Dormitory is the most basic unit of daily study and life in university campus, and it is the most active, relaxed and autonomous place for college students to exchange ideas. In the history of China University, the harmonious dormitory relationship left a series of anecdotes. However, the tense dormitory relationship has also brought irreparable trauma to college life, and all the stories have proved to us the importance of establishing a harmonious dormitory relationship.

So, how to establish a harmonious dormitory relationship? I am here to give some advice to the students:

First of all, we should learn to be strict with ourselves and be lenient with others. In interpersonal communication, we should learn correct communication skills, understand tolerance, and learn to understand and respect roommates. Mencius once said that people who love others will always love others; People who respect others will always respect others. Students who enter universities and dormitories come from different regions and families and have their own inherent living habits. Therefore, we can't just ask others by personal standards. You should know that your own behavior and lifestyle may be disliked and unacceptable by others. Therefore, in communication, if we have sincere motives and attitudes towards each other, can tolerate and understand each other and arouse * * * emotionally, then the roommate relationship will naturally be consolidated and developed.

Secondly, we should learn to empathize and seek common ground while reserving differences. If you want to maintain good interpersonal relationships with people around you, you must learn to put yourself in the other's shoes, think more about others when you are in trouble, and treat others sincerely. Strive to achieve the "six noes": don't misinform others' shortcomings, don't insult others, don't spy on others' privacy, don't obliterate others' strength, don't ignore others' trivial matters, and don't remember others' mistakes. We should be good at seeking common ground while reserving differences and constantly improve ourselves.

Third, we should learn to be honest and friendly, and unite and help each other. Life will encounter many disappointments. What people need most in adversity is the comfort and help of friends. A warm word and a cup of affectionate water will make the dormitory full of warmth and make your classmates regard you as their relatives.

Dormitory, as an indispensable space in university life, is a post station to enhance classmates' friendship. Dormitory life is a valuable asset in our life. Classmates-simple and heavy, giving up friendship-are as close as brothers.