There is a word in psychology called "empathy", which means putting yourself in others' shoes and understanding their feelings. Empathy is not only to understand each other's pain, joy and other emotions ideologically, but also to feel the same physically. For a simple example, a mother felt sorry for her sick child when she saw him standing and swaying on the bus. She will ask good people to give up their seats. Her distress is not only reflected in psychology, but also in practical actions. This is what we call empathy. So we need to put ourselves in others' shoes in our daily life, and then feel, comfort and act.
Communicate with your heart and try your best to help others.
The so-called sincerity means being honest and kind to others and not choosing to cheat because of your own selfish desires. When people around you are in trouble, you can help as much as possible. There are many details in life. For a simple example, a colleague or classmate forgot to bring his meal card. At this time, we may not be their close friends, but we are in the same social circle. We should take the initiative to lend a helping hand instead of "feeling a little troublesome".
Forgive others and try to forgive.
Everyone has his own strengths and weaknesses, especially when working as a team. If your teammates don't finish the work in time, or don't meet your requirements, then we should think about what caused this situation. Maybe something happened to my teammates at home recently, or maybe there was a temporary bottleneck in my work. In short, don't criticize blindly, communicate more and try to forgive and tolerate others.
Respect others and don't interfere excessively with their decisions.
Many times, we all like to bind others with our own ideas, force others to do according to their own ideas, and throw out a sentence, "If you don't listen to me, you will suffer sooner or later." At this rate, we will lose many people. Although you do not want to see others fall and want to help them out of kindness, I think it is a sign of disrespect if you impose your wishes on others. Another way, another way, may be better. For example, be patient and reasonable, and influence others with your own personal experience.
Take a step back and learn to apologize.
It is inevitable that there will be differences between people. If it is handled well, both of them will take a step back, and perhaps things can be handled better. However, if they keep arguing, there will be no result, which is not good for both sides. Usually when one side makes concessions, the other side will stop acting. This is the embodiment of high emotional intelligence.
Learn to be patient and hold back the most hurtful words when you are angry.
When quarreling, if our words are too intense and hit each other's hearts, it will be useless to say more afterwards. After all, the most terrible thing is heartbreak.