There is nothing wrong with love itself, but who is in love and how to talk about it. Middle school students are in a period of poor psychological endurance and impulsiveness. During this period, they fall in love, because of some setbacks in love, their self-control ability is poor, and they are very prone to extreme behavior. Adolescent ignorance may bring physical harm to each other.
Students falling in love will bring heavy psychological pressure to both sides, leading to a series of adverse consequences such as falling grades. Under the background of modern society, middle school students who are in love are bound to be under pressure from parents, teachers and other aspects. This is an indisputable fact.
Under such pressure, the psychological shadow of both sides is getting stronger and stronger, which will inevitably lead to the decline of the other party's performance and irritability, thus producing a series of adverse reactions. We can't change the environment, we can only adapt to it. If you go your own way, the outcome will be out of control. Because middle school students have no financial resources and the economy is not independent, falling in love with middle school students will bring a heavy financial burden to their families.
Middle school students can't take care of themselves yet, and they need their parents' support financially. In the process of falling in love, it is essential to give gifts on birthdays and go out to eat at ordinary times. Often in order to leave a good impression on the opposite sex, it often pays a high economic price. This is bound to bring a heavy burden to parents.
The age of falling in love should not be too early. If it's just a little affection, you can still leave good memories in the future, but you can't be distracted. High school can be said to be the most important period in the life of Chinese students, and its influence is lifelong. Therefore, frequent contact or even closer relationship like some students will not only affect the study of two people, but also have a bad influence on other students.
Generally, people who like to spend a lot of time together, those who openly plan for the future, are actually not together in the end, and neither of them has been admitted to the university. Being admitted is not so good. Now I heard that a couple succeeded. They were not a couple at that time. Maybe they also have a good impression.
But they didn't really fall in love, and they all studied hard. Later, they were admitted to the university, talked about it in the university and talked about it after graduation. Finally, they succeeded. Moreover, it is a success in both career and love, and it is best not to talk about it in high school.
To sum up, I don't think middle school students should fall in love.