Life is like the sea, tolerance is a boat, rowing in the sea, you know the width of the sea; Life is like a mountain, tolerance is the path, climb along the path and you will know the height of the mountain; Life is like a song, tolerance is a song, and only by singing with it can you know the beauty of this song. As long as I can remember, I have known a sentence: what is wider than the sea is the sky, and what is wider than the sky is the human mind. Endure a calm moment and take a step back. "Caring for your heart" is a way to cultivate your broad mind.
Once, I lied to my friend in good faith, but it was a white lie, but I didn't know that my friend was furious with me. How wronged I feel! But putting yourself in my friend's shoes really hurt me, so I held back my anger. Finally, we made up.
Imagine if I was angry with him at that time, and the consequences would be unimaginable. I would lose both sides and lose a precious friendship. In fact, many times, misunderstandings are caused by not "taking good care of each other", not empathizing with each other's feelings, and they can't stand each other, and the outcome is unsightly.
When interacting with people, it is inevitable that you will have conflicts with your peers and bump into others. Some injuries are unintentional and some are intentional, but in any case, you should be generous and the prime minister can punt in his stomach. In ancient times, there was a Taoist who loved flowers and plants, especially orchids. On weekdays, he planted many orchids in the temple and took good care of them. One day, the monk will leave the temple for two days and go out for alms. Before he left, he specifically told his disciples to feed the flowers and plants well and not to make mistakes. Who knows, it rained cats and dogs that night and the wind was strong. The flowers and plants in the yard died because they didn't move into the house, which was a miserable scene. The disciples gathered at the door, waiting for the master to come back and be scolded. When the monk returned to the temple, he was heartbroken to see the flowers and plants he had carefully cultivated for many years destroyed, but he didn't blame his disciples, only said calmly, "I didn't plant orchids because I was angry."
What suppressed the anger in his heart, what dispelled his idea of getting angry, and what made him face this scene calmly? It is tolerance, it is great tolerance! Learn to be tolerant, learn to understand others, relax, maintain a good attitude and raise the beautiful sails of life.
Chapter 2: Learn to be tolerant.
Blue sky can make birds fly freely, because it has learned tolerance and embraced them; The vast earth bears everything, because it has learned tolerance, and it embraces everything. What about us? Should we be more accommodating?
When I was a child, I made a scene because my deskmate crossed the "thunder pool" and ignored each other for a week;
When I grew up, I cried in the office because my homework was copied by my classmates and misunderstood by my teacher.
Later, people didn't mean to offend you, but insisted on irrelevant issues and even abused the market. ...
Many times, we hurt each other for a little so-called justice in our hearts and make others feel uncomfortable. Actually, think about it. Why bother? Wouldn't it be better to relax?
Someone once said, "The ocean is the widest in the world, the sky is wider than the ocean, and your mind is wider than the sky." Tolerance is a warm spring breeze that gently blows into your heart. Tolerance is the sunshine through the branches, which can melt the ice in your heart. Tolerance can light up the haze in your heart, let you get rid of the bondage of darkness and regain the light.
The story of "Lian and Lin intersect" gives us profound enlightenment. If Lin Xiangru was a narrow-minded person, I'm afraid Zhao would have been destroyed. But it was Lin Xiangru's broad mind that moved Lian Po and made Lian Po offer a humble apology, and they became awkward friends. Let the powerful state of Qin be armed to the teeth, but dare not attack Zhao easily. Tolerance has had a great effect.
Tolerance is actually a manifestation of loving others and loving yourself. Tolerance can win the respect and applause of others. Tolerance can be like a bright flag, which makes us daydream and have endless aftertaste. ...
If you say that you have to deal with people you don't like every day, you will be very unhappy and will definitely whisper, "I don't like this person!" " "But this is just caused by different personalities, not a question of whether you can adapt. Just think about it: "I don't like this person, but it's just caused by different personalities, and people also have the right to choose." "So, you learned to be tolerant.
More tolerance, less quarreling, more tolerance and less jealousy. Because of tolerance, we are more confident. Because of tolerance, our future is brighter.
Let's thank tolerance! With tolerance, there will be so many beautiful memories; Only with tolerance can we have a young mind.
Chapter III: Learn to be tolerant.
Tolerance is a kind of accomplishment, but also a virtue. Tolerance is not timidity, but magnanimity. Be a man and learn to be tolerant.
Tolerance is like water. Tolerance means forgiving others' mistakes, not complaining about others, not haggling over every ounce, and being kind and generous. Tolerance is like water, and encountering contradictions is often more effective than excessive retaliation. It is like a clear spring, slowly erasing each other's temporary hostility and making people calm and sober.
Tolerance is like fire. Because further tolerance not only means not caring about personal gains and losses, but also means warming others' hearts with your own love and sincerity. Calm as water tolerance is rare; The tolerance of giving charcoal in the snow is even more commendable and moving. Tolerance can melt the freeze in each other's hearts and shoot the heat of love into each other's hearts. Isn't this tolerance exactly what people need in this competitive era? Choosing tolerance means choosing care and warmth, and also choosing the vastness of life.
Tolerance is poetic. Tolerance is a poem of life. The highest state of tolerance is not only manifested in the handling of something in daily life, but also sublimated into a life attitude towards others. The meaning of tolerance is not limited to the understanding and care between people, but the tolerance and fraternity of all life between heaven and earth.
Tolerance is a science. For small mistakes, small mistakes, you can happily tolerate each other. But for big mistakes, big mistakes must be considered clearly. Tolerance is not shielding or hiding, but helping.
Of course, tolerance should be "strict with yourself and lenient with others". Forgiving yourself easily is not tolerance, but cowardice. "Be lenient with others" depends on the object, and those who are tolerant and do not cherish tolerance are promiscuous. Tolerance to those who are not worthy of tolerance is tolerance; It is indulgence to tolerate unforgivable people. Therefore, tolerance itself is also a science.
Because of tolerance, complex life becomes pure; Because of tolerance, monotonous life is beautiful. What a beautiful color tolerance has given life!
The world is so wide, but there is something wider than him-the human heart. Let's learn tolerance!
Chapter Four: Learn to be tolerant.
What is tolerance? Tolerance is the virtue of "don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you", the magnanimity of "be tolerant to others", the mind of "be tolerant to others", and the quality of "blame yourself with the heart of blaming others and forgive others with the heart of forgiving yourself".
In history, there was a Shangqing named Lin Xiangru. Because of his meritorious escort, his official position climbed all the way, causing general Lian Po's jealousy and dissatisfaction, and he turned against him everywhere. Lin Xiangru saw Lian Po's mind, and when facing Lian Po's unreasonable troubles, he always laughed it off and avoided it, which made Lian Po understand his ignorance, and thus had the story of "offering a humble apology". It was because of Lin Xiangru's generosity that Lian Po was affected. From then on, the two joined hands and worked hard for Zhao. It can be seen that learning to be tolerant is beneficial to both people and themselves.
But those who are good at jealousy and complain when they are dissatisfied will never succeed in the end. Zhou Yu is an outstanding strategist with outstanding talent and resourcefulness. But when he learned of Zhuge Liang's coup, he knew that he could not compete with it, but he was unwilling. He was preoccupied with how to defeat Zhuge Liang, sighed "He Sheng Liang Chu" and finally died of vomiting blood. Well, why bother? If Zhou Yu had been as tolerant and generous as Lin Xiangru, I think his ending would not be so tragic!
In life, we will inevitably have friction with people. When someone accidentally bumps into you, you should say "it doesn't matter" to him; When someone apologizes for breaking your things, you should give him a bright smile with tolerance; When others deliberately target you, you should use your tolerant heart to melt his inner hatred for you.
Hugo said, "The noblest revenge is forgiveness." Yes, tolerance is like the spring breeze in February, melting the frozen soul; Tolerance is like a cup of tea, which dilutes painful memories; Tolerance is like a good medicine, which heals inner wounds. Let's be more tolerant, let's have more friends and make life more relaxed and happy!
Chapter 5: Learn to be tolerant.
Tolerance is a virtue; Tolerance is a kind of mind; Tolerance is an honor. Learn tolerance. Make your life more exciting.
The stories of Lian Po and Lin Xiangru are household names, and everyone is moved by Lin Xiangru's noble character. Lin Xiangru and Lian Po were officials in the same dynasty, Lin Xiangru was a general and Lian Po was a military commander. Lian Po was jealous because he was dissatisfied with Lin Xiangru's official position. He opposed him everywhere and looked down on him. Lin Xiangru, on the other hand, often grovelled and tolerated him. When he met head-on on the same road, Lian Po's carriage would pass first. He is well aware that the minister's disagreement will pose a threat to national security. Lian Po knew that he was ashamed, so he took off his coat, put Vitex negundo on his back, and offered a humble apology. Tolerant Lin Xiangru naturally won't blame him. Since then, the two of them, Qi Xin, have made joint efforts to contribute to the development of the country, and Lin Xiangru has also received a lot of respect and admiration.
Learning to be tolerant is to have noble virtues!
Everyone must remember the story of "Liuchi Lane": a family wrote to their relatives who were officials in Beijing, saying that their neighbors occupied three feet of his house. In his reply, the man said, "A thousand miles of books are just a wall. Why not let him be three feet?" The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang. "After the family received the letter, they immediately understood the meaning and stopped playing. Neighbors are also ashamed when they know. So they gave in and formed a six-foot driveway. This story has spread to this day and is praised by future generations.
Tolerance is a broad mind, learn to be tolerant, and with a broad mind, life will be more harmonious and beautiful!
Nowadays, the increasingly competitive society needs more tolerant qualities. Competitors of the Olympic Games compete fiercely on the field. They are naturally happy to win, but they are not discouraged to lose. Instead, I congratulate my opponent in a friendly way and treat everything with tolerance. There will be no complaints and revenge. Even if you lose, it is also worthy of applause.
Tolerance is an intangible honor, which can improve people's moral level and win others' praise!
Learn to be tolerant, have the spirit of tolerance, and face life generously, and you will feel different wonderful things in life!
Chapter 6: Learn to be tolerant.
The blue sea contains the turbulent waves and is calm; The vast sky tolerated the madness of lightning storms before the sun was shining; The green forest tolerates the law of the jungle and is lush.
This is tolerance.
Tolerance goes both ways. In life, each of us is not a "saint", and it is inevitable that we will hurt others unintentionally. For example, stepping on someone else's feet, splashing mud on others, and accidentally hurting others with words, then we all hope to get others' understanding and tolerance. Sometimes we are unintentionally hurt by others, but we should also sincerely understand others' "sorry". Therefore, we should learn to be tolerant. Only when we can tolerate others will others tolerate us. As Turgenev said, "People who can't tolerate others don't deserve to be tolerated by others."
Tolerance is a virtue and a "lubricating oil" for people to get along with each other. By learning tolerance, we can go deep into each other's hearts to feel and experience, so that we can forgive others from the heart.
"Be lenient with others" has been the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation since ancient times. In the Qing Dynasty, there was a college student named Zhang Ying. Once, he received a letter from home saying that his family and neighbors had a dispute over three feet of land and wanted to go to court. I hope he can use his power for himself and let his family win the lawsuit. Brinton laughed after reading it, wrote a reply and attached a poem:
"Thousands of miles to write a book just for the wall, so let him three feet what's the harm? The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, and Qin Shihuang is not seen. " The family read the letter and gave up three feet. When the neighbors saw it, they also gave up three feet. So it became a "six-foot lane". This story of turning war into friendship has spread to this day and has become a beautiful talk.
Tolerance is a realm. When a person forgives others once, his spirit is promoted to a higher level. Learn to be tolerant, and you will master an effective method of self-improvement.
To learn to be tolerant, we must have a broad mind, always put the interests of the country or the collective first, take care of the overall situation, do not express personal grievances, and do not care about personal grievances. It is necessary to understand that "bear it, be calm, and take a step back."
Tolerance is air, which can hold both oxygen and ammonia.
Tolerance is a flower that can accommodate both green leaves and thorns;
Tolerance is a mountain road, which can accommodate both flat and rugged;
Learn to be tolerant, and you will be friendly to others and face life positively; Be lenient with others, and you will have one more window, one more warmth and purify yourself.