Good children abroad should stand on their own feet from an early age, do their own things and make their own decisions, and don't always rely on their parents. Therefore, children trained abroad are really good children.
A proverb says well: "self-reliance, life is sweet;" Bow and scrape, life is short. "
If you want to stand on your own feet, you must first learn to stand on your own feet.
Self-reliance, as a process of growth, is an exercise of our living ability and a process of developing good moral quality. In this process, we should constantly improve ourselves, learn to stand on our own feet, enhance our self-confidence and raise our legal awareness; Gradually learn to understand and respect others, be good at communicating and interacting with others, and live in harmony; Actively integrate into society, care for society, and become a person who is responsible for himself, others, society and self-reliance.
In daily life, we can: do our homework and review our lessons by ourselves, without the supervision and companionship of our parents; Go to school by yourself; Wash your own clothes; Cleaning at home and washing dishes after meals; Go to other places by train alone; Parents go out and take care of their own lives; Parents are sick, accompany them to the hospital and take care of them at home.
Life needs self-reliance. If we can't consciously reserve the knowledge of self-reliance and self-reliance from now on, exercise our ability and cultivate the spirit of self-reliance, it will be difficult to stand on our own feet in the future society with the help of parents and teachers.
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With the progress of the times, people's living standards have generally improved, which has led to a result: children of our age have hardly suffered, let alone "independence." The word "self-reliance" may be nothing to us happy children. Perhaps it has long been forgotten, but I think this phenomenon is not good and should be adjusted as soon as possible, otherwise you will be very anxious and don't know what to do after you go to college. In fact, "self-reliance" is nothing more than doing your own thing independently, such as not disturbing your parents with your own clothes and other trivial things. Although these things seem small, it is very difficult to really do them one by one. How many children wash their own clothes now? Probably not much, just because parents spoil their children too much. I once asked a classmate how often do you wash your hair? He said without disturbing, "Two days!" ! "When I asked, did you wash it yourself? His face turned red, and faster than I expected. He lowered his head and said, "My mother sometimes helps me wash it. "I think this is not entirely the fault of this classmate, but also the fault of * mom. He doesn't wash his hair because he has a nucleus. His mother used to help him wash it. In fact, it is ok to wash once in a while, but if parents use it several times, everything will become natural and should be.
On another occasion, when the teacher arranged cleaning and arranged it for xx students, her task was to mop the corridor. What a simple thing it was, but she said, "What? I won't. " Of course, today's students all burst into laughter after listening. After laughing, she will think, why can't she do such a simple thing? This shows that she has never done housework at home, of course, because of family conditions.
For example, a classmate in another class invited a nanny at home and gave the nanny hundreds of dollars a month. I just wanted to ask, "Did his parents take the wrong medicine?" Hiring a nanny is nothing more than cooking, washing clothes and cleaning. Three people in the family is enough, so why make a mountain out of a molehill? In this case, how can children "stand on their own feet"?
An example like this can't be said for three days and nights, but it will have great consequences. What should you do in case your parents are gone? If it is a self-reliant child; Then nothing will happen. On the contrary, we can only make noodles every day.
Mr. Du Maishou, a social science researcher, and his wife signed a "self-reliance" agreement with their son Ding Du, changed their jobs through self-reliance, and finally became excellent advertisers several years later. This example is in sharp contrast with the above example, which fully shows that self-reliant people will achieve something in the future.
Dear students, even though we are busy in grade three, we should help our parents play with plates and flowers. I think they will be very happy. Even if time is tight, wash socks to help parents reduce their burden. These trivial things will also pave the way for your later life. So seduce "independence"! Our tomorrow will be bright, wonderful and successful!
Tisso
A six-year-old child is afraid to go to school because he has too much homework. The mother is afraid that the child will lose interest in learning, so she helps the child with his homework. This matter is really worrying. However, we can't agree with this mother's practice. The presentation of this material once again makes people really feel the "wind of poor family." Parents don't just raise children. Parents must pay attention to cultivating their children's spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement.
Life is sometimes cruel. It is said that in the African savannah, where lions ask their children to run faster than sheep; Over there, sheep let their children run past the little lion. The human world and the animal world are sometimes very similar. If you want to be invincible in the competition and not be eaten, you must face the reality and strive for self-improvement.
Be sure to tell your child that others can finish their homework, and you must also be able to finish it. Don't be afraid of difficulties, you will grow up in the future and face many difficulties in the future. You should be a brave child, and your mother will be proud of you. Mothers should realize that even if their children are not as good as others, they should make progress than themselves every day.
Mother's tears can only be stored in my heart forever. Supervise and encourage, and never replace children to overcome difficulties. "At the age of three, you look old, at the age of ten." Don't let children develop dependence from an early age. Children will go to junior high school, high school and so on. You can take the place of children for a while, but you can't take the place of children for a lifetime.
Self-reliance and self-improvement are the basis for a person to survive in this world. If you can't do this, then it will be difficult for this person to have dignity, and this person may become a burden and a burden to others. In life and work, it is possible that no one is willing to cooperate with him.
In today's society, there are still many phenomena that do not pay attention to cultivating children's spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement Some parents spoil their children and never let them do any housework at home, so that they can't even sweep the floor. Children can buy whatever they want, and even if they don't want to study, parents are willing to help them ask for leave from their teachers. How can such a child stand on his own two feet?
To make children self-reliant, we must let them have ambitions and dreams; With aspirations and dreams, children can be encouraged to meet difficulties, not to avoid and not to give in.
To make children self-reliant, we must use more "suffering" to hone them; Only in this way can they be braver and more tenacious, and their knowledge and ability will continue to grow.
In a word, self-reliance and self-improvement is the foundation of a person's survival; If you want to be invincible in life, you must be self-reliant.