Women are often entangled in the emotional process, and men are often given the realization of money. Mars hits the earth, and maybe thinking is not in a line at all. This is the initial source of a lot of anxiety and dissatisfaction!
Since we can't change the differences in thinking, why can't we recognize or influence each other's behavior from the most primitive and fundamental material basis? At least we can keep the bottom line and keep the wind and rain out of the house!
In fact, all this has a mature law, but we ignore its practical significance.