Key concepts

1. Express your feelings about "communication" in the form of talking with readers.

2. A series of questions about "communication" lead to the full text.

Do you remember the last time you communicated with someone?

Where are you? What are you doing?

Do you feel a little tired?

Now let's recall your communication and leave a deep memory for you. How many times? No, or did you forget?

If you can't answer the above questions, please recall the communication method. There are many ways of communication in today's society, such as telephone, e-mail, Chinese short message and so on. However, if communication has faded in your mind, please try the method of "rehearsing life (a virtual life and activity)". Find a midnight and write a letter to someone you know well. Nowadays, warm letters are replaced by more and more modern tools, and the communication between people is becoming more and more superficial, instrumental and practical (the material also mentions that communication is a means to achieve the goal). Find a midnight, calm down and ask yourself how far apart we are. In the above-mentioned "Life Rehearsal", there is a letter that reads: "When people work hard for life, it is easier to ignore the most important things in life. Thank god I can make it up to you, okay? Quot I was shocked by this. Perhaps only when we are far away from the familiar track and face the white wall, the lonely lamp and Leng Yue alone will our souls become soft at midnight and understand what is the most precious thing in life. Only then did we discover the distance between hearts and realize the importance of communication. Pick up a pen, write down your feelings, and communicate with others with these heartfelt words, which may make up for some of your lost communication.

I have read such a story. A businessman surnamed Yang, who deals with business all day, has not communicated with anyone for a long time except some necessary greetings, and his wife is on the verge of emotional collapse. But when he died in an imaginary disaster, he had a long talk with his wife. He told his wife that he would cherish the happiness in his hand and love her forever. He said that it was at the moment when he was covered by a white list symbolizing death that he realized how important it was to communicate with others. It was his indifference to his wife that led to their emotional "winter". It was also at this time that he understood the contradiction between himself and his subordinates that had been difficult to solve. I think: No matter what level people are at, no matter what they do, the most important thing is to strengthen mutual understanding between people, and the best way to reach this level is communication.

We usually love to hide our true heart deeply, and we always hesitate to say thank you, cherish, regret and like. However, it is precisely because of our meanness that the opportunity to communicate with others slips away from us. At the same time, we should communicate with people equally and sincerely. We should not let communication be as hypocritical as the interests of this society. Only when we stop being stingy and face others sincerely can we have real communication.

Finally, I want to tell myself and everyone: I am not a passer-by in life, I want to experience life well, I want to appreciate communication well and cherish every communication with you and him (her). This is my little understanding of communication.

The terminator of communication

Key concepts

1. "Terminator" is a metaphor for the obstacles caused by the development of modern science and technology to people's communication.

2. Compare people's communication before and after the development of communication technology.

Today, with the increasing degree of modernization, scientific and technological products such as computers, fax machines, mobile phones and networks have been widely accepted and fully integrated into human society. When you have something to tell another person, you can call; You can even turn on the computer, knock on the keyboard and send him an email ... so many contact information is really dazzling and overwhelming. But I don't know if you have noticed that during the communication from the beginning to the end, you have never seen a person, talked to a real person, and faced a machine without expression. Often, we can always see people crying, laughing, screaming and jumping with their phones. Or make a hullabaloo about in front of the ever-changing computer screen, and act miserable, disappointed and excited. ...

Nowadays, the status of these machines is becoming more and more important. While we are holding them happily and gradually inseparable from them, our face-to-face communication is getting less and less.

We used to be proud of our increasingly advanced scientific and technological level, but also distressed by the lack of human touch and affection in this era; The digital world brings us convenience and quickness, and at the same time, it also makes us truly realize the ruthless side of numbers.

I lived in a small town in Hubei when I was a child. At that time, no one had installed a telephone. I spread the news by visiting and chatting. The friends are also happy to fight and laugh. Life at that time was not rich, but it was full and human.

Now I come to Beijing, a bustling and crowded big cement city, but I often get lost in the bustling crowd and feel lonely and empty. ...

Nowadays, people would rather chat with strangers thousands of miles away online than greet their old neighbors who are close at hand.

When urbanites are becoming more and more indifferent, online communities are becoming more and more popular: do you want to find your family? Go to the online community; Want to pour out your heart? Go to online community chat rooms; Looking for friends? Go to the online community dating center ...

We are eager to communicate. But in reality, they have no choice but to comfort their empty and lonely hearts with an illusory communication.

We can imagine what people's life will be like in the near future: because of the videophone, people no longer need to hold any meetings; People no longer go to work, just turn on the computer at home and visit the company's website; People will no longer go to school, and the network will teach students everything; Even people don't have to go on blind dates, because now online dating has appeared. ...

Perhaps from the moment the telephone was invented, it was destined to be the terminator of our communication. ...