It is difficult for men to meet the first day, and it is difficult for women to meet the fifteenth. There are many proverbs circulating in the vast rural areas of our country. These proverbs all contain the experience gained by ancient labor through the struggle between wisdom and nature, which can be described as classics. But are these proverbs circulating in rural areas correct? Obviously not. Some proverbs are limited to the development environment at that time. With the improvement of productivity, some proverbs are no longer correct and gradually forgotten by the world. Among them, "men are not allowed to go to the first grade and women are not allowed to go to the fifteenth grade" is one of them.

What does this sentence mean?

It means that boys should not be born on the first day of the first month, and girls should not be born on the fifteenth. Usually in rural areas, the birthday of a newborn boy will be changed to 30 or 29, and the birthday of a girl will be changed to 16 or 14. Then why change it? Is there any mystery in this? We continue to look down.

First of all, we can know that this proverb has no reliable scientific basis, and more connotations are customs and habits.

The reason why boys are not good in their first life is mainly because ancient people attach great importance to the traditional Spring Festival. Even though modern people attach great importance to the Spring Festival, the first day of junior high school is the beginning of the year. Everyone hopes to have a good start and pray for a smooth next year. However, everyone neglected a problem, that is, the sanitary conditions in ancient times were very backward, and even the families of emperors and nobles had a high rate of newborns, not to mention the families of ordinary people, so the birth risk was very high. Not only is it hard to have children, but once something goes wrong, it will be remembered every New Year, which will cast a shadow. At the same time, the ancients thought that the first day of a year was the beginning of a year and belonged to a bigger day. First-born boys are not easy to discipline.

15 girls who can't have children are the same. 15 is the Lantern Festival, and it is also a festival that ancient people attach importance to. If girls are born on this day, they will not be able to have a stable holiday, and they will also delay others' shopping. Therefore, I hope that girls will not be born on 15.

The above is the general meaning of this proverb, but experts believe that this proverb has certain limitations and some truth at that time, but with the improvement of productivity and sanitary conditions, it is no longer in line with the current development and can be completely ignored.

People's life and destiny will always face all kinds of blows and setbacks. Some people will be devastated in the face of difficulties, and some people will be more and more brave, so the key lies in their own efforts the day after tomorrow, so as long as they work hard, everything is not a problem! You know, Ma Yun also said that there are still dreams. What if it comes true?

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