official, which deeply moved him. He not only cleared up personal grudges, but finally became a warrior who gave his life to protect Han Xin. Han Xin's tolerance and measurement are great, and his patience is strong! This is unthinkable. It was his self-denial that influenced the butcher and won the enemy's team. The butcher became Han Xin's personal soldier. It can be seen that forbearance is not cowardice, on the contrary, it requires self-confidence and perseverance, and it is focused on the future.
Secondly, Lin Xiangru is a country, and Lian Po is a general of Zhao, who is very brave. Lin Xiangru made great contributions in One Piece's Return to Zhao and Mianchi Conference, ranking above Lian Po. Lian Po was unconvinced and tried to humiliate Lin Xiangru many times, but Lin Xiangru often avoided it. On one occasion, when Lin Xiangru went out by car, he saw Lian Po's carriage far away and made a detour. Wait until near the imperial court, in order not to compete with Lian Po before and after the ranking, Lin Xiangru often pushed the patient not to court. These forbearing behaviors humiliated Lin Xiangru in public and offered to resign. Lin Xiangru said, "The governors dare not attack Zhao for fear of me and Lian. Now that two tigers are fighting, there is bound to be a wound. I am not afraid of him, but I am revenge for my country! " Lian Po was greatly moved after hearing this, and went to plead guilty with Jing Jing, so he "offered a humble apology" and from then on, the princes of Zhao were in harmony. It can be seen that tolerance is the overall situation.
This is why I think tolerance is not cowardice, but the overall situation and the future. In a complicated life, it is valuable to be patient. Endurance does not mean retreat or cowardice. It doesn't mean that you are indifferent to misunderstanding, injustice or even slander. Tolerance is the overall situation, focusing on the future. Forbearance always influences the superficial behavior of others with a quiet and peaceful attitude, and tolerates the unreasonable behavior of others with a generous attitude. In the end, it warned the world with undisputed career success. Therefore, we can say that tolerance is rational, forbearing and rigid, and retreat for progress; People who can endure will be firm, patient, have good psychological and moral qualities, and will get everyone's support and respect.
Tolerance is not only a realm, but also a life knowledge. Let's master and apply this knowledge in our life!
4. Kind composition, patience = weakness. I saw an old horse pulling a broken car at dusk, and I said it was horse cowardice. It should break free and run to the grassland and scream there! When I saw the wind sweeping away the fallen leaves, I said, this is the cowardice of the leaves. It should hold on to the branches and swear not to drop them! Therefore, I don't want to suffer a little loss. When I am a coward, I will keep it in my heart and wait for an opportunity to repay even if my partners inadvertently irritate me. I don't think this is cowardice!
When I watched Journey to the West, I said that the Tang Priest was a cowardly monster and could be killed by Wukong with a stick. Why did he discourage and ask Wukong to let go? When reading the story, I once read an article: a rich businessman lost a priceless gem, which he thought was stolen by a neighbor priest, so he spread it everywhere. People have been talking about it: "You see, this gentle and upright priest can do such a theft." Everyone alienated him and rejected him. The priest's friend advised him to defend himself quickly. The priest said nothing but shook his head gently. Friends gradually believed: "The priest took the gem." Decades have passed, and businessmen are already full of children and grandchildren. One day, his grandson found a bright stone in a wooden box and asked the businessman curiously, "What is this?" The merchant's hand trembled. This is the jewel he lost decades ago! His eyes are full of tears, and he has wronged the priest for so many years. When he found the priest, he was senile. He knelt in front of the priest and said, "I'm sorry I let you get hooked for so many years." The priest didn't surprise or sigh, just smiled gently: "Innocent people are always innocent. Isn't this to clarify my charges? " I sighed, this is the cowardice of the priest, why not clarify yourself loudly?
With the passage of time, I have seen a lot and learned a lot. I have realized what real cowardice is!
The domestic horse is not cowardly, because it knows how to contribute when pulling a cart. If all the horses are running on the grassland, who will carry the piles of grain and goods? Leaves are not fragile, they wither because they know how to sacrifice. If they don't fall, how can there be new leaves and a prosperous tree? Tang Priest is not weak, he has a broad mind and a kind heart. That priest is not cowardly, he knows tolerance and forbearance, he has waited for his innocence for decades, and he knows what to look down upon and what to put down! "Take a step back and broaden the horizon." I understand now that retrogression is not cowardice, but represents a broad mind! Tolerance is not cowardice, tolerance represents kindness and tolerance!
Competition is inevitable in life. It is inevitable that there will be bumps and bumps. Everyone is a member of society. If everyone refuses to regress, how can society be harmonious? To take a step back, I look at the sky and smile, white clouds are floating gently, and I no longer worry about trivial things, because I understand that tolerance is not cowardice!
There is a kind of writing wisdom called forbearance and cowardice, which everyone has. There are many doorways of wisdom, and looking at a problem in many ways is a kind of wisdom; It is a kind of wisdom to deal with problems and let both sides with different opinions agree; It is wisdom and humility to minimize the damage to interests.
During the Three Kingdoms period, Jiang Wan, who presided over the state affairs in Shu, was more tolerant. When he talked to one of Yang's subordinates, Yang always didn't answer, and someone accused him of "negligence". Jiang Wan said:' Everyone has his own temperament, so it is not his nature to let him praise me face to face; Let him say my fault to my face, it's not his book; Sex; I made him think that I would be humiliated, so I kept silent. "Jiang wan is considerate to people and is known as' the prime minister can punt in his stomach'. Modesty has the power to bring happiness; Modesty can resolve interpersonal conflicts, make interpersonal harmony and make people more accessible.
Teacher Lou recommended Di Ren as prime minister many times, but Di didn't know it and often pushed him out. In this regard, Teacher Lou doesn't mind at all. De Renjie sighed after knowing the truth: "I don't see the edge of Lou Gong doing good deeds." Modesty is a virtue, which is most beneficial to me. Just as Mr Lou tolerated Di Renjie, he gained something, gained respect from others, and died a fair death. Modesty is indeed a kind of wisdom.
Modesty is not cowardice, but a kind of cultivation, courage and wisdom. Who has achieved great things in history without such wisdom? Lin Xiangru doesn't want to compete with Lian Po for position. On the way, I met even the old general and repeatedly avoided. This open-minded and humble spirit also left a story for our future generations. Because of his wisdom, Lian Po later offered a humble apology, and humility could turn contradictions into harmony.
Modesty is a doorway, which can't be learned at once. It can only be achieved by accumulation bit by bit. Modesty is a doorway, which can help people reduce the loss of interests, which is often reflected in people's self-cultivation. It determines people's success or failure, and humility will bring a little beauty and happiness to their lives and those of others. However, modesty is neither unprincipled concession nor humiliating obedience. We must have this humility.
Opening your heart, examining yourself and empathizing with others are humility and wisdom.
The wisdom of modesty is like an elegant scroll of ink painting; The wisdom of humility is like a beautiful and graceful article; Modesty is like a fresh poem. Modesty is a kind of life wisdom that everyone must have.
6. Concession is not necessarily cowardice. Retreat is not cowardice.
Some people carry it through because of a sentence "a gentleman would rather die than surrender", while others know how to be flexible because of a sentence "a gentleman can bend and stretch". These two contradictory words have entangled the tough guys in China for five thousand years, and some people are obsessed with some things because of that sentence.
I have my opinion. The martyrs in the war years would rather die than surrender, which is naturally a valuable spirit. It is obviously foolish to use it in a peaceful and prosperous modern society. If business people don't know how to be flexible and keep the spirit of refusing to surrender, the final result will be a closed door. But the workers don't know how to improve, and they don't know how to keep the unyielding spirit, which makes the products fail to keep pace with the times and go bankrupt. It can be seen that it is not reflected in such a desperate situation, but that these four words can only play a role in wartime. Because I would rather die than surrender, I may have saved a village. Because it is better to die than to surrender, which will make the country win smoothly. But this cannot be the reason why we blindly imitate the spirit. Choosing according to the situation is the right way. Therefore, retreat is not cowardice, and it is natural to be flexible.
The word "flexibility" is excellent, but the good thing is that it contains two meanings: flexibility and flexibility. But most people don't pay attention to the word "stretch" and only see the word "bend" in front, so they think the person who said this is very timid. If you are careful and find the word "stretch" behind you, then you will understand that this word is to tell people to be flexible, not to make you shrink back and embark on a cowardly road. Gou Jian, the King of Yue, endured for ten years and finally got his things back. This allusion not only says that it is not too late for a gentleman to take revenge for ten years, but more importantly, it shows that a gentleman can bend and stretch. When you retreat to a certain extent, you will rise when it is time to stretch.
Retreat does not mean cowardice, on the contrary, it does not mean being strong to death. We can't label these spirits at will. After all, life is not a written script, and knowing how to be flexible is the most important thing.
I hope I can help you make a paper net.
7. Writing a composition with forbearance is to keep the blade in mind. Imagine that a person who can tolerate a white blade in his heart is the "ninja" mentioned in this article, not the "ninja" in Japanese culture.
There is a saying: "Benevolence is invincible." But I want to say: "Ninja is invincible." (With the help of "the benevolent is invincible" and changed to "the ninja is invincible", it is easy to make an argument, which is naturally distinct and takes care of the topic. )
The most classic example is Han Xin, who was humiliated by street hooligans and became the object of ridicule. Everyone thinks this guy is too spineless and will accomplish nothing in the future. But Han Xin's success in the future made them feel ashamed. (positive example, typical. The narrative is clean and neat. )
Some people say that life is full of choices. When Han Xin is humiliated, he has two choices: either pass or kill the other person with one knife. However, he knew that although killing each other could be a "gentleman" for a while, his ideal and ambition could only stop at the guillotine.
So "forbearance" plays a very important role at this time. If he can't bear it, he can only be silent in the long river forever. Analyze the facts, get to the point, and don't bother to say anything more. )
A good example is stock speculation. The stock market is hot these days, and people flock to the market. However, many small and medium-sized investors have psychological problems: they are happy when they go up, buy wildly when they fall, and worry and sell wildly when they fall. In the end, it didn't make money when it went up, but it also lost money when it fell. Buffett put it well: "I am afraid when others are happy, and I am glad when others are afraid." It boils down to four words: "buy down and sell up". But many investors can't do it because they are not "bears". Knowing that it won't fall again, I just can't help it. I wanted to sell at the sight of losing money, and the result became "selling down and buying up". This psychological formation can only be summed up as "unbearable". (Connecting with social reality, giving negative examples, combining narration with discussion. )
Forbearance, since the "blade" is in the heart, its process is bound to be painful, and it is bound to bear the double pressure of spirit and body. In fact, as senior three students, we are a good example. The teacher said: learning is to fight against forgetting. This adds another mountain to our shoulders. Sometimes we say that we are worse off than people in the old society. There are three mountains on their shoulders, and we have four: one is the expectation of family members; Second, the pressure of the school; Thirdly, the contrast between my "wonderful" life after the college entrance examination and real life has also given me great pressure; Fourth, the forgetting mentioned above, we should write down every text, every word, every formula ... All this must be endured, and sometimes we will always remind ourselves that this is China, and this is the college entrance examination. Everything will be fine with patience.
Of course, passive patience is absolutely not desirable. Chinese medicine says: anything that is suppressed for a long time will become a disease, and many diseases are known to be suppressed. Some people say: I can't stand it anymore. Put up with it, it is better to vent. Playing ball and running are good. Finally, write about the study life of the students who study hard with themselves, make a brief analysis and point out their lifestyle. )
In a word, forbearance is a very important character. If a person can endure, endure and be kind, his life path will be "suddenly enlightened". Summarize the full text, reiterate the argument, take care of the beginning, and integrate the beginning and the end. The language is still clean and tidy. )
8. Composition: Whether tolerance is cowardly and brave is an excellent quality, but tolerance does not mean cowardice, but cowardice. Sometimes, we should choose to be patient. As the saying goes, "Be patient for a while and take a step back."
Since entering the junior high school campus, tolerance has almost become a commonplace. Although it is only a short period of more than half a year, I have endured it countless times. When I was writing my homework, someone deliberately shook the table, and I endured it; When I was walking in the classroom, there was a curse in my ear, and I gave in ... Maybe you would think it was timid, but I want to tell you: it wasn't. Endure it if you can, and make trouble if you can, which can reduce some unnecessary disputes between classmates. Why not?
Tolerance is needed not only in school but also in family life.
I remember two years ago, my neighbor's dog killed one of my chickens and destroyed our vegetable garden. Grandma couldn't help it, so she went to them to judge. As a result, the two families couldn't bear to give up and almost moved the real thing-hitting people with bricks, but fortunately the onlookers stopped it in time. Since then, our relationship has been bad.
About a year later, they moved away and came to a new family. They were going to build a small house, and when they built it, they accidentally took up a little land in my house. Grandma is unhappy again and wants to talk to them. Fortunately, I found it early and stopped it. I said to my grandmother, "Grandma, don't go!" " Have you forgotten what happened a year ago? Just a little land! Anyway, we don't have to use it, just do a good deed! After all, harmony between people is the most important thing! "Grandma didn't care because of my face. An argument is so easy to avoid.
You see, tolerance is so powerful! Now, do you still think forbearance is cowardice and a sign of cowardice? Learn from me and choose patience, and you will find more "magic" in it, which will benefit you a lot!