Educated by parents and teachers since childhood, we should be a good boy and a good student, be positive, strive for the upper reaches and be the first. We are often burdened with family expectations, teachers' expectations, social responsibilities, and even the development plans of the country and the nation. This kind of heavy pressure makes us dare not neglect at all, and participate in the social value system with trepidation to struggle and compete, always hoping to get a job and a half, as if this is the best life. On that day, it rained for a long time in Chu Qing in early summer, and my sister went home to visit relatives. I took my parents, my son and my sister, who is now a career planning consultant, to the suburbs to play. A leisurely holiday makes each of us feel relaxed and comfortable. In the deep canyon, there is a shallow stream flowing freely, turning high and low rocks from time to time and splashing crystal water. There are lush forests by the stream, and unknown wildflowers with red, white and purple flowers grow in twos and threes on the moss-covered grass. The air is filled with the fresh breath of trees and weeds, and the quiet valley echoes with the crisp songs of birds, sometimes once or twice, sometimes in strings. Mom and dad are still in good health, looking at trees, flowers, water and the flowing scenery between heaven and earth on the middle and small roads in the forest. My son, with an IPOD in his ear, is immersed in the artistic conception of Jay Chou and Fang Zhouzi, ignorant of teenagers, but patiently wandering by the stream in the forest. My sister and I fell behind, chatting casually, and the topic was endless and messy. I don't know how to say their living conditions. My sister went to Shanghai alone four years ago, with no background. At first, she enthusiastically found a job as a career planning consulting assistant. After doing this job, she found that she loved it so much, so she studied hard, studied hard, asked for advice everywhere and kept putting pressure on herself. Finally, she gained a certain reputation and weight in the industry circle. Although there is still a big gap between her dream of breaking out in Shanghai and becoming the mainstream in the elite society, she also clearly realizes that the most important thing in life is to be able to do what she loves and do it well. The ideal is sacred from a distance, and it is the unremitting pursuit of a person's life. On the way of pursuit, doing what you are doing now is the basis for realizing the ideal. "People should be the best at any time, whether you are a forest or a grass." This little-known career planning consultant said firmly among the green mountains and green waters. I looked at my sister in front of me, the little girl who had been carefully taken care of by my parents and me. She searched outside alone for several years, and finally grew up and had a deep understanding of life. Yes, human nature is greedy, and there is always a desire to fill gaps. How happy and relaxed it would be if we could clearly realize what everyone can and can't do! Don't be tempted by the fame and fortune of the outside world, stick to being yourself and be the best yourself, and you will become a strong person with a strong heart and a complete person. In the mountains, my parents are still enjoying the fun of nature in the green, my son is switching back and forth between his world and ours, and my sister and I are having a heart-to-heart conversation. Isn't this the quiet and simple life I always wanted? Parents are healthy, children are lively and sisters are affectionate. Family ties have been entangled in my life, and I have always felt this warmth and love, which has inspired my love for my family and life. To do your own thing with peace of mind and care for the people you love is to do your best. Between the empty canyons, our happy voices echoed leisurely. Everyone lives in this world in their own different ways, some are excellent, and of course some are poor. But I don't think everyone in the world can be excellent. Even the best people need the poor to set off, don't they?

You want to be a lush tree, but you are just a thin grass; You want to be a noble peony, but you are just a humble A Man Called Autumn Flower on the roadside; You want to be an endless sea, but you are just a stream; You want to be the brightest sun, but you are just a shining star. At this time, don't be discouraged, don't be discouraged, because although you didn't do your best, you have already played your advantage. You are a grass, but you have also contributed to the green space, although it is very weak; You are an unremarkable A Man Called Autumn Flower, but you also add a touch of gorgeous color to the roadside; You are a stream, but you bring joy to the children; Although you are a shining star, you decorate the night with your own body, although there is only one.

As the saying goes, "gold is not enough, and no one is perfect." Everyone is not perfect. You did badly in this respect, but you did well in other aspects. Please believe in yourself. What others can do, you can do it yourself through hard work. If you can't be a big tree, be a grass; If you can't be a peony, you will be a roadside A Man Called Autumn Flower; If you can't be the sea, you can be a stream; If you can't be the sun, be a star. In a word: "Be the best you can be, and your enemy is yourself."