We should reject lies and stick to honesty. How can we avoid the embarrassment encountered by the other party in work and life? We want to:

If you refuse at the beginning, there will be no embarrassing situation later. We are now living in an open and unpopular era.

"Don't say that the hat worn by the aunt next door is ugly, do you hear?"

"You have to say to the new class teacher,' I'm glad you are our class teacher'!"

We don't say similar words from the heart, but choose nice words that don't make people sad. This is because we believe that there can be no shortage of white lies in life.

Shall we look at the problem from the opposite angle? Someone wears an ugly hat, and we can tell him realistically that it's really bad. This is because always telling white lies will also bring you trouble. So we should learn when to tell the truth and when to tell a white lie, otherwise it will lead to the result of not knowing the truth from the false.

For example, suppose you receive a birthday invitation from a friend who is not very close at the weekend. You don't want to go, but you refuse because you are afraid of each other's anger, and your promise is ambiguous. Time flies. It's almost my friend's birthday, and you still don't want to go. Now I'll find a reason to tell each other that you can't go. Think about it, what will the other party think of you at this time? The other party will definitely see that you are reluctant to leave and will be very angry.

You didn't refuse at first, but you still made your friend angry. What will it be like to show your attitude when you receive an invitation?

"I'm glad to be invited, but I can't go because I have something in town that day."

If you refuse at the beginning, there will be no embarrassment later.

[Counterparty]:

Deception is definitely a lie, and a lie is not necessarily a deception.

There are two kinds of lies: malicious and white. Lying is human instinct. As for whether it is honest or not, the key lies in what kind of lies it tells. Then a malicious lie can of course be said to be cheating. Malicious lies are an act of seeking benefits for liars, aiming at others, with a strong desire for profit, weak rationality and hurting others at the expense of others. It is an act that harms others and does not benefit others. People with ulterior motives, no matter how disguised, how rhetoric, how to rack their brains to give their malicious lies a malicious purpose. But a white lie is not. Its motive is kindness and its purpose is to safeguard the interests of others. The essence of a white lie determines that it is not malicious, but based on sincerity and kindness in the heart. The white lies that good people are "forced" to tell in a certain state are well-intentioned and a kind of kindness and concern for the subject. This kind of lie is also a way of life, which reflects the quality of caring for others. Obviously, a white lie does not hinder honesty. A world without lies, like a dust-free earth, does not exist. The key is how to use it. A white lie will not hinder honesty.