Today, I carefully read the Guide to Learning and Development for Children Aged 3-6, and wrote down some of my experiences and shared them with you in combination with some problems I encountered in the process of accompanying my children to grow up.

It can be said that "expecting children to succeed" is every parent's greatest wish. Parents pin all their hopes on their children, create the best conditions for them, and enroll them in interest classes for fear that they will fall behind other children. "Don't lose at the starting line" can be said to be the advertising slogan of various training institutions, and it is also deeply rooted in the hearts of all mothers. I think I am no exception. I learned something from the research guide. As a parent, I must not blindly compare education with other children. I must establish a correct educational concept. The Guide has made goals and suggestions for the training of children aged 3-6 from five aspects: health, language, society, science and art. According to these contents, some of my treasures have been achieved, and some need further training.

Since my son learned to use grandma's mobile phone, he often calls me when he needs help. Many times, I calmed him down and asked him to wait for his mother to come back to help him. I remember one time, he called and said that the TV could not be put out, and neither could grandma. I asked him what was wrong. He said that my dad saw something downloaded from the computer yesterday and didn't bring it back. I understood at once. Listening to my son's urgent cry for help, I thought of calling him for guidance and seeing if he could succeed, so I told him the specific operation method. I thought he wouldn't find signs like TV /AV, but he finally found them. Listening to the sound of my son jumping for joy on the phone, I think he was happy at that moment, because he did something that he wouldn't normally do, even his grandmother wouldn't do. Of course, I appreciate it at the right time. By the way, my grandmother won't, because I didn't have the conditions to go to school when I was a child. My mother won't know so much until she goes to school. My son should study hard now. A word said at this time is more effective than how many times you usually recite it! Through this incident, I also realized that a child may need more than results in the process of growing up, and it may be more meaningful to guide him to properly accomplish what he wants to do.

The growth of children needs the company of their parents, and parents will also experience unusual happiness in the process of accompanying their children to grow up. Just like me, I like to go with my son when he excitedly shouts that his pet screw has given birth to a baby, which is very novel; I like to teach my son to sing the songs that the school teacher came back to teach him, and then he always seriously criticized me for singing wrong and said, "You are so stupid!" " " ; I like to knead all kinds of mud with him and ask him for help occasionally; I like reading story books and sticking stickers with him in Le Xiaozhi Tiandi. I like him to tell me interesting things that happened at school with his favorite classmates; I like to ask him for help when doing housework; I like to play nitpicking with him; I like him to correct my mistakes seriously.

The guide points out that 3-6 years old is the golden age for children's development. The guide sets some goals for children at each stage and gives parents a lot of advice. Every child has his own characteristics. Children's development is a continuous and gradual process, and each stage will show certain characteristics. We should support and guide our babies to grow up better and happier according to their characteristics and preferences. As parents, we should be good at discovering the advantages and strengths of children and give more affirmation and praise. We should not simply compare the shortcomings of our children with the advantages of other children. I think, in the future education, with the guidance of the guide, I will have more direction and pay more attention to the way in educating children!

The above is my experience, and there are still many puzzles. I hope I can do better in my future study and communication, and I will pay attention to the healthy growth of my children!