Two identical people look at the same tree, one sees a lush tree, while the other sees only the "humble" caterpillars on the tree. Why do they have completely different answers to the same thing?
That's because they look at things from different angles. One looks at things with appreciation and the other with criticism.
Praise and appreciation are indispensable "nutrients" on our road to success; It is the vitality and motivation of our life. So, how can we praise and appreciate others?
For example, in life, when you get off the bus, say "thank you, master, it's safe to take your car." This simple sentence is a great encouragement to the driver master! When the driver is tired, think about this sentence, and you will be more motivated and feel comfortable!
Let us appreciate, praise and encourage others together, and the world will be warmer!
Learn to appreciate and praise other people's compositions. When you want to criticize others, you should bite your tongue. When you want to praise others, you should say it casually. -inscription
Learn to appreciate others, appreciate and praise others, and strive to tap the bright spots in others.
In real life, everyone has many advantages, some are versatile, some are helpful, some are excellent in literary talent, and some are leisurely. However, most people often just see the bad side of others and don't notice the good side of each other. This just pays attention to the shortcomings of others and ignores the advantages of others. As the saying goes, everyone has something to praise.
They are all the same flower. Some people see the beauty of petals, and some people see small ants attached to stems.
Why is the same thing so different between two people? The reason is that some people like to praise others, while others like to criticize and criticize others.
There is a report that records a reporter's investigation: people who often find the advantages of others and appreciate them are often positive and optimistic, have more friends and live longer than the average person; And often find other people's shortcomings and blame them. Not only do you have fewer friends, but you also live shorter than the average person.
When I have nothing to do, I often turn over some books to relieve boredom. I read a short story about a postman who tripped over a very strange stone while delivering letters. Instead of complaining, he decided to save more money and take the stones home to build a house. In this way, every day on the way to deliver letters, he will pick up some such stones and take them home. Year after year, day after day. The stones he picked up piled up into mountains. So he delivered letters during the day and built houses at night. His family paid attention to and encouraged him. Gradually, he finally built a magnificent and beautiful palace, and all the people marveled at the young man's skill.
The same is true in life. Encouraging others' achievements will not only make others feel comfortable, but also make them full of energy. So is my mother. I remember one day when I was about to eat, I came to my mother and just wanted to say to her: Mom! You look so fat! But as soon as the words came to my lips, I thought: will mom be unhappy? So I said to my mother: Mom! What a delicious meal you cooked! Mom was very happy to hear that! Say to me: good son! What else do you want to eat? Tell your mother that she will make it for you.
However, while praising others, don't forget the little ants attached to the flower stems. Although they seem insignificant to beautiful petals. Even so, we can't ignore it, find it with bright eyes and correct it with optimism.
Postscript: it is not the lack of beauty in life, but the lack of eyes to find beauty. If everyone has a pair of eyes that are good at discovering and appreciating the advantages of others, our life will become better.