The ancients said, "Give up, give up, and you will get it." Isn't that what life is all about? People who know how to give up can always get more sunshine than greedy people, which is the truth that only by giving up can they get it. Willingness is a great secret of dealing with people, and greed is a shortcoming of people. Greedy people often get nothing. Xiao Shenyang is a famous corrupt official in history. He can talk nonsense in front of the emperor, but he can do whatever he wants in private. It was his greed that led to his misery and abandonment. The story of Xiao Shenyang only reflects his behavior of not knowing which to choose. He doesn't know how to give up, although his greedy heart ruined his life. Giving up is a way of doing things. Liu Yuxi gave up his wealth and lived in seclusion in a corner of the world of mortals, and only then did he have a leisurely life in My Humble Room Inscription, and he had a refined state of mind of laughing, being a great scholar and having no contact with Ding Bai. It is precisely because Lu Xun is willing to give up medical treatment that he wrote the literary glory of Shout and Morning Flowers and Evening Picking, and he got the famous sentence of "bow your head and be a willing ox". Liu bang was just a nobody before he proclaimed himself emperor. It was because of his willingness, temporary dignity and servile treatment of Xiang Yu that he won the great rivers and mountains of the Han Dynasty and became the son of heaven. Therefore, willingness is a state of mind, which helps you get something by giving up. In life, we should learn to be willing, because some things have no result after all, and we can only get nothing if we persist blindly. We need to have a broad mind, and only a broad mind can be willing to give up. Lian Po's broad mind made him willing to give up his position temporarily in exchange for a peaceful ending, while Xiang Yu's narrow mind eventually led to his Wujiang suicide tragedy. Learning to be willing to give up requires us to have a hard-working and intelligent heart. Giving up blindly may also lead to a lifetime of mediocrity. Yuan Longping gave up the comfort in the air-conditioned room and resolutely chose to go to the wild for scientific research in the scorching sun. He gave up his comfort, but he had a hard-working and intelligent heart, and won the reputation of the father of hybrid rice. On the road of growth, we must believe that giving up is what we get. Only giving up today's boredom, giving up. On Shede

Be willing to give up, be willing to give up, you will get it if you give up, dare to give up and dare to get it, don't be reluctant, the small house is small and the big house is big, so give it up. Giving up and gaining, like cause and effect, are related and interactive. Isn't "willingness" the true meaning of life? Giving up seems to be for people, but it is also for yourself. If you smile at someone, you can make them smile at you. If you are kind to people, people will be kind to you. We say, no pains, no gains. How can you gain without giving? Ordinary people hope that they can live a long and healthy life, have a prosperous population and become famous. First of all, ask yourself: What have you done for the world in order to get such a perfect result? Have you sown? If not, how can there be harvest in autumn? To be willing to give up is to "give up the fans and forget the fans, give up the small ones, give up the fake ones, and be realistic." If you can put aside your paranoia, obstacles, troubles, sadness and delusions, you will be relaxed and happy, and you will naturally gain a new realm of life. Everything in the world, whoever gives up, will get something. A pot of flowers, if you "fall off" the dead branches and leaves, it can't grow tender leaves, sprout new buds and grow flowers. The so-called "put down the butcher's knife and become a Buddha"; Letting go is "giving up". How to become a Buddha without giving up? A person can't make progress unless he has the courage to get rid of old bad habits. Giving up is not blind, giving up is purposeful, and getting is selective. In today's society, many people are vying for fame and fortune and are reluctant to give up. In fact, you have already thought about it, and everything will be lost. Similarly, if you give up, you will get it. Everyone who has achieved great things knows this. Give up where you are, give up where you are, and be inexhaustible. There are too many things to want in life, which is human nature and a driving force to promote social progress. However, this gap is difficult to fill. Desire often makes people uncertain about giving up and getting, either too late or too much, which leads to many tragedies that should not have happened. Some people say that people who can survive, or successful people, know how to "give up" best. "Giving up" contains almost all the true knowledge and wisdom of life. As long as we can really grasp the scale of giving up and getting, we can grasp the key to success in life. Life, vegetation and human feelings are actually just the repetition of giving up and getting. Therefore, when dealing with people, whenever something is bothering you, please think about the "wish" of the old monk. If you give up, you will get it, and your mind will naturally get peace and tranquility. In today's society, many people's outlook on life has been assimilated by the superficial reality, and both "virtue" and "she" have been given a color that should not have existed. They only know what they want, pursue fame and fortune and are insatiable. Therefore, "De" was crowned with a hollow of praise, and always felt that what should not be lost and what should not be given up were lost, and "She" was also crowned with a hollow of derogatory meaning. In the years of my life, when my experience is not enough to understand the real intention of giving up, I just want to "get" and never give up. I insist on my inappropriate insistence, which makes me bear more and more heavy, so that I can't breathe, slow down and finally stop. When you really stop because of this, maybe we should rethink ourselves, give ourselves some time to purify, try to redefine the true intention of "giving up" in past experiences, and let them return to nature, which will also allow us to return some spiritual materials that have been separated too far from reality to their proper positions. By separating "giving up" from the "right and wrong of good and bad" that we have known and distinguished in the past, you can realize another sublimation essence of the so-called "giving up", because it pays more attention to when to give up and breaks the consistent principle of giving up based on "right and wrong of good and bad". Life, love and career should all learn to give up and learn to gain. Fight for what belongs to you. If it is not your own, you must learn to be willing. If you can't see clearly, let others help you. If you don't understand, let others understand and let yourself learn. Give up what you should give up and get what you deserve. Learn to relax, let go of yourself, know yourself, and understand that a small house is small and a big house is big, and you deserve it. When you really understand this, I think you should clearly know how to make your burden easier, learn how to get and how to give up; How to get, how to give up, how to "learn from getting, learn from giving up", then you will go higher and higher on the ladder of your life.