Long ago, wolves and dogs were brothers of the same family. But later, due to different personalities, dogs could not stand the harsh living environment of nature and were willing to accept human training; The wolf is proud. In order to maintain their dignity of eating meat, they would rather live in a harsh environment than give up their freedom like dogs and live an omnivorous life with human beings. As a result, two animal groups with similar looks and different personalities appeared in the animal kingdom-wolves and dogs. Wolves and dogs belong to the same family, but because of their different interests, they have embarked on different life paths and belong to hostile camps.
One day, a wolf who was so hungry that he was only skin and bones met a strong lost dog in the forest. The wolf thought of the dog's "betrayal" and hunger, and wanted to rush to attack the dog and tear it up. But at this time, he has lost his head and rushed out. Not only is there no chance of winning, but he may even take his own life. So the wolf pretended to be very gentle and greeted the dog and said, "Brother Dog, I haven't seen you for a few days. You are getting fat. "
Seeing the wolf's bony and humble appearance, the dog also relaxed his vigilance and began to chat with the wolf: "Really?" Brother, hunting seems to be often empty these days! Otherwise ... "
The wolf nodded naturally and said, "Yes. How can I compare with your high official, brother! I've been lucky recently! ……"
The dog said, "You are hopeless. Why do you have to be obsessed with hunting? " As a brother and sister, I am willing to help you find a job with human beings, and ensure that you are treated like me, eat well, drink well, play well and sleep well every day! "
The wolf said, "I'm afraid I'm not used to it!" " Besides, humans have a problem with me. "
The dog said, "don't worry about this." I am favored by human beings! They don't even have time to hurt me. As long as I mention it to them, they will definitely give face. After all, I am their gatekeeper. As long as you are willing to leave the forest wasteland, I promise to let mankind treat you well. You see, it is your spineless spirit that is fighting against human beings. As a result, you can only hide in the forest wasteland and live a very poor life like a rogue beggar. Either you get a meal with your blood or you are starving. It is said that many brothers starve to death every year. Alas, you are poor. Follow me! Make sure your destiny changes from now on! "
The wolf said, "I know nothing but hunting." What can I do to find humans? "
The dog said, "Look, look, when you hunt, you are so confident that you dare to shoot tigers. Why are you so inferior now? " When you are human, you will do nothing like me. Whenever you meet someone begging with a stick, you will try your best to drive them away. When you meet your master, you will shake your head and tail. In human terms, you will kiss up to your master and please him. This is what you do every day. You don't have to go through the wind and rain, you don't have to sleep in the wind and starve, and the rewards you get are definitely much richer than those you get from hunting. All kinds of leftovers, pig bones and chicken bones are cooked, nutritious and healthy, and prolong life. When the master is happy, he will hug you and caress you ... "
Before the dog finished speaking, the wolf was moved to cry. Although there are some estrangements between brothers at ordinary times, after all, a friend in need is a friend indeed, and the dog brothers have sincerely pointed out a bright and happy road for themselves. The wolf quickly said "thank you" and asked the dog to take it to humans for "acceptance and reuse".
Just as the dog was about to take the wolf to meet the new owner, the wolf found that the dog's neck was "injured". The wolf realized that living with humans may not be as beautiful as the dog said, otherwise, how could there be a wound on the dog's neck? So the wolf couldn't help asking the dog curiously, "Why is there a scar on your neck?"
The dog said, "this is not a scar, just a little hair!" " "
The wolf said, "No? I think it's like a rope injury. "
The dog smiled: "You are so suspicious. This is not a scar. Just wearing the traces left by the collar. "
The wolf said, "Do you often wear a collar around your neck?"
The dog said, "Not often, but at home, my master lets me wear it."
The wolf said, "You can't run around freely with a collar on?"
"Not always," said the dog. But if you eat human food, you will be controlled by human beings. What does this little grievance have to do with it? "
The wolf said, "I think it has a lot to do with it." I don't want all your meals, even if it is a baby, I would rather not have such a price. " The wolf said and ran, into the depths of the big forest.
This is the proud wolf! It would rather starve and fight bloody battles in nature than sacrifice its freedom for "delicious" and shake its head and tail to its owner.
Wolves love freedom so much, so do humans. Especially in the growth stage of children, they are full of longing for freedom. However, many of our children are not free in life.
In the environment of exam-oriented education. Everything is centered on exams, and many parents have designed the future life path for their children almost from the day they are born. In the process of growing up, children can only move forward along this road, and they can't have the idea of "non-discrimination".
However, children naturally love freedom, and their desire for freedom is no less than their respect for their own lives. A poet put it well: "Life is precious, but love is more expensive. If you are free, you can throw both. " With the growth of children's age, especially after puberty, with the awakening of self-awareness, they will fight for their own freedom and begin to resist the life path designed by their parents. Of course, such a move will cause parents' dissatisfaction and further restrict them everywhere. A struggle between freedom and anti-freedom began.
In this regard, the famous educator Sun Yunxiao said: "China's parents are trying to brew their children's tragic fate and race against time to create their children's growth troubles. In fact, our parents are fighting against themselves and destroying their goals with their own struggles. " When parents restrict their children's freedom, they are actually creating their own distance, which sometimes leads to the intensification of the struggle between "control" and "anti-control".
A 15 junior high school girl is particularly annoyed that her parents have always treated her as a child and restricted her freedom. She said that her parents took care of her like a reform-through-labour prisoner, sometimes even tighter than watching a reform-through-labour prisoner. Everything she did was arranged by her parents. She feels like a toy and has no freedom at all. Even her parents have to interfere with what she eats, what she wears, how long she reads, how long she does her homework, how long she practices guzheng, how long she watches TV, what time she goes to bed, what time she gets up, and even keeps a diary ... What makes her feel uncomfortable is that the school is opposite, and her parents insist on picking her up every day, which makes her feel uncomfortable.
What happened to this girl reminds us of a wolf who was caught in a cage by mistake. In the cage, the wolf's eyes drooped and turned a blind eye to the tourists. Wolves are neither arrogant nor tired, nor bluffing. They refuse to be content with the status quo, and even disdain to beg. Although trapped in a cage, its elastic footsteps and energetic muscles always give people a forward rhythm and impulse; It moves fast in the cage, hits the iron fence and turns around, which makes people feel that it is always ready to rush out of the cage and will never stop until it returns to the mountains. Although they are safe and can eat well without hard work, they yearn for the free life before.
Children are at a young and active stage, and their desire for freedom is their nature. No matter how tightly their parents control them, they will try their best to break through all kinds of restrictions, just like wolves in cages. No matter what you give them, they will always be restless. Only the free world is the soil for the survival of the strong. For freedom, wolves would rather fight and live in a dangerous situation than enjoy "wealth restricted by freedom" Because wolves are strong and dare to challenge everything freely. Our parents should give their children more free space if they want to train them to be strong in life.
Freedom is what everyone yearns for. Freedom is what everyone should pursue.
When you watch a bird flying in the blue sky, do you really have the heart to envy its free flight?
When you see those abducted children being rescued and set free on TV, will you be happy for them?
Behind envy and happiness, what we see is only the most superficial appearance.
Freedom is a right that people have been pursuing for generations.
Advocating and pursuing freedom is everyone's right to live in this world, and this right will accompany you to death.
I seem to have long been used to preaching the truth of freedom, and I seem to have learned to really understand the definition of freedom.
The definition of freedom has completely changed its original meaning in intangible changes.
There are too many potential rules in a colorful society, but there are few real freedoms.
The freedom we have and define is just a hat.
Publicize freedom with great fanfare, until finally we will find that the so-called freedom actually has more shackles to bind us.
Social public opinion and ethics have undoubtedly become the biggest constraint and adhesive of the freedom we pursue.
There is a provision in the French Declaration of Human Rights: "As far as rights are concerned, people are born free and always equal. Only in the use of the public can social differences be manifested. " Although rights are innate, from a certain point of view, when we pursue freedom, we have long ignored those "freedom lies" that have been labeled. As you can imagine, when the French people heard the reading of the Declaration of Human Rights, they were in high spirits and excited. There is no doubt that in their view, this is a kind of liberation, which can be called "freedom".
Faith is a kind of freedom, a kind of persistence, and also a situation that belongs to one's inner pursuit.
The complicated things in life always make us learn to feel sorry for ourselves. We began to complain about why there are so many unfairness and unfriendly in life. If you really understand the realm beyond "freedom", then you are a saint.
So far, no one can clap his chest and tell others that he is free.
In other words, this "freedom" is limited to his personal freedom. If this society does not have ethics and public opinion to restrain individual behavior, how can we define this person's good or bad, right or wrong?
As the saying goes, there is no Fiona Fang without rules. Once the rules are set, it has something to do with your freedom.
Even if you really have freedom, excessive freedom will backfire. Freedom is not debauchery and indulgence.
If freedom is a kite, then personal behavior is a thin thread. Once personal behavior is morally condemned, those so-called freedoms will be cut off. There is no need to do whatever it takes for a certain benefit, so it is condemned by morality. Life is long, and what you have never seen or experienced has become a regret. This is also a stupid behavior.
There is a lot to say about freedom, involving many moral and ethical laws, the taste of which is really not clear to me as an ignorant teenager. Because you may think that you may be a bit overreaching. Related to all kinds of free feelings, each has its own theory, and self-justification is the most important.
In any case, everyone has a different definition of freedom and the content involved is different. There are some similarities between them.