This is also the topic of that proposition composition a long time ago. Although I am not a good student, I am not a bad debtor. There is always a time to think of repayment. Today, I joked with my friends that four years ago, teachers were all on guard against self-defense and defined the so-called "puppy love" as a big violation. Four years later, they were surprised that I was not in love. It seems that my biological clock should be as accurate as the estrus of all other mammals, neither too early nor too late. We were friends at that time, in our own definition. It doesn't matter what others think. However, all the familiar students unanimously asserted that "those people are by no means in love." Unfortunately, those adults who pursue the enrollment rate and the so-called sense of responsibility never distinguish budding love from the congenial feelings of intimate friends. Maybe they're right. In their idea, men and women have no reason to be together except love. As a result, they did what they thought was right, just like the inevitable persecution in all romantic dramas. Unfortunately, it was not the hero and heroine who separated this time, but several children. From the age of 16 to the age of 18, they spent the period from youth to youth together. They have similar values and philosophical ideas, they pay attention to similar propositions, they use allusions of mutual understanding, and they are eager for mutual understanding and growth on the ideological level. All this, teachers, know nothing. They create misunderstandings in the smartest way they can think of, take advantage of parents' information asymmetry, take advantage of teenagers' sensitive and arrogant temperament, and take advantage of the anxiety that anyone may have at such a fateful moment, so that everything seems to have really happened. It suddenly occurred to me what would happen if we were really lovers then. Write it in a story, and anything can happen. Exposing one's heart, or double suicide, may be a cliche, but it is precisely because it is too ordinary that it lacks originality. Unfortunately, this is not the case. I have been trying to prove that there may be feelings between men and women that do not involve physical desires, but pure friendship and concern; Since there will be love between the same sex, there will naturally be friendship between the opposite sex, won't there? At that time, I subconsciously agreed with the judgment that "falling in love at this age is not good"; However, it is precisely because we know that this is a proposition held by mainstream values that fighting against it has become a natural mission. I even have a happy and proud attitude. I have never denied their rumors in any state. What's really funny is that they never asked me "What is the truth". They don't care. Now my judgment becomes "Love is meaningless". I saw countless joys and sorrows around me. Roommates broke up earth-shattering or just sad, and countless people poured out their experiences and told various experiences in the article. Nothing but sweetness, betrayal and parting. I have never involved myself in such a risky gamble. If it is for food and clothing, money is much more reliable than men-it will never betray you. I have read countless articles dissecting single female aristocrats, saying that they can't find a suitable marriage partner because of 1234 A, b, c and d, but few people have asked: Why do you have to get married? I saw these words the other day and said, "We still love men like our grandmother; But for them, this is their food, for us, this is our favorite snack; They think they are our truth, but in fact they are only arguments we bring occasionally; They thought it was our sun, but actually they just thought they would put a flashlight in their bag ... "I don't remember the original. Love may be candy and ice cream, which are delicious, but not necessary and even harmful in the end. If you can get it, it may be good; If you can't do it or give up, you don't have to be sorry. I don't deny that I am emotionally insensitive and indifferent. Or use a friend's summary, "I didn't know it until later, and then I felt+heartless." At the same time, my disagreement with the marriage system itself is an important reason, which also drives me to have no interest in this long-term career. If the ultimate goal recognized by the world is a result that I have always suspected, then how attractive the process itself can be. I don't approve of one person's exclusive or possessive relationship with another, and I don't want to be called XX: I face the world as an individual, not as a subordinate or vassal of others or groups. This is the direction I have been working hard for. Even so, I am willing to believe that although I can't agree with it, it is even more impossible to practice such a psychological state. Maybe it still exists, or once existed, or will exist. Therefore, in my own way, I wish happiness to all the people who think they love. (For reference only) Give points.