I used to have a deskmate, her name was Yuan Baihua, and her grades were the best in our class, but my grades were always above average. So I have a strange psychology-I dare not talk to her, for fear that she will look down on me and laugh at me. Even if I have any big difficulties, I will only talk to my classmates in front or behind and ask for their help, instead of bothering Yuan Baihua. Once, I didn't know any questions. Only Yuan Baihua can do it in the class, so I had to bite the bullet and ask her. She gave me a haughty look and said nothing. I am sad. So, I hate her from the bottom of my heart and want to tell her by action: "I am stronger than you!" " "But I don't know what to do. Whenever my mother asks me how my deskmate is, I just vaguely answer, "Not bad!" " "But at this time, my mother will have a puzzled expression on her face. When she learned that my deskmate was the best student in the class, she suddenly understood the meaning behind my "good" response to her. So she said earnestly, "The result is only a temporary phenomenon. If she taunts you and despises you, you can reflect it to the teacher, but if it is because you are not confident, you can go the other way. " After my mother said this sentence seriously, she gave me a thumbs-up, which means "You are the best!" " "I am very touched, but my heart is not as good as it is. I caught up, and my grades climbed up Yuan Baihua's road bit by bit. The same way, different speeds, and finally into the top ten. In order to exercise more and become a confident person, I went to many places to make friends and boldly recommend myself to make my popularity better and better! I also did a lot of reading to increase my knowledge. I also read a lot of newspapers, concerned about world affairs, and let Yuan Baihua know that I am not a vulgar scholar who "turns a deaf ear to things outside the window and reads only sage books". Finally, I am full of confidence in myself. When I was studying by myself at noon, I couldn't work out a problem, and it happened that Yuan Baihua didn't do very well either, so I politely said to her, "Can we discuss this problem together?" "When discussing, she looked at my eyes with her eyes. There is no arrogance in those eyes. I finally won her respect. In the process, I became more confident! Self-confidence is not just courage, but an inner culture! Self-confidence can help you gain the respect of others. Confidence comes from knowledge.