Typical materials about tolerance 1 During the Kangxi period of the Qing Dynasty, he became a big official in Beijing and was called "Prime Minister Zhang". My hometown is Tongcheng, Anhui, and there is a big family named Ye next to Zhangjia Mansion. That year, the Zhang family rebuilt the mansion, and the courtyard wall covered the boundary of the Ye family. Ye Jiaming knew that the Zhang family was bullying others, but the mansion handed down by his ancestors was not willing to give up, so he argued with the Zhang family and said, "It is better to break the family's busy than to give up an inch of land." The two sides are at loggerheads and conflicts are inevitable. Zhang Ying's wife wrote to her husband at the urging of her people, hoping that Zhang Ying could intervene in this matter. After receiving his wife's letter, Zhang Ying was very dissatisfied that her family relied on his strength to oppress the village, so she wrote a poem for her wife. The poem reads: "A thousand miles of writing is only for the wall, why not let him be three feet?" The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but there is no Qin Shihuang. ".
After reading this poem, Mrs. Zhang didn't quite understand what Zhang Ying did. After repeated recitation, she understood her husband's intention, so she asked her family to take the initiative to retreat 3 feet to build a wall. When Ye Jia learned about it, he was moved by Zhang Ying's generous and polite behavior, and took the initiative to retreat his house by 3 feet. In this way, a 6-foot-wide alley was formed between Zhang and Ye. Later, this incident was widely celebrated, and there was a jingle: it is impossible to fight; Excuse me, Liuchi Lane.
Typical material about tolerance 2 Lincoln has always been tolerant. After he became president, the civil war broke out. At first, the north was at a disadvantage, which made him fidget all day. What followed was others' contempt for his ability. People thought it was a big mistake to elect him president, and Lincoln repaid all those who despised him with tolerance. In the eyes of others, it is almost a kind of self-destructive tolerance, and it is a very dignified tolerance.
Later, it finally aroused the dissatisfaction of a member of parliament. The member said: "You should not try to make friends with those people, but destroy them." Lincoln smiled and replied, "When they become my friends, am I not destroying my enemies?" Yes, a more tolerant and open opponent may be our potential friend.
Typical materials about tolerance 3 During World War II, an army met the enemy in the forest. After fierce fighting, the two soldiers lost contact with the troops.
They trudged through the forest, encouraging and comforting each other. More than ten days have passed, but I still haven't contacted the troops. One day, they killed a deer and lived on venison. Since then, they have never seen any animals. They only carried a little venison on their backs. After another fierce battle, they cleverly avoided the enemy.
Just when he thought he was safe, he heard a gunshot and the young soldier who was walking in front was shot-fortunately, his shoulder was injured! The soldiers behind him came running in fear. He was so scared that he cried with the body of his comrade-in-arms in his arms. He quickly took off his shirt and bandaged the wound for his comrades.
At night, the uninjured soldiers kept shouting their mother's name and looked straight at them. They all thought they couldn't make it. Although they were very hungry, none of them touched the venison around them. The next day, they were saved.
Thirty years later, the wounded soldier Anderson said, "I know who fired that shot. He is my comrade-in-arms." When he hugged me, I touched his hot barrel. But I think I understand him. I know he wants to eat my venison for himself and live for his mother. For the next 30 years, I pretended not to know anything about it and never mentioned it. His mother still didn't wait for him to come back, so I paid homage to the old man with him. That day, he knelt down and begged me to forgive him. I didn't let him go on. We have been friends for decades. "
Typical materials about tolerance 4 Shortly after the end of World War II, Churchill lost the election. He is a world-famous politician and a hero who led the British people to win the anti-fascist victory in World War II. For him, losing the election is of course an embarrassing thing, but he treats it calmly. At that time, he was swimming in his own swimming pool when the secretary panted and told him, "No! Mr. Churchill, you lost the election! " Unexpectedly, Churchill smiled and said, "Great! This shows: we won! We are pursuing democracy, and democracy has won. Isn't it worth congratulating? Excuse me, friend, pass me the towel. I should come up! " I really admire Churchill. He is so calm and rational. In just one sentence, he successfully reproduced the demeanor of a great politician with great openness, generosity and tolerance! Another time, at a cocktail party, a female political opponent raised her glass to Churchill and pointed to Churchill's glass and said, "I hate you. If I were you, madam, I would poison your wine! " Obviously, this is a provocation full of hatred. But Churchill smiled and said kindly, "Don't worry, if I were your husband, I would drink it all at once!" " "wonderful! It's really leisurely, isn't it? Since what you said is a hypothesis, I might as well make another hypothesis.
Yes, this is tolerance! A great wisdom! A big smart!
Typical materials about forbearance 5 During the Warring States Period, Lin Xiangru of Zhao put national interests first, endured Lian Po's provocation and humiliation again and again, and finally awakened Lian Po with the great realm of "national emergency first, then personal hatred", thus leaving the world with an eternal beautiful talk of "making peace".
During the Three Kingdoms period, Zhuge Liang was a rookie, and Liu Bei called it "like a duck to water", but Guan and Zhang brothers were not. Cao Bing suddenly attacked, and the two brothers sneered at Zhuge Liang. Zhuge Liang took care of the overall situation, ignored them and still valued them. As a result, Xinye won a great victory in World War I, which made Guan and Zhang brothers admire. If Zhuge Liang has common sense and argues with them, it will cause discord between the generals and the people. How can there be more victories in the new field and in the future?
When Liu Xiu defeated Wang Lang and invaded Handan, he found a lot of letters flattering Wang Lang, insulting Liu Xiu and even plotting to kill Liu Xiu. But Liu Xiu turned a blind eye to this and burned them all, regardless of the opposition of all ministers. He let bygones be bygones, turned enemies into friends, strengthened his own strength and finally became emperor. The fire burned hatred and laid a solid foundation for the cause.
Wei Zhi, an admonisher in the Tang Dynasty, often made a bitter face and repeatedly remonstrated with Longlin. However, Emperor Taizong stood tall, tolerant and generous, and regarded Wei Zhi as a "mirror" to see his own gains and losses clearly, and finally created a peaceful and prosperous time known as "the rule of Zhenguan".
Lou Deye, the prime minister of Wu Zetian era, is famous for his kindness, generosity and diligence. Sima Guang evaluated him as "generous and prudent, ignorant and ignorant in committing crimes". Li Zhaode, assistant minister of Fengge, called him a hillbilly. He smiled and said, "I shouldn't be a hillbilly." Who will be a hillbilly? " At that time, Di Renjie, a famous minister, also looked down on Loude's moral character and wanted to crowd him out of the court, but he was able to shrug off it. Later, Wu Zetian told Di: "The reason why I know you was recommended to me by Teacher Lou." Di Renjie felt ashamed.
When Lv Mengzheng first entered the DPRK, a scholar pointed at him and said, "Does this boy also participate in politics?" Lv Mengzheng pretended not to hear. The man in the same column as Lv Mengzheng asked Lv Mengzheng to ask who that man was several times. Lv Mengzheng refused, saying, "If you know his name, I'm afraid you won't forget it in the future. It's better not to ask." Lv Mengzheng finally became the prime minister of the Northern Song Dynasty.
Typical materials about tolerance 6 Some people ride a national horse (a horse raised by the people in peacetime and requisitioned by the state in wartime), and another person rides a good horse, and the two walk together. The steed bit China's neck, and China's horse bled profusely, but walked casually. Later, the steed came home, shivering without eating grass or drinking water. The owner of Malaysia said, "It may be ashamed of biting Malaysia. I will bring Malaysia and convince him. " After the national horse came running, he approached the horse with his nose and ate with it. In less than an hour, the horse recovered as before.
Although the story is small, it reveals the touching character between heaven and earth, that is tolerance. Tolerance means forgiving others' temporary mistakes, not haggling over every ounce, not complaining about others, and being a generous person in a friendly way. Tolerance is like water, and encountering contradictions is often more effective than excessive retaliation. It is like a clear spring, slowly erasing the temporary hostility of the other party, making people calm down, so as to see the original reason of the matter clearly. At the same time, I also saw myself clearly. The bitten horse in the fable rationally chose tolerance, and finally they made up. Imagine, if it is tit-for-tat, what can be brought about by fighting back at each other in the same way, in addition to both losses and cross the rubicon? Therefore, it can be said that the legendary national horse is actually very wise.