Case: A foreigner helped her aunt fall down in the street and her clothes were torn. Cost 1800 yuan (20 13. 12.3 Netease homepage).
65438+ February 2,? A foreigner who helped her aunt fall down in the street was wronged 1800 yuan? A group of pictures spread like wildfire on the Internet, causing great public concern, and many netizens condemned the aunt one after another. It is understood that at about 0: 30 yesterday morning, at the intersection of Xiangheyuan Road and Zuojiazhuang East Street in Chaoyang District, Beijing, Ms. Li, with a northeast accent, suddenly fell down while passing a foreign youth riding a motorcycle and his girlfriend in China, causing onlookers. Finally, foreign youth compensated Ms. Li 1800 yuan.
The owner of the roadside canteen said that at that time, my aunt had fallen to the ground. I saw those two men drag the old lady to the side of the road. More and more people gathered later. The East Foreign Traffic Police Brigade and the police from Li Xinyuan Police Station came, and the dispute lasted for about two hours. ? A sanitation worker said that when he passed by to work, he only saw that the clothes of foreigners had been pulled. Feather core exposed? .
Today, the direction of public opinion reversed. Many witnesses claimed that the report was untrue, and the aunt was indeed a victim. Foreigners also swore at her on the spot. Mr. Li, an eyewitness who first posted the group map online, provided two videos taken on the spot.
In the first video, Ms. Li squatted in front of a black motorcycle of a foreign youth, clutching the handlebar with her left hand and shouting at the seat with her right hand. The girlfriend of a foreign youth said to Ms. Li: Yes, we have long run away and are still arguing here. What are you arguing about? She tried to break away from her aunt's grip on the handlebar, but failed. Foreign youth standing by, the down jacket at the lower left has been torn, revealing a large area of the inner core, and the black flannel turned out. Foreign youth said to his girlfriend:? Help me. Let her go. ? And Ms. Li is still holding down the black motorcycle with her hand and not letting it go. She shouts: I want to call the police! ?
In another live video shot by the roadside copy shop staff and provided to the author, foreigners kept swearing in fluent Chinese. You are lying. You think I'm a foreigner and you want to cheat me? Wait a minute.
The next scene pushed things to the climax of controversy. Mr. Li said: The foreign youth stood for two steps and didn't mean to leave, but when the aunt saw that she was not around, she jumped on him, grabbed the young man and hugged him, tearing and beating him, hugging his waist and legs, and everyone at the scene saw it. The old lady said, you hit me, what do you want to run? ? Then, the two sides pushed each other, and more and more people were watching.
? In the photo, she was not injured either. The girlfriend of a foreign youth said that the old lady wanted several thousand yuan, but later she bargained for 1800 yuan. The old lady came and left without leaving her phone number. ?
Ms. Li said that she had a heart attack. After being hit that day, she caused high blood pressure. The reaction was fierce, and her whole body twitched. When she saw the foreigner leave, she rushed over. ? According to Ms. Li, 1800 yuan is the medical expenses, but she didn't produce the detailed documents. ?
In this case, we can see three social phenomena: (1) Recently, there have been sad and strange social phenomena. The old man fell down, and if he helped, he would be wronged. If he didn't help, he would condemn his moral quality. The help of good people is beaten, and people dare not lend a helping hand in the face of fresh cases. (2) In a good society, more good people should help others while satisfying their sense of moral accomplishment, so as to promote the healthy development of society and realize the important guarantee of morality. In this case, foreigners who helped the elderly were cheated 1800 yuan, which seriously violated social morality. (3) Morality is a positive social value, but if practicing morality is accompanied by too high risks and even poses too great a challenge to people's self-interest nature, morality will become a realm that is difficult for ordinary people to miracle, and finally it can only stop when most people look at it. The phenomenon that foreigners' help to the elderly is misinformed in the case will only have a very bad influence.
From this simple case, we can see that the moral problems in our country are very serious now, and there are many unimaginable cases that impact the bottom line of ethics. The fraud and false statements in the case have disgraced China people. As tourists, foreigners are more inclined to help the elderly out of instinct and kindness, which will have a great negative impact on China's excellent moral quality. But for China people, in recent years, there have been frequent incidents of helping the elderly to fight extortion. Some people also lost money because of this. Slowly, online publicity and word of mouth have made people take a detour for the old man to fall on the road. In fact, many times, it is not indifference, but no one dares to lend a helping hand. At the same time, when similar wronged incidents happen, more people show a lively mood.
China is a country with traditional moral culture, and our nation has the ability to continue the moral culture. With the increase of social material wealth and the improvement of people's living standards, moral civilization and moral bottom line have been impacted, and the deteriorating situation has caught people off guard. Seriously speaking, it will endanger the morality of the Chinese nation and lead to collapse. As a member of the country and a pioneer of social progress, we can't shut down the audio-visual system. We must face the problem and find a solution.
Should we re-understand what is moral and moral bottom line? So-called? Bottom line? Refers to the lowest level and minimum of a thing, which is lower than this? Degree? The basic nature of things will change. Because of this, the moral bottom line has become the lowest threshold of people's basic conscience, dignity and kindness. Beyond this zero point, people may no longer be real people, and social relations are no longer the original social relations. Marx believed that people appeared as social people from the beginning, so people's consciousness was social consciousness from the beginning, and the relationships between people in social life and the handling of these relationships formed moral consciousness. There has been moral consciousness since the appearance of human beings, but after thousands of years of development, our moral consciousness is getting weaker and weaker, and moral quality is disappearing bit by bit. Judging from the information published on the Internet every day, new moral cases appear every day, and all kinds of abnormal cases emerge one after another, which is dazzling and overwhelming. Moral quality is the result of nurture and education. As a spiritual force, it can play the role of self-discipline and self-supervision, which requires the guidance and education of society, schools and families. However, due to the great transformation of the whole society in China, the values of the whole society are inevitably affected, and the unified, authoritative and absolutely dominant moral concepts are not taken seriously. At present, the education that should attach importance to moral education has been completely replaced by the emphasis on achievements. In school, students' test scores have become the only goal pursued by schools, teachers, parents and students. Moral education is not taken seriously in society, and skill training is particularly important, because the improvement of workers' skills can directly drive the improvement of production labor rate and bring higher profits, thus leading to the emergence of these people? Moral short legs? Without a high sense of moral self-discipline, the moral building, which is not solid in itself, began to collapse under the temptation of money and interests, and the moral bottom line was constantly lost.
Facing the worsening moral problems, we urgently need to strengthen moral education for the broad masses of the people. Marxism holds that moral education is a purposeful, planned and organized activity that exerts moral influence on people in a certain society and stage according to certain moral principles and norms. We must realize that without moral education, no morality can go deep into social life and play a role in it. Ancient Confucius asked for it? Teach the people with virtue? Just for the people? Guide it with virtue and treat it with courtesy? , people can do it? Shame and dignity? . Ancient thinkers' profound understanding of the social adjustment function of moral education still has guiding significance for us to correctly understand the importance of moral education today. Therefore, we need to strengthen personal moral quality, which requires a process: raising moral awareness, cultivating moral feelings, establishing moral beliefs, exercising moral will and forming moral habits. With these five kinds, we can greatly improve our moral quality. For our own moral education methods, we can be carefully taught by our parents at home. In school, we listen carefully to the teacher's indoctrination to be useful people, adjust ourselves to the direction of social hope, and consciously safeguard and abide by the moral norms advocated by some classes. Through these three ways of educating us and our understanding of good and evil, we can standardize our behavior and resolutely fight against behaviors that violate morality and law.