Recently, a student told me: "My current mentality is: Sometimes I hate my shortcomings, such as procrastination; Sometimes I try to overcome it, and sometimes the salted fish is resigned. "

When I answered her:

Don't hate them, get along with them first, accept them, even praise them, and then say goodbye to them slowly. Of course, the premise is: if necessary.

Here, let's talk about travel first.

When I think of traveling, I suddenly think of that sketch: the one who speaks slowly, and the actor's name is forgotten. I looked it up, Li Jing. There may be few people who sketch so slowly, but there must be. One of my brothers is like this. He speaks slowly, slightly inferior to the man in Li Jing's sketch.

We can see that when the story in the sketch develops to the point where people who travel slowly meet gangsters, it actually makes them very helpless.

So is my brother. When brother and sister-in-law are in conflict, sister-in-law often has nothing to do with brother.

At this point, I remembered this event:

The case that happened the other day. A lady jumped out of the car and was killed.

Of course, the case is still under investigation. I'm not qualified to judge. I can only make this assumption:

If the victim in the case was slow to react and didn't rush to make a dangerous move, wait a little, and find the right time to escape when he found that he might be hurt, maybe he wouldn't have lost his life.

If Zhou Moumou, the criminal suspect in this case, reacts a little slowly because of bargaining and is not in a hurry to quarrel, he may not become the criminal suspect in this case.

Slow down and think about it, and you will find a way to avoid disaster.