You need independence in life. We are not adults yet, and we don't need to work to support ourselves for the time being, but our basic independent ability is to take care of ourselves, manage our pocket money, do our own thing, cook for ourselves and so on. As an adult, you should know how to support yourself. There is a saying circulating in the society: "Parents who really know how to educate their children give their children not a fortune, but an independent and self-reliant spiritual wealth." Mr. Stanley is the president of one of the 500 largest companies in America and the richest man in the world. He teaches children how to manage money, how to make money and how to treat money. At the same time, he told them that their hard-earned money is the most precious, and they should learn to be independent.

You need to be independent in your studies. Nowadays, many students don't take learning as their own business, and often let their parents supervise and blame them. Some people complain that their parents are not college students and take it for granted that they are behind others, but in fact, learning ultimately depends on themselves. It is true that it is not uncommon to "muddle through" at all times and in all countries. Madame Curie's daughter is a scientist and a Nobel Prize winner. San Sutong was one of the "Eight Masters in Tang and Song Dynasties" ... They were influenced by their parents since childhood and became interested in a certain subject, which is one of the reasons for their success. China mathematician Zhang Guanghou's father was an illiterate miner and his family was poor. However, Zhang Guanghou has made great achievements in mathematics research through his own efforts and diligence. It can be seen that their success is not inherited by their parents, but the result of their own efforts. As the saying goes, "the master leads the door and practices in the individual." Parents and teachers have pointed out the direction and learning methods for us, and they can't accompany us all our lives. Further study and research depends on yourself.

You need to be independent at work. As the saying goes, "depend on your parents at home and your friends when you go out." But this sentence is no longer applicable in today's society. Today's society needs competition, real materials and DIY talents, and people who "enter through the back door" have no place. Be independent at work, know how to find a job by yourself, rise step by step by relying on your own strength, be good at showing your talents in front of leaders, don't lament your talents all day, complete tasks independently, solve difficulties independently, and be brave in trying. As Hugo said, "I would rather rely on my own strength to open the future than seek the favor of the powerful." Believe that "I am my own master!" When Yang Lan was a senior, she applied for the job of CCTV host. In the face of such a strong player as Lin, she resolutely said to the judges: "Whether you choose me or not, I must show it today." She did so, and as a result, she defeated many strong players and got her wish. Su Xun, a famous essayist in Song Dynasty, once showed his 22 carefully written articles to Hanlin Ouyang Xiu for appreciation and recommended them to the imperial court.

I remember a Latin American proverb: "Self-reliance is better than the hand of God." A person's growth is inseparable from the upbringing of parents, the upbringing of society and the teaching of teachers. However, these are external factors, and learning independence is the key. Only when a person attaches importance to independent ability and strictly demands himself under favorable conditions can he move towards the other side of success!