When I was in the fifth grade, I went to the neighboring village across the mountain! Because there is no room and board at school during the day, there is no rest except for the schoolbag! On the contrary, flowers in spring, grass in summer, fruit in autumn and snow in winter will occasionally be naughty. Of course, more happy memories will be treasured forever.
By the first day of junior high school, we will climb three or four mountains, because in addition to bedding for school, there are food for meal tickets and simple things such as towels, toothbrushes and soap. Generally, every Sunday when I go back to school, I have to bring a bag of steamed bread and a can of pickles. Hard life is also comfortable. There seems to be no other choice but to study. There was nothing left except the necessities of life, so I went home with an empty cloth bag at the weekend.
Although I traveled to four or five places in middle school, I basically maintained a single ascetic practice mode.
1993, I was admitted to a technical secondary school. From my hometown to Jinan, from going home once a week to going home once a semester, I naturally have more luggage. Of course, before leaving, there are always parents' exhortations, accompanied by those disappointments and expectations, anxiety and joy, which are also heavy and practical in my heart. The difference is that every time I go back, I bring some food and toys to my grandparents, parents, uncles, brothers and sisters.
I graduated in 1996 and caught up with the two-way choice. Unified recruitment does not include distribution, running door to door in the name of outstanding provincial graduates in Shandong Province! There is nothing like shy and shabby clothes. After about two or three months of guerrilla warfare, the company has made up its mind and encountered a big hurdle. Starting this year, foreign students from Jinan will settle in and charge 8,000 yuan for urban capacity increase. Thanks to the enthusiastic help of two local female students in Jinan, they made up the biggest single expenditure in their lives. At that time, they earned more than 280 yuan a month to work.
After going to work, I didn't engage in my own financial accounting, but worked as a material clerk in the construction site of a construction company. Eat, live and travel with the project site. At that time, the site was still a work shed assembled from Ku Ling soil, which was not as comfortable as the current color board room. Cold wind and bitter rain, ice skates and frost swords, life is naturally simple and relaxed.
After several years, I finally went to the urban area for construction, and rented a house near Zhengjue Temple with my classmates who stayed in the economy. In this way, if you play enough in the evening or on the rest day, you will play more mahjong and other projects. A few people are running on the road of life, carefree, simple and happy as if they had returned to school! Bags are still one of the few things that just leave.
Later, I married my wife who stole the household registration book from home for 5 thousand yuan, rented it in the house where she grew up, and moved around in my unit, once setting a record of moving three times a day. That home is like a bag, and it won't be stable until she has a house.
In 2008, my son was born, and our family moved from Langya Mountain to Baliwa. In and out, coming and going are child-centered. Go out and pack his things, utensils and toys. The bag is full of care and love, and also records his joy and worry-free.
When the little guy is older, he will ask his father where to go on weekends, full of curiosity and exploration. He has arranged his personal affairs, packed his personal belongings and packed his luggage! It's time to open your own world, without too many constraints, to ensure basic safety and life!
Giving him the freedom and courage to start his own life will be the best thing for him and me!
On the road of life, no matter how carefully you plan, there are always some things that you can't use in your bag. If you can't give them up in time, they will become the fetters on your way forward and make you exhausted. Therefore, learning to give up and learn to go into battle lightly can make our road wider and wider.
I believe that experienced backpackers will never put luxury jewelry in their bags, nor will they wear top brand names to climb mountains. Because they know that it is not worthwhile to increase the burden just to show off. With a very clear heart, they put the really "useful" things in their bags and go into battle lightly-only in this way can mud and thorns become the road to happiness in their hearts.
The steps are light and simple, just like Lin-she is an "April day on earth" and a "talented woman of the Republic of China" who often wants to wear a plain dress. Despite the talent of "a poetic waterfall", I still don't want to dedicate my life to a poet who is more likely to attract fame and fortune. With a clear heart, she devoted her life to the construction of the motherland. On the way to her career, she put aside her struggle in Vanity Fair, counted unnecessary things in her bag, and together with her husband Liang Sicheng, both of them were shouting China's "How to save quickly and strive for the upper reaches" to protect the ancient buildings in China against the current. If she is overwhelmed by the heavy worldly burden, China will lack a bright pearl, and it is precisely because she has adapted to the weight of the burden and grasped the balance of the burden that she will achieve brilliance. Travel lightly and simply, and the road of life will be broadened.
Traveling lightly and simply is like Jiang Yang, a generation of Jiang Yang who has just passed away, and lived for 105 years, which can be described as a passer-by on the road of life. We can't help but ask, what kind of unique "appliances" are installed in her life bag to support her through the vicissitudes of a hundred years? "I don't argue with anyone, and I don't care who I argue with; I love nature, followed by art; My hand is baking the fire of life to keep warm ... "This famous poem by the English poet Rand is the spiritual pillar of Mr. Jiang Yang when his daughter died of illness and her husband died before her. Her life only depends on her relatives, accompanied by art, and dating nature ... So, Mr. Jiang Yang kept counting the superfluous things in her life for one hundred years, and she walked out of an aromatic road.
On the other hand, there are more and more "luxury people" and fewer and fewer "simple people" in society. Those "luxury people" naively think that the real satisfaction is to put heavy luxury goods in the luggage of life journey and win people's admiration for a while. As a result, they become more and more greedy and bolder day by day. In the end, they were overwhelmed, had difficulty breathing, and eventually went bankrupt. As for those "simple people", they are happy-on the long road, there is less burden and fetters, so they "read all the spring scenery in the world", and finally, they get a calm and rich life.
"Can't we be a gentleman who takes off his towel and walks alone in the lock of fame and fortune? Whip in the panic years and be a light ride with no regrets! " Jian Zheng said. Yes, in the journey of life, we should abandon those redundant burdens and fetters, so that our journey, whether it's willows or rain and snow, you will walk easily and calmly. ...
The bag is ready. 3 life, no baggage. Since you came to this world naked, your parents have placed too much hope on you, so your life has a burden. But this bag, you don't know what is inside, because it is filled with parents and hope. In this way, you have no worries and spent the best and most relaxed childhood in your life, because there is no luggage in your mind.
After graduating from kindergarten, you carry a small bag, no! You entered the primary school auditorium with a small schoolbag on your back, because according to your parents' requirements, you have to take the first place in the exam, you have to take a double hundred exams ... you have to carry that bulging schoolbag, textbooks, stationery and counseling materials ... Of course, your parents can't forget to stuff a few lollipops you like every day. Xiao Bao, there is hope and sorrow. I remember your little red flower is the longest line on the honor list of the classroom. I also remember that occasionally your grades were not satisfactory, and when you held a parent-teacher meeting, you buried your head deeply.
Of course, you successfully entered the best junior high school in the district, your father took you to travel, and your mother bought you good clothes. At this time, the small book bag on your back is replaced by a strong schoolbag. You don't need your father to pack your books every day, and your mother doesn't secretly pack your lollipops. Your textbooks, stationery and a lot of tutoring materials are all in that big bag. Don't! On your shoulder, it becomes a heavy bag! As you already know, the luggage contains not only parents' hopes, but also their own beautiful ideals! Junior high school life, although there is no happy childlike interest in kindergarten and no romantic absurdity in primary school, you have won more scenery. The envy of classmates, the praise of teachers and the smiles of parents are all put into their schoolbags.
You came to the provincial key middle school, left your parents, left your hometown and stayed at school. You don't have to carry that bulging schoolbag anymore, because your books, stationery and counseling materials have built the Great Wall on your desk and placed it next to your pillow in the dormitory. The bag on the shoulder is gone, but the bag in the heart is heavier. You secretly vowed to be admitted to the best university in the country and let go of your dreams. In class, you look into the teacher's eyes and stare at the ever-changing screen. In the moonlight, in the shade of trees, in the library and in the laboratory, you walk through the long corridors.
For the purpose in your mind, you should prepare your own bag. Although the tangible schoolbag has become full of knowledge, it has become an ocean of knowledge. In this boundless space, whether you use it or not, you try your best to put it in. The more you pack, the richer you will be, because life is a long journey. Use this today, use that tomorrow, and eventually it will come in handy. Facing the future life, you must prepare your own bags; Even if some don't need it temporarily, they will accompany you to the distant place of happiness!