Filial piety is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Mencius's "I knew I loved my loved ones when I was a child" revealed the situation that people respected the old and loved the young in the Spring and Autumn Period. Affection is a comprehensive expression of a person's kindness, love and conscience; It is the duty of being a man, a natural virtue, and a prerequisite for the formation of various virtues, so it has always been praised by people. There is a saying in the new San Zi Jing: "Be warm, be fragrant, love your parents, and be meaningful." Huang Xiang Jr. mentioned in the book was a good boy in Hubei in Han Dynasty, and he was famous for his filial piety to his elders. At the age of 9, he unfortunately lost his mother and knew how to honor his father since he was a child. Whenever it is hot in summer, he fans his father's sleeping pillow to drive away mosquitoes and close the curtains to make his father sleep comfortably. In the cold winter, the mattress was as cold as iron, so he slept on his father's mattress first, warmed the quilt with his own body temperature, and then let his father sleep in a warm bed. Huang Xiang Jr. is not only famous for his filial piety, but also diligent and knowledgeable. At that time, it was known as "a westward journey, a yellow teenager in Jiangxia".

Filial piety is an important part of the moral quality of primary and secondary school students. The Action Plan for Revitalizing Education in the 20th Century (2 1), which was approved by the Ministry of Education in the State Council, put forward that filial piety should be regarded as a task of moral education in primary and secondary schools in the new century, which shows that the state attaches great importance to this issue.

What is disturbing is that among today's teenagers, filial piety is becoming more and more serious. You can often see such a scene: after dinner, children turn their heads to watch TV or go out to play, but parents are busy tidying up; There is delicious food at home, and parents always let their children taste it first, but children rarely ask their parents to eat it first; Once a child is ill, parents will be busy and take care of them in every possible way; Parents are unwell and their children seldom greet them. These are all worrying.

Whether you have the habit of honoring your parents is not only the emotional relationship between children and parents, but also the big question of whether you can care about others. At home, you can form a good habit of honoring your parents, and in society, you can care about your colleagues and be loyal to your motherland. Suhomlinski, a famous educator in the former Soviet Union, said that if a child doesn't even love his mother, will he still love others, his hometown and his motherland? Therefore, we can't ignore the good habit of cultivating children to honor their parents.

(1) Let children understand that without parents, there would be nothing for children (body, wisdom, thoughts, etc.). ), and parents ocean deep. As a child, you have the responsibility to honor and repay, which is the morality of being a man. As the old saying goes, "crow feeds back" refers to the problem that children must be filial.

(2) Let children know how much effort their parents have put into him and his family. Nowadays, many children don't know their parents' jobs and how their parents get their money. All they know is asking their parents for money to buy this and that. They think it is natural for parents to eat, dress and use their children well. Such a child is bound not to honor his parents from the heart. Therefore, parents who go out to work should consciously and often tell their children about their work and income, so that children can understand that their parents' money is hard-won. Children will naturally cherish their own lives gradually, and they will also feel grateful and respectful to their parents from the bottom of their hearts.

(3) Let children be grateful. From the left-behind children, this "newspaper" is to treat parents with moral etiquette. Parents should ask their children: first, be polite to their parents, such as speaking appropriately to their parents, caring about their children's work and health, and doing some housework within their power; Second, strive to cultivate themselves into "four haves" and let parents get spiritual comfort; Third, listen to parents' teaching and correct your own shortcomings; The fourth is to expand the love for parents, and expand the love for parents to the love for teachers, classmates, people and the motherland. This kind of love is a good love for parents.

(4) Cultivate children's filial behavior habits from daily chores. For example, he is required to listen to his parents' teaching, care about their health, share their worries, participate in housework and not add chaos to their parents. Take the initiative to care about parents' health. When parents are tired, children should take the initiative to help or ask their parents to rest. When parents go out, children should remind their parents to forget things or pay attention to weather changes; When parents are sick, children should take the initiative to take care of them, say more words of comfort and receive guests for them. In short, according to children's age, ability and learning situation, reasonable distribution, specific guidance, patient training, enthusiastic encouragement. This will not only help children develop the habit of doing housework, but also help children to continuously enhance the concept of filial piety to their parents: "My parents raised me, so I should do more for them."

(5) Parents should set an example of filial piety to their elders. Children's attitude towards their parents is directly influenced by their parents' attitude towards their elders. Parents should not only take care of their small families, but also take care of their elderly parents at all times. If you can't get along with the elderly when you are working outside or busy at work, then you should try your best to take your children to visit the elderly, help the elderly do some housework, play with the elderly, and fulfill their responsibilities and obligations. Over time, children will gradually develop a good habit of respecting their elders and honoring their parents.