As the saying goes, it is wise to say three words skillfully. Speaking is a kind of learning, and speaking is a kind of accomplishment. Speaking shows a person's quality. Speaking reflects a person's quality, and speaking appropriately is appropriate. Speak softly, gently and warmly; Choose your words when you speak. All the listeners like your words. A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts June. Good words and deeds attract people's love, bad words invite trouble, and hurtful words are like water. Once spilled, it is difficult to take them back. ? When you speak, try to say "good words" as much as possible. Words of encouragement and praise will make people feel warm, while words of irony and sarcasm will only make people feel disgusted and chilling. It is better to talk more than to talk less, and it is better to talk less than to talk more. People can't satisfy everyone all their lives. Talking too much is likely to touch someone's interests or pain, and unconsciously offend others.

The society we live in is complex, and the relationship between people is also complex. Sometimes you don't know who is sincere to you and who is hypocritical to you, and you don't know the relationship between Zhang San and Li Si. You know, there is no airtight wall to prevent someone from embellishing your words and spreading them to others? ,? It is better to talk less than to talk more, because: if you talk too much, you will definitely lack filtering. If it is not filtered, it will inevitably be confused and rambling. If you talk nonsense, you will be annoyed. Everything is rare and exquisite. You must never say anything you shouldn't say. Say what you have to say, but say as little as possible. The so-called "talking too much will lose" is not unreasonable. When people talk a lot, they often speak without thinking, and many words are said without thinking clearly. The result is water under the bridge, and it is too late to regret it. As the saying goes, "right and wrong are only for talking more, and troubles are all due to strength." There will be right and wrong in people's communication, because there are many words, so we should talk less and act cautiously. Before you speak, you should be responsible for what you say, otherwise, you will break your promise to others, and your image in people's minds will be greatly reduced, and you often talk a lot. This is the root of the trouble. As the saying goes, "illness comes from the mouth, and disaster comes from the mouth."

Mature and calm people know how to talk best. Because I didn't say a word well, I might be embarrassed; If you can't say a word well, you may let those who specifically find fault with you; Even if you don't say a word, you may let the villain catch hold of you and kill you. It is better to talk more than to talk less, and it is better to talk less than to talk more. Don't say anything useless; If it is beneficial, say it in good faith; Say more words of encouragement and comfort; Truth, seriously; If you point out the shortcomings of the other party, be tactful; If you communicate, speak slowly.

Speaking means saying nice words, sincere words, kind words, warm words and nice words. Please cultivate the self-restraint of being a man and strengthen the cultivation of speaking. It must be remembered that more words are better than less words, and less words are better than more words.