Many studies show that children from unhappy families do show lower emotional management ability, lower marriage adaptability, negative feelings about marriage and lower satisfaction with future marriage. It is not so much the influence of family background on a person as the importance of family background to a person's growth. Because in the growing environment, families of different ages will have different influences.
Excessive separation between childhood and mother will affect our future intellectual development, personality and social adaptability. As a teenager, influenced by the family, we can let our children commit suicide directly. So the importance of family background is self-evident. How much influence does family background have on a person's character formation, marriage and handling affairs?
Unconditional obedience mode of family education often leads to children's weakness, timidity and nervousness, and children with strong vitality will struggle with their parents' educational mode. Intimacy: Unfortunately, the biggest loss of family of origin to children is that ta has been uneasy about any intimacy for a long time. Social relations: in social relations, fear of rejection, avoidance of social relations, forming a withdrawn character, easy to be isolated by people around.
In interpersonal communication, we often imitate some behaviors that we unconsciously learned in family of origin, and sometimes we do the opposite. The very intense and painful experiences in childhood often make the parties unconsciously make important decisions that affect how to treat others throughout their lives. Everyone should learn to be responsible for their own psychological feelings. You can't avoid the wind, but you can adjust the sails to get your boat to its destination.