Argument 1: When people get along with each other, they should be strict with themselves, be lenient with others and not be harsh with others. In the friendship between Guan Zhong and Bao, Bao was strict with himself and lenient with others, which finally made their friendship last forever and left him a much-told story.
Sub-argument 2: Heteronomy and self-discipline promote each other, because figure affects the environment and the environment also affects people.
You can give an example in real life if you and I are both. . . .
You can also give a counterexample, such as the Copenhagen Climate Summit in Denmark. Many countries shirk their responsibilities and are not strict with themselves, which affects the atmosphere of the meeting and leads to the failure of the negotiations.
Argument 3: For the whole society, the purpose of self-discipline and heteronomy is the same. They are all signposts of life, guiding us to the right path and preventing us from going astray. We can assume that if we strictly demand ourselves to do one thing well, then there will be no more in our society. . . . .
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For example, the ancient sages said, "My country, Japan and three provinces are my own." Being strict with yourself has always been regarded as the excellent quality of a gentleman. Self-discipline is valuable, but heteronomy is also important and indispensable for a proper society. So we should treat self-discipline and heteronomy correctly. Only with good self-discipline and perfect heteronomy can a person succeed and a society develop healthily.
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