It's hard to say that your personality has something to do with family and society. When you were a child, your parents divorced, and your grandparents brought you up, which will produce such a personality for you. Your personality can change. You might as well listen to China's underground rap, which may help you vent. Remember that you are emotional. Don't listen to that kind of sadness, it will only make you sadder and your personality will not change. People will have all kinds of problems and learn to vent. This is one thing.