Tolerance is an open-minded mind, a rare virtue, an intoxicating gift and a shining light in the aura of personality charm.
Zhang Fang, in exchange for obedience; Cao Cao was kind to Guan Yu in exchange for Guan Yu laying down his life on Huarong Road. Washington, the father of the United States, took the initiative to forgive Payne's enmity with his political enemies, in exchange for Payne's fanatical worship of himself. These tolerant actions turn hatred into friendship and obstacles into support. It can be seen that tolerance is a great driving force for change.
Wu Zetian is a woman, but her measurement does not mean that she is a man. Xu Jingye rebelled, and Luo, one of the four outstanding figures in the early Tang Dynasty, wrote an article for him. The article is wonderful, and the words of cursing Wu Zetian are also mean. When the essay reached Wu Zetian, Wu Zetian was not angry, but read it with appreciation. He read that "a rotten soil is not dry, and six feet alone is unbelievable." This is the prime minister's fault. "After reading it, she repeatedly praised and said," Robin's article is great, but Xu Jingye's martial arts may not be as good as it is. " This means that from the perspective of propaganda work, Robin's pen is worth 100,000 soldiers, while Xu Jingye's strength is insufficient, so it is difficult to lose. She really wants to use Robin's martial arts for herself. Wu Zetian is regarded as the history of China.
An open-minded person can achieve great things, and an open-minded person is relaxed and happy. This is the same as before. In dealing with people, there are often unsatisfactory places. If there is not enough tolerance and mind, there will be a lot of inexplicable pain. Narrow-minded people tend to be competitive, haggle over every ounce, be jealous of others, criticize others, be narrow-minded, be vindictive, and so on. Villains often share joys and sorrows. "A more tolerant attitude will make things change for the better. The so-called "turning the war into a jade silk" and "the prime minister can hold the boat in his stomach" is a state of tolerance. A person full of personality charm must have a tolerant heart!
Tolerance is a kind of grace, a kind of free and easy, a kind of maturity. The mountain is silent, because of its tolerance, there is a harmonious and moving natural scenery; The sea is magnificent because of tolerance, and it has a profound and broad foundation; The ears of grain bowed their heads, because of its tolerance, which gave people heavy fruits. Everything is creating miracles for the world and giving life new vitality with its tolerance. "The geographer Hou Renzhi gave us a profound enlightenment.
It is because I understood its connotation that I changed my attitude towards life. I always treat complaints and accusations in my life with a tolerant attitude, and I can always take them in stride. I often read Buddhist books, and what impressed me the most was three couplets: "I can tolerate a big belly, I can tolerate nature, and I can't tolerate myself;" Open your mouth and laugh, laugh at the past and laugh at the present, and laugh at everything. " "A big belly can accommodate things that are difficult to accommodate in the world; Laugh when you open your mouth and laugh at the ridiculous people in the world. " "Laugh at the past and laugh at the present, laugh at the East and the West, laugh at the South and the North, and laugh at your ignorance; Look at things, the sky, the earth, the sun, the moon and others. "These three couplets left a deep impression on me. He told us that we should be tolerant of others, tolerate the difficult things in the world, be strict with ourselves, be tolerant of others, always see our ignorance of ourselves, and strive to explore the strengths of others. Look at people like this. It is inevitable that there will be no shortcomings and mistakes. When a person says something wrong or does something wrong, he always hopes to get the tolerance and understanding of others. I once read Zhu De's poem: "There is a vast space in the belly, and people often cross the boat. "Visible, tolerance is a kind of mind, a kind of grace, a state, a kind of charm.
There are often scenes in life where others accuse and complain about you. If you don't treat it calmly, argue with the accuser or abuse it, things will get worse. If you calmly let the complainer finish, you can calmly explain or simply not argue with it, and things will be settled for the time being. Naturally, after waiting, he will find that what I have done is correct.
Tolerance in life is a kind of high-profile, high-style and tolerant person, which makes people feel cordial, natural and respectable, willing to be close to it, willing to work with it, convinced and gratified. This naturally contributes to the success of the cause and is also the foundation of the foundation.
When I read the story of American President Lincoln's tolerance for others, I couldn't help but be impressed by Lincoln's way of being a man. His story has always infected me. Lincoln was born in the civilian class, cultivated land and worked as a shop assistant, and has been in a state of turmoil. So when he first arrived at the White House, none of the rich people in the cabinet respected him. Lincoln didn't mind it, but he was very generous. Treasury Secretary Chase ruled Lincoln. He covets the presidency from time to time. He secretly dismantled Lincoln's platform, spread discontent, and threatened to resign five times in a row. Although Lincoln approved his resignation for the fifth time, he always thought he was a very talented person. Lincoln said, "Chase is a very talented person. Although he foolishly opposed me behind my back, I never wanted to eradicate anyone. " Finally, he used his ability to appoint Chase as the Chief Justice of the Supreme Court. The idea is to ask which state legion it is, but it is not clear. The man thought he didn't know the army, so he replied rudely, "This is a federal army. You are such a fool! " In the face of reprimand, Lincoln was not angry, but said "thank you". His son is very confused. He said to his son seriously, "It is a kind of happiness to have someone telling the truth in front of you. I am such a fool. " Lincoln was expensive to be president, but he was so tolerant. It is also his tolerance that won people's trust and respect, thus achieving the success of his career.
Family needs tolerance, and the happiness of marriage cannot be separated from tolerance. Tolerance includes understanding, sympathy and forgiveness, that is, accepting each other to the greatest extent. Tolerance is the link between husband and wife's harmony and happiness in marriage, and it is the display of love and trust. To love a person, we should appreciate his advantages and accept his shortcomings. If you can't tolerate and forgive your spouse's shortcomings and faults, you can't accept them. If this goes on, love will be in jeopardy.
Of course, tolerance does not mean that you can ignore principles and tolerate all unreasonable behaviors. "Major events stress principles, minor events stress style". "big things are smart, small things are confused." Tolerance is an understanding and consideration that does not violate major principles, and it is an honesty and kindness. This kind of understanding and understanding is not to give up principles, nor to adhere to the truth. This kind of honesty and kindness is neither good nor unjust. Endless tolerance is weakness, endless accommodation is incompetence. Therefore, life needs tolerance, and you need to grasp the degree of tolerance in order to be a calm person in this society.
The breadth of the sea lies in the gathering of streams, and the Wang Yang of life lies in the tolerance of fate. The heart becomes calm because of tolerance; Love is great because of tolerance.
Tolerance is a state of mind, a self-restraint and a realm; It is the experience of life, the art of treating people and things, and the human mind. Setbacks in life are inevitable. When you fail, tolerate yourself more, stop complaining about yourself, dispel the shadow of "once bitten, twice shy", and you will have less regrets and less depression, and you will have masturbation of "winning or losing is a common thing for military strategists" and "doing your best", which will help you.
Tolerance is a kind of giving, which can comfort others and enrich yourself; On the contrary, being stingy means haggling over every ounce, which not only harms others, but also harms yourself. People often do permanent harm to both sides because of their persistence. If we can all look at others with goodwill and put ourselves in each other's shoes, I believe you will feel the helplessness and helplessness of each other. At this time, you can use tolerance to heal the wounds between two people. In fact, if you forgive others, it doesn't mean how great you are or how noble you are. In fact, you just care about others, because when you think and feel, what you want from others is what you want from yourself. It turns out that opening a window for others is just to let yourself see a more complete sky.
Tolerance is an emotional fossil. "Only tolerance can win people". Tolerance can finally make the person who hurts you go to the dock of the moral court, or be greatly encouraged by tolerance, give up the harm and surrender to a better life. Tolerance is still a wonderful thing. As long as you have it around you, everything in your life will be subtly influenced by it. It is a force that no one can resist, because no one.
Everyone will be more tolerant, more understanding, more kind, more cherished and beautiful about life, and the ups and downs in life will turn into colorful music and play people's melodies.
Tolerance is an open-minded mind, a rare virtue, an art of life, an invisible appeal and cohesion, and the most shining light in the aura of personality charm. I am willing to praise all my life and follow forever.
"A great man," Carlisle said, "expresses his greatness by treating little people."
Bob Hoover is a famous test pilot. He often performs flying in air shows. One day, he flew back to Los Angeles after performing at the air show in San Diego. As described in Flight Magazine, at an altitude of 300 meters in the air, two engines suddenly shut down. Because of his skill, he controlled the plane to land, but it was seriously damaged. Fortunately, no one was hurt.
After the forced landing, Hoover's first act was to check the fuel of the plane. As he expected, the propeller plane he flew in World War II actually contained jet fuel, not gasoline.
When he returned to the airport, he asked to see the mechanic who repaired the plane for him. The young mechanic felt very sad about his mistake. When Hoover came up to him, he was in tears. He caused the loss of a very expensive plane and almost killed three people.
As you can imagine, Hoover will fly into a rage, and it is expected that this highly respected precision pilot will denounce the negligence of the mechanic. However, Hoover did not scold the mechanic or even criticize him. Instead, he put his arm around the mechanic's shoulder and said to him, "To show that I believe you won't make mistakes again, I want you to help me maintain the plane tomorrow."
However, in real life, there is a kind of person who is rude and violent, and everything is as unforgivable as a heinous crime. They did it not out of a moment of anger, but out of their own nature. They condemn everyone, either because of something that this person has done or because of something that he will do. This reveals a more hateful temperament than cruelty. This temperament is really terrible. They exaggerate too much, and they can make other people's problems trivial and totally deny them. They are unreasonable "foremen" who can destroy heaven into a prison. In a rage, they pushed everything to the extreme. People with good nature can forgive all mistakes. They will insist that other people's intentions are good, or make mistakes just because of carelessness.
A broad-minded person will tolerate other people's mistakes with a tolerant attitude, even regardless of personal gains and losses, and seek ways to resolve conflicts, and he will also be understood and tolerated by others when he is in lq. I remember that the author and his friend Liu Jun had a red-faced argument over a trivial matter, and neither of them would give in. So, I punched the tile in the corridor behind me to express my dissatisfaction. Who knows, a bright red blood ran down my arm from my finger. Although I knew I was wrong, I felt that I had won invisibly when I saw my blood, so I quarreled with him more unreasonably through blood and pain. His face was full of surprise and anger. I thought I won, but he grabbed me and ran to the water room. I feel guilty to see him carefully cleaning my wound. Facing his sincere eyes, I was speechless. My friend's tolerance does not mean his weakness, on the contrary, it makes me realize my shallowness and ignorance. I took the initiative to communicate with him to apologize and we became good friends again. Since then, I cherish this precious friendship even more.
I wonder if you have seen Maitreya? Long earlobe, round body, always with a kind smile on his face. People all over the world say that they admire Maitreya's ability to laugh and not be angry with life. In my opinion, Miller's lifestyle is: "poop, pretend to be intolerable in the world, laugh often and laugh at ridiculous people in the world."
This is not to say that Maitreya stuffed everything into his stomach, no matter how big or small, no matter how mercilessly the world laughed at it. I think Maitreya can often laugh because of moderate tolerance.
Tell a story first! Guan Zhong and Bao are good friends. When they do business in partnership, Guan Zhong shares most of the money. People asked Bao why he was allowed to do so. Bao Shu Ya said that Guan Zhong's family is very poor, and his old mother must support him. It is natural to do so. In other things, Bao also gave up everything and went to Guan Zhong. He also recommended Guan Zhong to be an official. Finally, Bao left Guanzhong first and got a sincere word from Guanzhong. If you know me, Bao Shu's teeth are there. "
Is Uncle Bao stupid? Not stupid. What he has, like Maitreya, is tolerance, tolerance of other people's small shortcomings, and discovery of other people's bright spots. So, is Bao still stupid?
Like Bao, Maitreya's tolerance is not tolerant of traitors, but based on a deeper level. Correct tolerance and moderate tolerance are sometimes a good thing.
Let's talk about Maitreya's smile again! I think this is a tolerant smile and an ironic smile.
A tolerant smile is to tolerate your own shortcomings and explore the advantages of others; A sarcastic smile is to laugh at all kinds of people in the world and satirize some self-righteous people. Just like the emperor in the emperor's new clothes, he is self-righteous and should be cynical if he doesn't know that he has been cheated. There are many people like the emperor now. Shouldn't Maitreya laugh?
Tolerance means that the sky embraces the free flight of birds; It is the sea that embraces the fish and braves the wind and waves; This is a broad heart, embracing the colorful world. Tolerance is like warm and bright sunshine, illuminating the heart surrounded by darkness.
We should learn to be tolerant. There are many unpleasant things in life, and there are many people we don't like. From the correct standpoint, you will find that the sun is shining and the sky is vast.
Don't say that others will not be tolerant. If you want others to forgive yourself, learn to forgive others first! Like Maitreya, tolerate others and yourself, and you will embark on a bright road and meet many people who pursue light.
Xiaopang has always been very popular, but all his good friends left him because he haggles over every ounce. He began to feel lonely, sad and sorry ... when he found the "tolerance" he needed most in life, his good friend returned to him and he also found happiness.
Friends! What do you do when your best friend betrays you? Leave or tolerate? Of course, some people will wander between these two points. If so, it is better to choose the latter decisively. When you learn to be lenient with others, you can not only let your friends see you clearly, but also make them regret and even change. At the same time, you will also bring happiness to yourself. Isn't this the best of both worlds?
Tolerance is a virtue. With tolerance, life is more exciting; With tolerance, gangs can be truly happy; understandingly ...
Forgive others and be happy with yourself, and you will find that tolerance is also a beautiful landscape of life!
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