First, be a good person, a useful person to society, not a bad person;
Second, you can't rely on your parents. Parents are unreliable. When you have power, you can't use your parents; I have no right, even when I am criticized, I will drag you down.
Later, his two sons both said that they would never go into politics or be an official because they were afraid of what happened to their father. They all chose their own path according to their own wishes. The eldest son engages in design, and the younger son teaches himself to do business. He is introverted and doesn't like making friends. For two grandchildren who are studying abroad, Li's request is to write a letter in Chinese every month, don't forget China's words, practice calligraphy well and communicate with their families more.
Sometimes, family happiness is as simple as that, but there are always people who can't do it or get it.