To say that someone's strength is seriousness, I can directly say that his weakness is seriousness. People who are too serious in this society are not easy to get along with even if they are "stubborn". The advantage of so-and-so is that he can speak well, but the disadvantage is that he speaks too well. In the words of Dalian people, his name is "Nengbai"; One's strength is integrity, and his weakness must be integrity. In this society, honest people are often unable to move, and "integrity" has almost become the consent word of "simpleness", so if someone praises you for being too honest now, you should think it over. There are many such examples, so I won't say them. Now, what are the advantages and disadvantages?
Until a few days ago, I was lucky enough to listen to a lecture given by Professor Yang Qingshan from the Party School of the Municipal Party Committee, which made me feel enlightened. He gave us an example of a key in class. Professor Yang said: "Once I went to match the key and found one thing, that is, this key was really good and unique when it was still blank!" Then he said, "its characteristic is that it can't open the lock!" " "I smiled at that time and thought, Professor Yang, you are so humorous. Everyone understands this truth. But when I heard it later, I heard the doorway: "Now this is its characteristic, but it is not a shortcoming. If you say this is its shortcoming, it must be its advantage. Because it can't open any lock, it can open all the locks; Do you think this is its advantage or disadvantage? But what if it can open one lock but can't open any other locks? Do you think it gives up advantages or disadvantages? ……"
We all have our own characteristics, and there is no distinction between good and bad. Honest people put him in jobs such as party and government organs and think that "integrity" is definitely an advantage; People who can be "white" to promote the marketing industry will certainly play this role. However, most of us are still not so free to choose the position where we can play our own characteristics. Then we must be willing to make a key. When we are still blank, you can choose which lock to open, but which lock we open, we must open it wholeheartedly. If you want to open this lock well, you should change your own characteristics, adapt to this lock and do what you should do as a key.