Start learning directly from the world.

Then when I grow up, I learn from my parents and friends.

Be older and learn from books.

Gradually I became more experienced and learned from my own experience.

I don't have enough consciousness and ability to learn the world and others. Here, I particularly emphasize learning from others.

Learning from others has many advantages:

First of all, as far as learning itself is concerned, learning from others has many benefits.

Other people's life experiences are different, and her point of view can break away from your logical limitations and inspire you;

Compared with books

1, others, especially good friends, can communicate with you, discuss repeatedly, ask questions and answer questions until they are clear; And good friends can focus on your personal situation. We know that self-cultivation is self-cultivation. I used to be like this, slowly practicing in another direction. This process is subtle and long. This book doesn't know you. It can only tell you what he thinks is right. Assuming this book is correct, we all know that Rome was not built in a day. So how do you achieve it in your situation? How to do it first and then how to do it? What general idea should we grasp for the time being and proceed step by step? There are no two identical leaves and no identical people in the world. The situation is very different and needs targeted consideration. We should repair Rome directly according to the book, and it is the same. Perhaps it is not "human cultivation", but "Tao" and "cultivation" of people. At this time, you need friends to give you targeted advice and guidance.

When working with you, you don't need to describe the ins and outs of the whole event and environmental details. You already think that a few simple words can get twice the result with half the effort, but it is difficult for books to describe all the specific details and to be understood correctly. Understanding the author's point of view is error-prone and too complicated.

3. It is difficult to directly express the truly meaningful and profound meaning. What can be expressed is meaningless. It's hard to say that wisdom can only be expressed in a roundabout way. Friends, mentors, colleagues and family members may smile at you and express a meaning that you may understand, or their behavior or specific comments on a specific matter may capture the deep meaning. For example, what Brother J said about love last time: "The key is to relax and not lose", and he also said: "When you don't need it, the opportunity is not an opportunity, but a trap"; They all inspired me a lot. Last time Mr. Jiang discussed ppt, he said to Mr. Zhu: Mr. Zhu said that ppt may attach too much importance to logical relations and express less information, which gave me a lot of inspiration.

4. Transform the world and learn from others. Why study? What are we going to learn? The purpose of learning is not to know the world, but to transform it. The purpose of knowing the world itself is to transform the world. In the final analysis, the content of learning is not about what the world looks like and what the laws are, but learning enables us to transform the world and change our hearts. Most books are about understanding the world. Even if books talk about practice, it is more of a kind of knowledge "practice", and a "special you, present you" is hard to do.

I almost put my energy into understanding the problems that the world needs to solve, thinking that the world can be changed and the problems can be directly solved through extremely comprehensive and meticulous understanding (even if I keep trying to solve the problems, its purpose is not to solve the problems themselves, but to deeply understand and analyze the problems through solving the problems), which is my biggest mistake and biggest waste. Don't say that we can't fully understand the world and the problems to be solved. Don't say that most problems are too late for you to understand clearly. In fact, if we can learn to keep doing it, we don't have to understand why we can keep doing it. Moreover, the understanding of the problem itself is endless, and how you understand it is a certain level of understanding.

Therefore, when creating "you do this moment", a few unintentional words from others can ignite your spark; Targeted inspiration and demonstration, that is, you know which direction to work in next step; If you don't know what to do, just find a similar person to imitate it; If you want to avoid mistakes, you should learn more from others' lessons. Always learning from others is the most direct and effective way to learn.

Secondly, with the mentality of learning from others and working with others, you will feel more calm, calmly experience what the other person says and does, and find a place worth learning. Over time, you will be easier to get along with. Who hates people who learn from themselves? And you will find more advantages and advantages of others, and make yourself easy to get along with others. This mentality will make you become modest over time, and modesty is a virtue.

Third, if you want to learn from others, you will naturally be kind to others, polite, as empty as possible, considerate of others, and try to make your virtue higher. Otherwise, you will be arrogant, rude, mean and behave badly. Others will stop preaching to you and won't give you a word. In this way, you will gradually pay attention to virtue.

Then, learning from others is basically not a waste of time, and reading books requires your own time. You make friends, do things, and deal with others every day. On the one hand, you do things, at the same time, you also learn from others. When things are done, you have learned a lot and don't need to spend extra time. Grandpa Mao said that society is a university, which is absolutely true.