Chapter 1: Know how to be satisfied with argumentative writing. Going to Qiu Lai in spring, flowers bloom and fall. Time goes by, leaving no trace. Some people like to hurt the spring, others like to enjoy the present. What we have to do is to cherish everything in the present and understand that contentment can make us happy.
Those who are not satisfied are often sad. Some people often want to do something impossible, which will only torture themselves and deliberately pursue what they don't have, and will only make them depressed and trouble themselves. Pursuing fame and fortune has always been the dream of many people. They originally wanted to make themselves happy, but they lost their innocence and happiness in the process of pursuing fame and fortune. Even if you succeed in the end, you can't get spiritual satisfaction and happiness. Why bother? Many people give up family and friendship for fame and fortune, and the loneliness after success makes them understand that they have lost the most important thing in life. But what is lost can never be found back, and they can only lament in vain. People who are not satisfied are often sad, so we should learn to be satisfied, and don't wait until we lose it to regret it, and then grieve alone.
Content is better than wealth. Think more about what you have and learn to be satisfied, so that you can be happy. Su Shi's optimism makes people feel that although his career is not smooth, he does not feel sorry for himself, but faces all this with an open mind. How can people not admire him? Remember Tao Yuanming's official life? When he was young, he had the ambition to help the world, and because of his poor family, he embarked on his official career at the age of 29, but his time as an official was very short. He gradually realized that the officialdom was dirty and dark at that time, and he decided to return to China to retire. Returning to his hometown house, he is not looking for a gesture, but returning to a life-a free and leisurely pastoral life. Although they made no achievements in their official career, they left endless literary wealth for future generations. Don't always think about what you have, think about what you have and you will be happy.
I have heard the saying that life has given us thousands of ways of life. Since we have chosen one, let's go on. How to go is your own business, and when to go is also your own business. Since it's all your own decision, why do you have to be sorry for yourself? Why do you want to escape when you get cold feet? What you are running away from is not your life, but the real you. Maybe life is really not long, but there is no need to taste the taste of life in a hurry. It is better to stay calm in the colorful world of mortals, return the color to the years, and give the pure to yourself. Simply pick it up, ordinary you and I may not need to know too much, as long as we are satisfied.
Life is like a dream. To have a good dream, just smile and look at what you have, such as family and friendship. If you understand the preciousness of these things, how can you be unhappy? Be a contented person!
Chapter 2: Knowing how to be content with contentment is the source of pain and contentment is the source of happiness.
People's desires are endless. If you have more, you will want more. If you have 1 million, you want to have 10 million or 100 million ... As the saying goes, you can't fill your needs, but you can't fill your heart. If you always want to make yourself more, you must work hard, speculate, dig your brains and even do whatever it takes. Will people still be happy? Are you still happy? Whether he gets it or not, he won't be happy, he can only suffer.
In our society, there are countless such examples. In this neighborhood where we live, there is a rich man who frequents (guess, he frequents the residence of one of his lovers). On the surface, the rich man looks bright and flashy, but in fact, he is in pain. Why? It is said that his children are fighting for his property, three lovers want him to accompany him every day, and his wife has to find ways to hide and appease, and there are infighting in business ... This rich man is not yet 60 years old, but all his "parts" are basically out of order. If this example is not typical, let's take a look at the property crisis of the rich in Hong Kong. There have been disputes over the property of Gong Ruxin, the wealth of Stanley Ho, and the wealth of Guo Bingjiang, Guo Binglian and Guo Bingxiang. Even if you don't look at Li Ka-shing, it seems that he has already distributed his property, in fact, his two sons are secretly fighting ... Can't say that these rich people are not rich, but are they happy?
Happiness can be measured not only by wealth, but also by thought. A contented person is often a happy person.
My neighbor, Uncle Liu, is a widower and penniless. Except for a black-and-white TV series, the family is basically family. However, Uncle Liu is cheerful all day, talking and laughing, and often helps people around him. Someone joked, "Uncle Liu, don't you think you are living a very timid life?" Uncle Liu said openly, "I am poor, but I don't steal or rob." I eat by myself, I'm satisfied and I'm happy. What am I afraid of? "
Yes, a contented person, a person with few desires, intrigue, haggle over every ounce, be swayed by considerations of gain and loss ... everything has nothing to do with him. He is content with what he has, happiness, happiness, happiness.
As the ancients said, those who are satisfied are poor, those who are happy are happy, and those who are not satisfied are rich and worried. Content is the wealth of nature, and luxury is man-made poverty (Greek proverb). There are thousands of rooms in Guangsha, and I sleep seven feet at night. Why do you need babao when you are full? Seven feet, a thousand households? Contentment is the source of happiness.
Life is short and the years are long. Why not be satisfied with everything?
People grow up for a hundred years, and the short period is decades of cold and heat. Everything is just passing by. Why not be satisfied?
All the splendor in the world will die with you, so why not be content?
There was a folk teacher named Hu in the Ming Dynasty. His family is very poor, and he can only get enough food and clothes. But every evening, he would go to the door to burn incense and worship heaven, thanking God for giving him a happy day. Life is like the moon. If it is round, it will be lost. His wife laughed at him: "How can three meals a day be counted as Cai Qing porridge?" ? Hu replied: "I am glad that I was born in a peaceful and prosperous era, and my family can have clothes and food." I am very happy that my family is away from diseases and disasters. " Hu is the only one who knows how to be content. Don't we know that? Shi Gong once said: "If you don't stop, you will lose all your desires. If you are not satisfied, you will lose your mind. " Have a friend, a peace, a place to live, forget fame and wealth, forget prosperity, forget greed. Satisfaction is an eternal feast.
"Eat less and drink less, you will see and be happy. Unjust is rich, and it is like a cloud with me. " Confucius' sages were sublimated by contentment.
"Be content, don't be ashamed, Zhi Zhi always stops, don't be ashamed". Lao Tzu also knows that contentment is the only way to show his uniqueness.
"Those who are satisfied are happy when they are poor, and those who are not satisfied are worried when they are rich."
I believe everyone is familiar with Pushkin's story The Fisherman and the Fish. The old woman in the story is always dissatisfied and puts forward one request after another for the little goldfish. The old woman's endless pursuit turned into greed, from initial poverty to glory and prosperity, and finally returned to the past. There is nothing wrong with people pursuing a better life, but the key is moderation-contentment is always happy. Without contentment, it becomes excessive greed. The biggest obstacle to happiness is to expect too much of it.
"A complete need, why is sweet? Seven feet, with thousands of households "? If Xiao Shenyang understood this truth, he would not be notorious for corruption.
"I am quiet, I am selfish, I have no attachments, no attachments." If Dourgen knew this truth, he would not be flogged after his death.
If Han Xin had known this truth, he wouldn't have ended up in the tragedy of "finding the neck to cut".
All sentient beings, green mountains and green waters, places of interest and historical sites, put down their hearts and be satisfied, and they will see the sun through the clouds.