In fact, this is not a stupid remark, but that this person has not learned this so-called "speaking art". My mother often teaches me that a person's cultivation and moral character lies in the words he expresses.
If you always talk with a little sarcasm and ridicule, then you will definitely not have friends. If you speak with a little command, you will feel uncomfortable and naturally be isolated. If you speak softly and beg others, then you will be pointed at and let you do whatever you want. If you are wordy and never pay attention to the point you want to express, others will sound tired, so no one likes to communicate with you.
I am not a particularly talkative person. Sometimes, as soon as I say it, trouble follows. However, mother is a person with strong language skills. Her speech is not blunt, and what she expresses can leave a good impression as well as a bad one. At some appropriate times, you should speak tactfully, so that others will not be too sad, especially when you refuse others, because you didn't keep the appointment and can't answer in a confident tone. When talking to some elders, be polite, treat you as a respectful title, and don't speak in a questioning tone. Sometimes, don't we always ask our parents for something? Yes, this is actually a way of speaking, which can promote people's good feelings. Don't be reckless and calm in the face of language provocation from people you don't particularly like. This will show that you are very cultured and not easy to get angry, and people will respect you and apologize for his own behavior.
Speaking can not only express your thoughts, but also hurt a person, leave a good or bad impression on others, and you can also see what kind of person you are ... What we need most in life is language communication, so we should respect this art and learn more about it!