Some people think that fate is predestined.

Others think that fate is in their own hands.

Have we ever wondered what role parents play in the fate of their children?

Looking around, parents are anxious people.

Afraid that children will lose at the starting line, suffer hardships, have poor academic performance and fail to get into a good school. ...

Take a closer look, parents are blind followers.

See what extra-curricular classes other children are taking and try their best to get grades. ...

Digging deeper, parents are dereliction of duty.

The cultivation of children is a long-term systematic project, but it often becomes an impromptu graffiti.

President Liu Daoyu has been engaged in higher education for nearly 60 years. Although he has a long experience, there is a question that always bothers him: What are the parents of primary and secondary school students aiming at now, desperately hoping that their children will go to a good school? What do college students really rely on to become talents?

Is it highly educated and highly educated? But not everyone who gets a college diploma or even a higher degree can become an outstanding talent; Are they all famous teachers? Not everyone who enters a key university or learns from a famous teacher can become an outstanding talent.

Mr. Hua became a world-class master of mathematics after graduating from junior high school. He studied with more than 100 students, but only five or six of them (5%) were recognized as outstanding mathematicians in mathematics. What is the reason?

President Liu Daoyu has been thinking about these issues. After years of study and thinking, he finally got a little experience: whether he can become a successful person does not depend on the level of education and degree, whether he studies abroad, whether he studies under good or bad conditions, or whether his family is rich. You can only decide for yourself. It depends on your own interests, ideals and persistence.

Where do these quality requirements come from?

Only family education.

If parents choose to pay attention to their children's unique interests, they can effectively develop their interests and ideals;

If parents understand their children's own communication style, they can enhance their influence in daily life;

If parents train their children by coaching athletes, they will have a persistent and dedicated spirit.

Parents can also not choose these ifs, but continue to be anxious, blindly obedient and dereliction of duty.

The fate of children has also been chosen in different directions here.

Every child can become a legend in the future, and the choice of parents is the biggest fate of children.