There is a key message in your question, "fit", which is also the key to choice. Before you know the results of the senior high school entrance examination, you and your children must have their own expectations, such as the so-called "prestigious schools". After the results came out, they did not meet expectations and had to choose again. Of course, even if you don't play well, you still have a choice, which means that the situation is good, but there is a gap with expectations.

At first, my children attended some school consultation meetings before the middle school entrance examination. I was deeply impressed by the words of the headmaster of a school. Parents and children should choose schools suitable for their children instead of blindly pursuing famous schools. He gave an example. He said that my school is a famous school, but it is not suitable for children who have no autonomy in learning. Because my school requires children to have better autonomy. Later, after my children went to high school, they were deeply moved by the headmaster's words.

First of all, look at the schools where children can get grades. In other words, he can walk on it anyway. Of course, generally choose the school with the best reputation and social evaluation. But not exactly. If something goes wrong with your child, you should believe in his strength, and you can still do better in your new study. The key is to suit yourself and be your best.

Secondly, understand the teaching style of these schools. For example, some schools hold fast, students don't need much autonomy, just keep up with the school arrangements, and some schools don't hold fast, requiring children to plan, study and plan independently. Then the first point will be, maybe your children can go to the best school they can choose, and the management is loose, but your children's learning autonomy is not strong, so choosing this school is not the most suitable.

Third, we must understand the actual situation of children's learning. Especially the usual learning behavior, learning habits, learning methods, learning attitude, learning efficiency, learning plan, time use, self-discipline, autonomy, consciousness and so on. Only with a certain understanding of these can we improve the suitability of choosing schools.

Finally, ask the child's wishes and respect his choice as much as possible. In this process, you can communicate with him, discuss, analyze, clarify different advantages and disadvantages, and let the children choose for themselves. Knowing the school and knowing yourself, children should be able to make choices. Don't let the children feel that their parents want me to go to a school. After all, going to school is a child's own business, and it can be judged whether it is suitable for him or not.

I hope my answer can be of some use to you! thank you

Personally, I think that if you choose a professional vocational education school that your child is interested in, you will learn a skill and achieve something in the future!

I didn't do well in the senior high school entrance examination. What school should I choose for my children? First of all, it must be clear that I didn't do well in the senior high school entrance examination, but I didn't get into high school; Still only admitted to ordinary high schools, not to key high schools.

The first situation: I didn't do well in the senior high school entrance examination and didn't go to high school. It shows that the child has the strength to be admitted to an ordinary high school, but he didn't play well. Then, children will face two choices in their studies.

(1) Go to a vocational school. If you are in a vocational school, it is recommended to choose your child's favorite major. Children will study hard and study hard only if they like their majors and interests. It is possible to learn better, which is beneficial to future employment. In addition, I heard that the learning atmosphere in many vocational schools is not very good.

There are two options for attending high school: 1, attending public high schools through relationships; 2. Go to a private high school. In this case, if the family situation permits, it is recommended to attend a private high school. Because it should be difficult to get into key classes in public high schools through relationships. At the same level, the teaching performance of ordinary classes in public high schools is usually not as good as that in private middle schools.

In the second case, the child did not do well in the exam and was not admitted to a key high school. At this time, the child should be in high school. At this time, there are two choices in high school. One is to attend the ordinary high school he passed, and the other is to pass the key high school on the door. In this case, I suggest that children attend ordinary high schools.

According to the meaning of the question, there may be this meaning: the child has the ability to be admitted to a key high school, but because of poor grades, he was not admitted to a key high school and only admitted to an ordinary high school. From this perspective, children's grades should not be particularly excellent. If you play normally, you can only be admitted to a key high school.

Once children enter the key classes of ordinary high schools, they can enjoy the best teaching resources of our school, which are often not enjoyed by ordinary classes of key high schools. This is the reason why it is better to be a chicken head than a phoenix tail.

The above is my personal opinion, and I hope it can be used for your reference.

After the senior high school entrance examination, students should continue to study in three directions; High schools with good grades in the senior high school entrance examination can apply for it; Students who failed to reach the senior high school grade line due to poor results in the senior high school entrance examination, some choose to go to secondary schools, technical schools or vocational high schools, and some choose to repeat (but students are not allowed to repeat in many areas now).

This paper focuses on how to choose a secondary vocational school suitable for students when the results of the senior high school entrance examination are not satisfactory.

First of all, get rid of the false and keep the true, and distinguish right from wrong. There are many kinds of secondary vocational schools now, which can be divided into public secondary vocational schools and private secondary vocational schools according to the organizers. According to academic credentials, it can be divided into technical secondary schools in the education system and technical secondary schools in the labor system. By specialty, there are many categories, such as architecture, medicine, management, science and engineering, automobile, etc. ...

It is particularly important to choose one suitable for your children among various schools. First, the school you choose must have the qualifications recognized by the state. At present, there are many schools (especially private institutions) with incomplete teaching qualifications, which must be guarded against. Second, the school you choose must have basic teaching facilities, teaching buildings, dormitory buildings, training buildings, restaurants, playgrounds and indoor equipment. You must see these with your own eyes before you decide to go. Third, the school you choose must have a major suitable for children. Every child has different learning interests. Choosing a child's favorite major will help him study harder and be more conducive to his success. Fourth, the school's social reputation and teaching as well as employment channels and quality. The ultimate goal of study is to get a successful job. Whether it is the end of secondary vocational school or employment, you must look at the channel guarantee of these two aspects for your school choice.

Secondly, choose the major rationally. A student's poor performance in the senior high school entrance examination is not a matter of learning ability, but that he may not find a point of interest in learning, so it is most important to choose a major suitable for children. There are three points to grasp when choosing a major. First, children like it (they can learn better if they like it). Second, it meets the needs of the development of the times (there is a large demand for jobs and good employment), and third, it can be studied (because some majors are not suitable for junior high school graduates after all).

In recent years, the majors that are popular and suitable for secondary vocational school students are medical care, e-commerce, advertising design, rail transit, automobile repair, construction engineering and so on.

Finally, the channels for further education and employment are smooth. Many people know that they can go to college after graduating from high school, but few people are fully familiar with the ways of further studies and employment in secondary vocational schools. Secondary vocational school students enter higher education. First, students who pass the local or foreign college entrance examination enjoy the same learning treatment as those who enter higher schools in high school. The difficulty is relatively easy, basically in the annual exam in April. Second, the examination for students from three schools, also known as the college entrance examination for students from three schools, is very difficult. The examination is held in May every year. Third, some students can take the national unified college entrance examination in June. Four, five-year system or no college (the school has its own college or cooperative recommendation agency). Vocational school students can generally submit resumes or school job fairs online. There is still a shortage of blue-collar skilled workers in many places. As long as you have a solid foundation and skills, you can get a job directly. In addition, some schools have school-enterprise cooperation units that can recommend employment (but some school-enterprise cooperation will have traps. In order to understand and distinguish, the author wrote an answer about the pit of school-enterprise cooperation. If you want to know, you can pay attention to it.

After understanding the above conditions and channels, only the cost of learning needs to be considered. I'm sure you can choose a good school for your children.

I'm teacher Zhiyuan. Take my advice. It might help you.

There should be two understandings about your "failure in the senior high school entrance examination": being admitted to a relatively ordinary high school or not. So I will talk about my views from these two aspects.

First, if a child is admitted to a high school and thinks that the exam is not good, it is just an ordinary high school, then I suggest choosing a high school with strict management or a private high school for the child.

When students are in school, the overall learning environment and learning atmosphere are very important. As the saying goes, "those who are near the ink are black, and those who are near the ink are black." Put a student who is not particularly fond of learning and has bad habits in a school with strict management and strong learning atmosphere, and this student will gradually like learning and his moral character will become better. Put a student who is particularly excellent in all aspects into a school with poor study, life and discipline, and he will eventually be tempted to integrate into it. I won't give any more examples, there will be more or less around me.

If you are not admitted to a key high school in the senior high school entrance examination, you should first choose a school with strict management to cultivate your children's study habits and morality. Even if the college entrance examination is not ideal, you can repeat it for another year. At this time, it is entirely possible to choose a key high school for your child.

Second, if a child is not admitted to an ordinary high school, according to the current education policy, he can't repeat his studies and can only choose a secondary school. There are many technical secondary schools, so we must choose schools with good reputation and strict management.

When choosing a secondary school, school management and learning atmosphere are more important. The reason is the same as choosing high school, so I won't go into details.

In addition, try to choose 3 2, so that after graduation, it is also an undergraduate course, which has higher gold content than ordinary secondary school education.

Finally, the professional choice, do not contact to choose an unpopular major. Try to consider a future direction of discovery for your child, and then set a major for your child. In addition, children's interests should be combined, and interest is the best teacher.

These are my personal suggestions. You can pay attention to them if you like. Please feel free to contact me if you have any questions.

It is a vague concept to say that "failing" in the senior high school entrance examination. In the eyes of different people, failure means different things. So, here, I can only give you a reference according to my understanding.

First, I didn't get into a key high school, but I can go to an ordinary high school. Then let the children go to school. Key high schools have a high enrollment rate and may have stronger teaching equipment or teachers, but this does not mean that there is no hope of attending ordinary high schools. As long as children can keep studying, it is hard to say who will win the battle in the end. There are also many key senior high school entrance examinations that fail to go to college, and it is not uncommon for ordinary senior high school entrance examinations to be famous. Therefore, as long as children are willing and want to go to school, they will be encouraged and strengthened. If the child goes into battle lightly, there may be an unexpected ending.

Second, if you don't do well in the exam, you can't even go to an ordinary high school. There are four options. First of all, choose a job that children like and send it to the corresponding vocational and technical college to learn professional skills and life skills. With a skill, the child's future will be smoother and smoother. The premise is that children really like it and professional schools are really professional. Children who want to learn can really learn real skills.

Second, if you can't go to high school but want to go to college, let your child enroll in the spring college entrance examination class of vocational college. Since the spring college entrance examination class started, many middle school students with average grades in junior high school have stood out through the spring examination. At present, most parents in cities above the county level recognize the spring college entrance examination, but many parents in rural areas do not know, understand or believe it. In fact, the spring exam is another way for the country to ease the summer exam and popularize more professionals. It is as important as the summer exam, but it is not valued by parents because of its short implementation time. If the children's grades are average, they can't be admitted to ordinary high schools, and they want to be admitted to universities, it is a very correct choice to choose the spring exam classes in vocational colleges.

Third, if you don't do well in the exam, you don't want to go to school again. Choose a craft to learn.

After nine years of compulsory education, children get nothing, and they don't want to study professional skills in vocational and technical colleges. Then send children to learn a craft, not necessarily to go to school to learn, such as haircut, knitting and so on. You can't let your child do nothing, you must give him something to learn, because at this age, children are the age to hone their life skills.

Fourth, if the child is willing, choose to review.

Nine-year compulsory education, there is no review now, but children can choose to review because of unexpected things that delay their study. At present, in many provinces and cities, there is no clear explanation for the review of junior high school students. Generally speaking, review students have no student status, but it does not affect their participation in the senior high school entrance examination. Personally, if the children didn't fail in the senior high school entrance examination because of abnormal performance, the significance of review is not too great.

In short, a child who fails in the senior high school entrance examination will either be sent to the corresponding school or learn his favorite craft. As long as the child is willing to do it. Children always have a way to go.

I'm Wu, and I want to express my views and opinions on education in popular and humorous language. I hope my answer is helpful to you. Thank you for reading! Welcome attention. On the issue of children's junior high school education, welcome everyone to discuss it together.

It is suggested to study in a vocational school and learn a skill in a down-to-earth manner, so that it is a good choice for both employment and entrepreneurship, but you must keep your eyes open when choosing a school; Or go to a near high school and see if the child has stylistic cells. If you can, you can also take a high school cultural and sports class, and then take the art test and the college entrance examination. After graduating from college, there is not much difference compared with other universities with the same level of education. ...

Hello, everyone. I'm glad to answer the question. The question answered today is: What kind of school should I choose for my child if he didn't do well in the middle school entrance examination?

The senior high school entrance examination is one of the most important exams in life. Every year, candidates fail the exam. If they fail in the senior high school entrance examination, they can have the following choices:

1. If both children and parents want to be admitted to an ideal university in the future, and children are determined to continue to study hard in the future, they can find private high schools that can accept their children. After all, some private high schools are more flexible. Although the grades are not good, children may have other specialties and can be admitted to private high schools.

2. If the child has certain artistic expertise, you can consider taking an art school. After all, art schools have lower requirements for cultural courses, such as children's specialties in music, dance and performance. And the children are also very interested. You can let your child go to a private high school or enter an art school first, and then enter the university as an art candidate.

If both children and parents want to learn a technology, they can choose a vocational school for their children and learn a professional technology. At present, the income of senior blue-collar workers is also very considerable. Choose a good vocational school, as long as you study hard at school, you can master a professional skill, and you will have no problem getting employment in the future and your income will not be low. If children can swallow their pride and study hard while studying in vocational schools, they can take the college entrance examination after graduation from vocational schools and have the opportunity to enter an ideal university.

Suggestion: The senior high school entrance examination is very important, but it is not the only way out. Neither Hua nor Edison went to college, and they both made outstanding contributions in their respective fields. Gold always shines. Now society gives children and parents a variety of choices. As long as we persist in learning and persevere, we will eventually become useful talents needed by society.

The above is my answer to your question, I hope I can help you!

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What suits you is the best. Exams, of course, can't be divided into success and failure. If the child usually gets good grades, it's only because he failed the exam for a while. This situation should give children a chance. If your grades are not good at ordinary times, it is recommended to choose a vocational school and a good major according to your child's hobbies. Children's development is multi-channel and multi-faceted. As long as they are willing to work hard and don't give up, they will definitely have their own direction in life.

I feel that choosing a major that I like and going to a vocational school or a related technical school have the skills to enhance my competitiveness in the job market.