Once upon a time, I was carefree and never thought about anything for the future! Maybe just yesterday, I was still thinking about how to spend tomorrow! A course of career guidance was opened this semester! Regardless of the details, when I heard this name, my mind suddenly flashed! Oh, I'm graduating! Think about your future!
Three years ago, I thought it would be smooth sailing to college. Only when I went to college did I find myself wrong, and everything was not as beautiful as I thought! I have done homework that I don't like, but I have been doing what I like! I have fallen behind in my lessons, but I am not very proficient in what I like! Because of the enrollment expansion, college students are not so rare, from the original elite to the ordinary knowledge public! There is nothing to complain about, not to mention going to college without expanding enrollment! The truth is that you have to accept it yourself!
The teacher told me to study hard even if I didn't like it. One is because I want to learn, the other is because I don't like it. Isn't it easier to learn what you like? Yes, that makes sense, and I tried to do it! But failed, I don't have that strong perseverance! I have always been confident in my inferiority complex! But stubborn oneself did not increase the burden on themselves, and still went its own way, thinking that it was still far from graduation at that time! But now, really, I'm graduating! If you want to think about it, decide how to go in the future, or you are deceiving yourself!
The expansion of enrollment has set off a craze for postgraduate entrance examination. I've just been in the business for a while. If you don't like it, you can learn what you like and take the postgraduate entrance examination! If you set a goal, work hard, get in, go to graduate school and graduate. Are you still worried about employment? At that time, others were fighting for themselves, weren't they?
I have always been an emotional person, maybe a little absolute, but in dealing with my own affairs, absolutely! Reluctantly let yourself do something, in order to change the future light and comfort, to put it bluntly, is to use temporary unhappiness for the future has been "happy"! In the materialistic world, in the world view of others' money first, if you succeed, you will be happy! But you know yourself best! This passive life will never be happy from the bottom of my heart even if it occasionally brings me material satisfaction! Because you were chosen, not chosen!
After strengthening myself, I decided to give up the postgraduate entrance examination! But an important event like this must be discussed with your family, especially in the traditional China family! My parents want me to take the postgraduate entrance examination. They don't know if I like it or not. They only know that the postgraduate entrance examination must have a future, and everyone else has to take it. It's worthless if you don't take it! Many students left at the suggestion of their families! It may be successful, but I don't envy it. I don't want to stick to the rules, and I don't want to live comfortably without passion! Maybe parents will be a little disappointed, maybe they can't really understand your thoughts, but the road is their own, even if it is wrong, they will never regret blaming anyone!
I am not hostile to the postgraduate entrance examination, but if the postgraduate entrance examination is only to relieve the employment pressure, I advise students who want to take the postgraduate entrance examination to let it go! You don't know what the world will be like in two years, but all you have to do is find a decent and well-paid job, and you can only grasp the present. Experience is not learned but experienced by yourself!
Employment, re-employment, and then starting a business is my choice! I think college students nowadays think too much of themselves. The gap between ideal and reality is that you can't get what you want for a while, and many college students think that they have spent a lot of tuition to go to school and should find a good job after graduation! Perhaps this is a common problem of China people. They think very well, but they are too lazy to do it! After work, I made myself look like a talent, complaining about the society and the surrounding environment all day! What college students in China lack is a fighting spirit. Of course, I mean most people! At this point, I admire foreign college students very much! Otherwise, there would be no Bill Gates today!
A year later, I will really step into the society. I won't criticize the shortcomings around my work because of my choice. I think it is because of my shortcomings that I am needed more! It doesn't hurt for young people to suffer more! When I find that I can't learn anything at work or have learned what I want to learn, I will choose to choose a career or start a business, and the scope of choosing a career will be larger, because after all, I still need to accumulate experience, and money is also a very important reason! Of course, all I think is that I have a goal, a lofty goal! And what I do is to move towards this goal and finally achieve it!
If a person can't think, then living is a body. And a person can think but can't act, so living is a fantasy, and finally nothing can be obtained!
It seems dangerous to learn another major without learning your favorite major well! What you want to do takes time and experience! Every time I face the classroom, the teacher and the laboratory, I feel guilty. I don't think an "asshole" like me should go to college to ruin her own beautiful imagination!
I lead a hard life. I get up no later than anyone in the morning, and I am very tired at the end of the day! But I am tired, happy, tired, relieved, tired! I dare not say that I can find a better job than others in a year! But I know that if you want to do something, you must do it well. No matter what difficulties you encounter, you can't back down! When you flinch, you are deceiving yourself, you give up all your previous efforts and sweat, and you also give up yourself!
Many students are researching, such as computer grade certificate, CET-4 and CET-6 certificate, and self-taught double degree certificate. Can't say it's useless, at least they can learn something from the process of textual research, but I think it's more afraid that the society will try its best to prove its ability if it doesn't accept itself! Of course, everyone knows the gold content of the certificate! I feel that some companies are stupid, cheated and laughed at! Of course, you can't blame the company.
(B) My views on tools
It is said that walking upright and learning to use tools are two key points in the process of orangutans becoming human. There is no doubt about the importance of tools to people, but in many cases, tools that should help people improve efficiency and productivity have become cumbersome. How did you tell this joke? In order to shear yak, a good pair of scissors is needed. In order to sharpen scissors, you need a good whetstone; The best whetstone is on an island in the Arctic Circle, so we must buy a dog to pull a sled. ...
Reality is always more ridiculous than literature, and reality is always more ridiculous than jokes. I used to think that a SLR camera would make me love photography more, but in reality I almost don't want to take it when I go out because it is too heavy. I used to think that driving would take me further, but the reality is that I am even more lazy to go out after buying a car. Alas, the reality is cruel.
In fact, it is best to have enough tools and get used to using them, especially the tools at hand. From last year to this year, I had several computer softwares, which greatly improved my work efficiency. I know that there may be "better" or "more ethical (open source? ) "Alternative software, but I am used to it.
1, Word and Groove in Microsoft Office 2007. Word's new toolbar layout is NB, and big buttons and more organized categories are easy to use. For example, in the "Start" toolbar group, buttons related to text styles are integrated, which is also my most commonly used toolbar group. When translating The Code of Dreams, Groove made it easy for me to synchronize the manuscript between several working computers, and the discussion with the editor was preserved forever. Anyone who has written a book knows that it is really stupid and unsafe to transmit by email. Don't mention subversion … I'm just an author, and I don't want to spend time learning a version control system. Recently, Live Mesh was installed, and synchronization is also very convenient, but the collaboration part is missing, so I can only use it myself.
2. Sogou Pinyin Input Method. My computer character input speed has been very slow, which is due to the fact that I copied an English extensive reading textbook with a typewriter in college. I used many Chinese input methods, but I finally chose sogou input method. For me, its several functions are very useful: to synchronize the thesaurus so that all my computers have the same thesaurus; Difficult stroke input (type U first, then type the first letter of stroke pinyin in order, such as "Yao". If you don't know how to spell it, enter uh shsh- horizontal and vertical); Cell thesaurus
3. Browse the browser. Many people ask me why I don't use Firefox. In fact, I use Firefox only when I verify and test the product on the website. Roaming mouse gesture (press the left button on the link and drag it to the upper right to open the link in a new tab; For example, a link that appears in plain text can be opened after being selected and dragged. ), synchronizing favorites (I used to have several computers, and it was very painful for my collection to be out of sync) and screenshot functions (area screenshot, full-screen screenshot, full-page screenshot-including the off-screen part) are another drill for me, and I love them! Yes, there are plug-ins on Firefox, but I really don't want to spend time looking for and installing them.
Windows Live Writer. After using this tool, you can contribute more to your blog.
Using these tools, my work efficiency has increased by more than 30%. Well, yes, these are all tools on the Windows platform. Don't start swearing yet. I have no prejudice against any company or platform. I only use them because I am used to it. Changing habits is a high-cost behavior and I can't afford it. In addition, when I use software now, I will follow the copyright agreement (whether commercial software or open source and free software), and I will buy what I need. It's not about money, but I think it will make me pay more attention to the input-output ratio and consider whether to invest time and money in a new tool. Be careful when loading tools; Use tools to avoid doing your best. Get maximum output with minimum input. This is my tool view.
(3) My views on education
First, the concept of students-treat children as children.
1. Children are human. First of all, treat children as human beings. Everyone has his own personality and dignity. Teachers should respect human personality, protect human dignity and get along with others on an equal footing. The relationship between teachers and students should be friends and bosom friends. As a human being, I have thoughts, needs and subjective initiative. Education should respect and adapt to this objective fact, deeply understand children and give full play to their enthusiasm and initiative. People have different personalities. Education cannot ignore the differences between people. Everything emphasizes unified standards. We should respect and adapt to differences and promote the full development of human personality.
Children are not mature physically and psychologically, so we must protect them and tolerate them. Children have their own nature, and we can't measure and demand it by the standards of adults. We should go deep into children's hearts as far as possible, fully understand their characteristics, make education close to children's reality and serve their development, instead of passively adapting children to the adult model. The children are curious and imaginative. In generate, there are often many creative sparks in their way of understanding the world. Education should pay special attention to protecting children's creative desire and potential.
3. Children are developing people with strong plasticity. On the one hand, we should be careful not to jump to conclusions too early and label children; On the other hand, we should be soberly aware of what influence our current education has on him and what attitude children will take towards society and life in the future. We should nourish children's hearts with our own love, so that children can always feel the love given by people around them, and let them love themselves, others and society.
4. Treat children as your own children. Only in this way can we dilute the utilitarianism in education and think about children's lifelong development, and our education will be successful.
Second, the basic concept-happiness rooted in children's hearts.
"Reducing the burden does not reduce the quality, and reducing the burden cannot dilute the foundation", which is quite right. But how to treat quality, and what kind of foundation should be laid for students to lay well? We believe that the foundation of harmonious personality is much more important than the foundation of knowledge and skills. It is an important mission of our basic education to root happiness in children's hearts.
1. Happiness comes from a harmonious personality. A recent survey of 200 middle school students by an authoritative organization in Beijing surprised us even more: 49.82% were anxious, 37.83% were timid and inferior, 32. 1 1% were neurasthenia, and 24.24% were depressed. A person's happiness depends largely on his state of mind. The important task of education is to let children develop an optimistic attitude and form a harmonious personality. Can feel the beauty of nature, can feel the fun of getting along with others, and can treat life, study and peers with a very positive, active and open mind.
2. Happiness comes from today's life. Our children often study hard under the slogan of "for tomorrow", bearing a heavy burden and not feeling the happiness of life. Childhood depression can lead to lifelong personality distortion. Our education can't sacrifice children's today for their tomorrow. The first thing we should do in the educational reform is to liberate children, give them space and time to develop freely, and let them enjoy innocence and childlike interest in their golden childhood. Only by making children happy today will we be happy tomorrow and our society will develop harmoniously.
3. Happiness comes from the pursuit of ideals. We emphasize happiness, not to say that students should not study hard. Happiness should come from the pursuit of ideals and the creation of life. What our education needs to pay attention to is how to let children learn actively, how to let children live actively, how to let children have their own ideals and form their own hobbies, so as to pursue and create hard and experience the happiness of pursuit and creation. Basic education should attach importance to cultivating children's spirit of pursuit and creation.
Third, the educational concept-developing children's potential.
We should believe that every child has a certain potential. Education is to fully develop the potential of each child on the basis of fully understanding the potential of each child. We should try our best to create a good educational environment for them, put a banner in the distance where they can see, light a lamp in their hearts, encourage them to pursue and realize, so as to fully display their personality. In the process, and give appropriate protection, help and encouragement. In this regard, three changes should be made in the way of education:
1, change control to service. For a long time, our education is a kind of controlled education, because students are the object of teachers' education, and teachers have the right to control students, instill various concepts and knowledge into students, teach you to obey, and praise you for obeying; It is good for you to do "serious things" at all times, and it is good for you to copy irrelevant words ten times, which is convenient for management and can earn work results for managers (teachers). Education always gives people a feeling of "condescending" in educational practice. Most students are in a state of passive response, with too many "others" and too little "autonomy". Education needs equal teacher-student relationship. Students are not only the object of teacher education, but also the object of teacher service. Only by making students the object of teachers' service can we really develop students' potential. To serve students, teachers should enhance their sense of service, not always bossing around like managers, but strive to be students' friends and confidants, respect students' personality, go deep into students and understand their actual potential. Let students feel the help of teachers at any time, not teaching. In this way, students' minds will be in a free and open positive state.
2. Turn complaining into appreciation. Some people say, "Teachers and parents in China love children the most, but they don't love them the least." For the sake of children, they always complain about their incompetence. Their eyes are always fixed on the shortcomings and weaknesses of students. Over time, students themselves feel "no" and personally push the educational effect to the opposite side, "doing bad things with good intentions", but they still don't wake up. Self-confidence is the core of independent spirit. If a person loses confidence in his ability, it is impossible to have real autonomy and creativity. If education wants students to be confident and feel that they can do it, they must turn complaints into appreciation. First of all, we must believe in children, believe in their potential, and believe that everyone can become a talent, so that students can feel this belief and enhance their confidence in this belief; Secondly, we should motivate children so that all students can feel their success through hard work. It is necessary to downplay horizontal comparison and attach importance to vertical evaluation, instead of adopting uniform standards, which vary from person to person. Admit differences, allow failures, and make students feel that success means showing their talents and doing their best; Finally, be good at finding children and guiding them. In what direction do you want your child to develop, look for the "bright spot" there and let it develop through praise and encouragement. It can even create a "bright spot" for children to constantly "pursue their abilities", which does have this advantage, because research shows that everyone has the psychology of pursuing their abilities.
3. Replace Fill with Select. To respect and trust children, we must dare to let students make their own choices and decisions. Our education has become accustomed to asking students to do filling questions, planning students' time to be full, and asking them to fill in the same content within the established framework. There is no need to choose. All the teachers have arranged to be replaced, so you just have to complete the task according to them. This is actually a great contempt and violation of students' subjectivity. How to make children have the spirit of autonomy? Education should first give students the right to choose, give them free time to do what they like and learn what they are eager to learn. What does a teacher do? Strive to create an environment and mechanism for students to fly freely.