How time flies! Looking back, I have been in Li Nan community for six years. Over the past few years, in the ordinary post of family planning work in my community, there have been no grandiloquence, no earth-shattering deeds, only gentle breeze and drizzle, only obscure dedication.
I remember there was such a happy and harmonious family in the community under my jurisdiction. The man and the woman started their own companies, with good income, virtuous wife and clever and lovely son. However, due to some temptation, both husband and wife got into the bad habit of taking drugs, and both of them were re-educated through labor for one and a half years. At that time, there was an old mother in her 70 s who had no financial resources and her son who had just entered elementary school. Without the support, the family immediately fell into the abyss and life was in trouble. Grandparents and grandchildren live in Lacrimosa all day. I came to her house after learning the situation and comforted her old mother, saying, "Don't worry, auntie, the community in trouble will help you." With the help of the community, the "minimum living allowance" was quickly implemented. Moreover, before the Spring Festival, people from the community went to her home to express their condolences. The community brought 500 yuan difficulties subsidies and encouraged the old mother: "The difficulties are only temporary. As long as we dare to face them, there is no hurdle. " Not long after the expiration of reeducation through labor, the couple returned to the community. The hostess said, "Sister, thank you for your help. I must train my son well and let him study hard and make progress every day. " With the help of the community, the male owner now works in an Internet cafe, and the female owner works as a kindergarten teacher in a university kindergarten, both of which have good income.
This is how I dedicate my love to the community family planning cause I love; Give love to families in need in the community; Help them out with the help of the Family Planning Association.
There is an ordinary woman of childbearing age in the community who has no formal job and her ex-husband abandoned her after going abroad. After the divorce, she returned to her parents' home with a young girl. The change of life is like a bolt from the blue, which has brought disastrous pain to this family. Holding the divorce verdict in their hands, the two mothers wanted to cry without tears. In order to send her children to school, she found a community. I contacted a teahouse with the Community Family Planning Association and worked as a waiter for her. She was very satisfied at that time and worked for two years. Later, because her mother was seriously ill, she had to quit her job and stay with her. Her mother was in hospital, and the high medical expenses made the originally poor family spend everything.
After understanding the situation, I immediately reported to the community and gave her and her mother a minimum living allowance through coordination, which solved the urgent need for this family facing difficulties. After that, I often went to her house and sent her some books about caring for girls, which made her feel the warmth of the community. On one occasion, the leaders of the district family planning office and the street leaders came to her house together, had a warm conversation with her and her mother, and asked about her mother's illness. When the district leader handed solatium to her, she said excitedly, "Thank you for your concern for my family! For many years, the community and streets have been very concerned about single-parent families like me. Thank you very much! " When she learned that she had a 70-year-old mother and an 8-year-old daughter, she had a hard life and devoted herself to training her daughter to learn, and the children learned well. The district leaders highly praised and encouraged her, hoping that she would continue to train her daughter to become a pillar of the country.
In the action of caring for pregnant women, whenever a newborn is born in the community, as a community family planning specialist, I go to maternity homes, visit pregnant women and babies, send them nursing manuals and contraceptives for children's common diseases, send them a feeling and a love, and publicize family planning knowledge to women of childbearing age; Whenever people of childbearing age enjoy the best service; Every time I see the smile on their faces; There will be a kind of emotion in my heart that I can't give up, ordinary alleys, ordinary people's joys and sorrows, and the kind of happiness that is as light as water but as pure as wine.
Residents often say that getting along with me is always inseparable from the community and the Family Planning Association. Every family in the community touches my heart. It is with their own practical actions and love that they interpret the sentence "Let the world be full of love". In my beloved family planning post, I am passionate and dedicated!
Over the past 30 years, more than 400 million children have been born in China. Practice has proved that China's adherence to the basic national policy of family planning has had a great impact on the construction of Socialism with Chinese characteristics, the realization of national prosperity and national rejuvenation, played an important role in promoting world population and development, and laid a solid foundation for comprehensively solving the population problem.
In recent years, with the introduction of various family planning policies, such as reward and assistance policy, special assistance policy and informed choice of birth control measures, China's family planning work has been improved.
Nowadays, the concept of people-oriented and quality service has been firmly established in community family planning work. Caring for family planning households and helping families in difficulty runs through the whole process of family planning activities. Focusing on the four major projects of security, housing, wealth and love, a series of preferential policies for assistance have been implemented, so that families implementing family planning have priority in enjoying the fruits of reform and development. Now the masses say that the family planning policy is good, which makes them change their concept of marriage and childbearing and enhance their consciousness and initiative in participating in and supporting family planning work. It is reasonable to say that there is no gain without giving.
Although I have encountered many unsatisfactory things in family planning work for so many years, they are only insignificant in my whole work. There are more people who not only give me great support at work, but also help me. With their care and support, I have come to this day. Let me become an expert from a layman who doesn't understand family planning and a family planning cadre supported by the masses. I really thank the basic national policy of family planning for letting me taste the ups and downs of life, and thank the basic national policy of family planning for growing up with me.
My child was born in 1984, when I was nearly 34 years old.
Before labor, my mother-in-law and her family made a shocking decision at that time, and the child was sterilized immediately after birth. Mother-in-law said:
"Lesbians have to make great sacrifices to have children. Only this one can't be asked again. "
Someone asked:
"What if the child is not good?"
"This is not good, mostly genetic, and the next one will not be good; If this is a healthy child, there is no need to prepare for the next one. "
This is what my mother-in-law who was a gynecologist said 25 years ago. I remember it clearly, word for word.
It was the words of my mother-in-law, which made our family regard raising dolls as a career and scientific research at the last stop, and embarked on the road of "raising the strength of the whole family and concentrating on cultivating the only child".
This road is difficult to walk. However, what we planted and what we got was precisely these hardships, which brought the happiness index of the whole family up and endless gratification.
In the long-term and stable social environment, children get the best education that we and society can give. In middle school, he was rated as an outstanding member of Xicheng District and one of the top ten members of Beijing No.4 Middle School. At the university, he was rated as an outstanding cadre of graduate students in Tsinghua University. His research paper "Living and Working Conditions of Construction Migrant Workers in Beijing ……" won the first prize of "Excellent Paper on Construction Economy in China" issued by China Architecture Society. Now I have graduated from Tsinghua University with a master's degree and embarked on a job.
Our child should be considered a second child. 1080 My first child and my opportunity to go to Peking University came at the same time. In order to study, in order not to be a mother when I was ignorant, I sacrificed my budding first child. Because, my firm idea is that only a good mother can have a good doll!
My friend told me that middle school children don't like reading, and they can't understand a word of extracurricular books. I asked, do you and your wife often read books? She shook her head.
That's it.
An excellent mother needs to be educated in psychology, pedagogy, literature and history. Over the years, even if children's diapers are displayed in the room, I dare not give up studying. Because ignorance is bound to be vulgar, how can a mother without ink make friends with a child who is good at writing and ink?
Many years ago, there was a complaint circulating in the society, saying that college students: "One year in the soil, two years in the ocean, three years in denial!" I think, why don't parents reflect: after children study hard, the level of civilization is improving every day. If parents don't study hard and make progress, children will have no language with us, and of course there will be a "generation gap"!
If parents really advocate knowledge, their words and deeds will be revealed, forming a personality charm, the so-called "temperament." Children imitate it, and the "qi" cultivated by books over time is also profound. Children's love for reading is not innate, but influenced by the acquired environment and guided by parents and teachers.
When my child is in middle school, when he recites aloud in the room, I will take time to lean against the door and listen and watch silently. After a while, the child turned around and saw me enjoying his hard work. Mother and son smiled at each other, enjoying recognition and warmth. When the children got good grades, they enthusiastically said to me, "Mom, am I your pride?" I answered sincerely, "Of course." Then I said in awe, "We will also work hard to be your pride." Every morning, the first thing a child sees when he wakes up is his mother who is reading and writing at his desk. Perhaps, he will be proud, impressed and see Siqi.
When my child was six years old, I had a brain injury and had a craniotomy. After I was in a coma, I was shocked by the cries and groans of vegetative people coming from the next ward, which shocked the impermanence of my life and my luck. The weather is unpredictable, and life is faced with all kinds of fortunes at any time. Today I breathe in the sun, so I want it to be as bright as the sun. As mothers, mother and son walk hand in hand today. Today, I will try my best to give him happiness and happiness responsibly, and let him see what is strong and enterprising.
After resting for more than three months, the hair shaved before operation has not grown up, and my legs are still shaking not long after getting out of bed. I took my child to the planetarium to watch his favorite astronomical movie. He watched a space odyssey and the Sky Zoo, and he will watch the next trip to the universe. Sitting on the stone steps in front of the planetarium, I asked, "A ticket for a planetarium movie costs 80 cents a day, and a bag of crispy rice you like costs 80 cents. There can only be one, so choose! " My six-year-old son didn't even fight: "Don't eat rice crust, watch astronomical movies!" " "On that day, I was as thin as autumn leaves and watched three astronomical movies with my son.
He may not be an astronomer, but he must know astronomy, geography and history. When he realizes his position in space, he will understand his weight. When he encounters setbacks, he will know that there is no need to panic and regret. In the vast space and time, small difficulties are insignificant. His eyes and mind make him confident and modest.
We may have complained: why didn't we live in a scholarly family? I want to ask, we, the children's first teachers, are eager to learn and progress. Poems and books have been handed down from generation to generation for a long time. How can we prevent "scholarly family" from coming from you and me?
When we, as generous and peaceful mothers and wives as the earth, guard, dress up and light the lights of scholarly family with their wisdom and beauty, when every mother and her children study and make progress together, the whole society will become a scholarly society and the whole nation will become an excellent nation that stands on its own feet in the forest of the world!
This ideal has made me take my children by the hand for many years, walk into museums, visit Qingshan Garden and read books and masterpieces. In order to see the protection of historic sites, we walked from Shenwumen to Wumen along the wall of the Forbidden City. In order to write an essay entitled "Looking for Xibianmen", we took a bus from the eastern suburbs through Chaoyang and Dongcheng to the western city twice, and walked, climbed, looked, touched and looked for the bricks of Ming Jiajing along the city wall. We listened to the concert together, commented while listening, and talked about the names of various musical instruments and the composition of harmony. In order to let the children witness the process of a clear-sky solar eclipse, I woke my son up in the middle of the night in the cold winter and stood by the window of the corridor together, watching the "beautiful shadow" cast by the earth on the moon in the bright starry sky. In order to cultivate children's hands-on ability, in ten years, from hands-on teaching to letting him operate independently, my husband made more than 100 model airplanes worth thousands of dollars.
Excellent culture is the culture of cultivating excellent parents, and the knowledge world of parents determines the knowledge world of children; The contest between countries is often a contest between mothers. I wonder if our small family's own culture can cultivate a dedicated patriot as expected. Twenty years of hard work are actually doing one thing: fighting for children with their weak arms and bad social atmosphere. Did you win?