If you want to put a new spring, you must drain the existing old water; If you want a rose, you must give up the rose you have; If you want to have more unique experiences, you must have more mental trauma?
In fact, on the road of life, there will always be two kinds, either give up or choose, so that I don't know how to choose. Just like there are two delicious sweets in front of you, you like them both, but you can only choose one, and you don't want to lose the other, so you hesitate there, and in the end, you can't get either.
So, learn to give up. You can't run away from what belongs to you, and you can't catch what doesn't belong to you. After giving up, you will feel a little relaxed. It is enough that you cherish what you have and grasp what you have.
Giving up doesn't mean you have failed. You can still have new hope, follow new hope and follow the candlelight of hope.
Maybe I said it too easily. Some things are not so easy to let go and give up. But many times you have to be decisive. If you are still immersed in hesitation and don't make a decision, you will become more and more hesitant, less and less talkative, and you will always be cranky and absent-minded at work.
It's really easy to give up This is much easier than death. Death, at least at the moment before death, will make you suffer, not that you want to die. Is it not easy to give up as long as you spread your hands and don't move?
Therefore, when the problem is difficult to solve and you don't want to seek relief, please don't think of death at the beginning. Death is not the fundamental solution to all problems, it will only make your relatives and friends more miserable. You just have to make up your mind, stop insisting, understand that it's futile, and then give it up to liberate yourself and stop suffering from it.
Give up those unnecessary thoughts, give up those dreams that will not come true and return to reality!
Giving up is not the disillusionment of a hope, but the beginning of another hope. You just need to know when to give up.