Wei Yongkang, a gifted boy, has experienced his whole life. The first 20 years of Wei Yongkang's life were the most brilliant moments. However, the rest of his life changed from a prodigy to an ordinary person, and finally his life was fixed at the age of 38. Wei Yongkang, a gifted boy, has experienced his whole life.

Wei Yongkang, a gifted boy, has experienced 1 all his life. In the vast sea of people, there will always be a handful of talented people who stand out from the crowd! So there are praises such as "genius" and "prodigy"! Wei Yongkang, known as the "Oriental prodigy", can be said to belong to that group of talents.

His life has experienced ups and downs, but now it has come to an end! 165438+1October17th morning, Fu Bi, the wife of "prodigy" Wei Yongkang, posted an obituary in Tianya Forum, saying that her husband Wei Yongkang had died of illness on June 5438+065438+1October 9, and thanked her husband for all the time.

Who's Wei Yongkang? Many people may not know it, but Wei Yongkang is a household name in Huaxian County, Hunan Province.

Wei Yongkang, born in 1983, knew thousands of words at the age of 2; Completed junior high school courses at the age of 4; He entered junior high school at the age of 8, 13, and was admitted to the Physics Department of Xiangtan University with 602 points in the college entrance examination. He is the youngest local college student. 17 years old, went to the Chinese Academy of Sciences to study for a master's degree. Isn't this glamorous resume what everyone calls a "prodigy"?

At that time, Wei Yongkang's glorious deeds were widely reported by the provincial media, and he was known as the "Oriental prodigy". Unfortunately, he was later "fired" by China Academy of Sciences with a master's degree, for the simple reason that Wei Yongkang could not take care of himself!

Since childhood, Wei Yongkang's daily life has obviously been arranged by her mother. Under the care of his mother, before going to college, Wei Yongkang lived a life of "clothes to reach out, food to mouth". The only thing he needed to do was to read, read, or read!

This made him finally live a life of "everything is inferior, only reading is high". Since she was admitted to the University of Science and Technology of China with excellent results, Wei Yongkang's mother failed to continue to "accompany" and take care of her son's daily life.

However, Wei Yongkang, who left her mother's care, found that she couldn't even do simple things well. He can't wash clothes, cook and clean, his dormitory is dirty, he is late for class and doesn't communicate with others ... He even walks around Tiananmen Square in winter wearing a single coat and slippers, and the people around him look like fools!

Wei Yongkang was expelled from school in August 2003 because of her poor self-care ability. Since then, he once had a nervous breakdown, and this genius in everyone's eyes finally "disappeared from everyone." This has also become a knot in Wei Yongkang's mother's heart, and she has also begun to reflect on her education methods.

But on the bright side, after dropping out of school, Wei Yongkang began to learn how to live. His life, which had long been out of touch with society, slowly returned to the right track, and later he had a loving and happy family.

From being a child prodigy to the life of ordinary people, in any case, Wei Yongkang's life is still happy.

The life experience of Wei Yongkang, a gifted teenager. I wonder if you have read Shang written by Wang Anshi. The protagonist of this article is Fang Zhongyong, and Fang Zhongyong was a "child prodigy" at that time. He could write poetry when he was five years old. His father thought it was profitable, so he used Fang Zhongyong as a tool to make money and refused to let him study. After a long time, Fang Zhongyong became an ordinary person and everyone disappeared.

There have been "gifted teenagers" since ancient times, which reminds me of Wei Yongkang, a "prodigy" in Hunan. I heard some stories about him in my early years, but it's a little vague. Today, I want to rearrange his life. What is the current situation in Wei Yongkang? What enlightenment does his deeds bring to us?

Wei Yongkang's early experience can be called "child prodigy".

Wei Yongkang is born after 80s. 1983, from Huarong County, Hunan Province. His family is not rich. His father, Wei Bingnan, is a disabled soldiers who has been paralyzed in bed for many years and has no ability to work. The burden of the family fell on his mother Zeng, who worked in a local department store to make a living.

Although his family was poor, his mother raised Wei Yongkang with all she had. When he was a child, Zeng Xuemei taught him to read. When he was 1 year old in Wei Yongkang, he mastered more than 1000 Chinese characters. Think about what we can do when we are 1 years old. I don't think I can say anything. What is this?

Under the careful education of his mother, he created one story after another of "Oriental prodigies". When Wei Yongkang was 4 years old, he basically finished his junior high school course. After only two years of primary school, he directly advanced placement to a county key middle school. /kloc-at the age of 0/3, Wei Yongkang was admitted to the Physics Department of Xiangtan University with 602 points. 17 years old, graduated from university and admitted to the Institute of High Energy Physics, Chinese Academy of Sciences.

From these "glamorous" resumes, we can see that Wei Yongkang has extraordinary talent and IQ, which can be called "genius" and "prodigy". Behind these resumes, I also benefited from his mother's careful teaching and "pulling out the seedlings to encourage".

At the age of 20, Wei Yongkang was expelled from the Chinese Academy of Sciences, his mother collapsed, and the "genius boy" fell into the "altar"

Wei Yongkang, 17 years old, was admitted to the Graduate School of Chinese Academy of Sciences and became a "story" in the local county and a model for educating children. Wei Yongkang also became a well-known "star", but later he was surprised that "gifted boy" became a negative textbook, which caused a great sensation at that time.

It turns out that this "prodigy" can't take care of himself for a long time and can't adapt to the knowledge structure of the Chinese Academy of Sciences. In August 2003, Wei Yongkang, who had been a graduate student for three years, was persuaded to go home by China Academy of Sciences.

When his mother heard the news that her son was expelled from school, she felt incredible and even had a nervous breakdown. She scolded her son angrily: you don't live up to expectations under such good conditions and don't study hard. I want you to die and pretend that I never gave birth to you.

Love is cut, hate is cut, and parents love their children for a far-reaching purpose.

Wei Yongkang's expulsion from China Academy of Sciences spread in the local area and became the talk of local people after dinner. Once a "gifted teenager" fell to the bottom and became a negative textbook for educating children.

Wei Yongkang couldn't stand such a blow. She ran away from home several times and felt that she hated her mother. He thought to himself: My mother ruined my life! But every time I was lucky enough to be taken home by the police.

This "child prodigy" mother began to reflect on her educational methods and help Wei Yongkang to mature.

After Wei Yongkang ran away from home several times, his mother began to reflect on her educational methods. According to Zeng's self-report, she has been with him since he was a child, doing all the housework at home, but not allowed to do any housework. During the accompanying study, in order not to delay his study or even support him, he just studied.

Zeng Xuemei has high expectations for her son. She believes in the abnormal educational concept of "everything is inferior, only reading is high", forcing her son to be a "nerd". What's the use of doing nothing but reading?

Wei Yongkang read to him when he was a child, and devoted a lot of his mother's efforts, so he was eager for quick success. This kind of "pulling out the seedlings to encourage" is not conducive to children's physical and mental health, so that the original innocent childhood is full of learning tasks.

Fortunately, her mother woke up in time, otherwise her son would really be "useless". Zeng Xuemei began to help him become independent and mature.

The reason why Wei Yongkang dropped out of Chinese Academy of Sciences is that he was separated from his mother, so he couldn't adapt to the life of Chinese Academy of Sciences, he couldn't take care of himself, and rarely communicated with his classmates and tutors, which led to the failure to finish his thesis.

Summing up the reasons for his dropping out of school, his mother's first task is to cultivate his independence and help him mature. I began to teach my son to do housework and learn to communicate with others. After a period of training, Wei Yongkang can take care of himself, become sensible, and take care of his father who is paralyzed in bed.

This also came true that "success is also a mother, and failure is also a mother." It was his mother who trained him as a "child prodigy", but it was also because of his mother's education method that he could not take care of himself and his adaptability was poor. But it was his mother who brought him back to his normal life.

What's his situation now?

Wei Yongkang experienced this incident of dropping out of Chinese Academy of Sciences, constantly reflecting on himself and returning to normal life with the help of his mother.

His deeds spread all over the country at that time. A software development company in Shanghai heard his story and offered him a job. Wei Yongkang can leave his hometown and go to Shanghai to work alone.

In Shanghai, he met his lover Fu Bi (a native of Longhui, Shaoyang, Hunan) before he graduated. After graduating from Hunan University, Fu Bi came to work in Shenzhen. Wei Yongkang came to Shenzhen to embrace beautiful women and made a fierce pursuit. Finally, on the National Day of 2008, they tied the knot. Today, their family lives a dull and happy life.

However, Wei Yongkang felt a little sorry that he could not finish his graduate studies normally. He said: My hobby is reading. Through his efforts, in 2009, he was admitted to the graduate school of Beijing University of Technology, graduated smoothly, found a decent job and returned to the life of ordinary people.

Once a child prodigy, Wei Yongkang just wanted to live an ordinary life.

Wei Yongkang used to be a child prodigy, but now he's gone. Maybe the life of ordinary people is his real destination. Throughout the ages, we have no shortage of "prodigies". What we lack is talents with healthy development of IQ and EQ. Some of them have high IQ, but low EQ, so they are not qualified for big positions. This incident also brings us a reflection on educating children: don't encourage children, let nature take its course, and pay attention to personality cultivation, self-care ability cultivation and frustration education.

Wei Yongkang, a gifted boy, had a life experience. 3 Wei Yongkang, 1983, from Yueyang. He finished junior high school at the age of 4 and entered the county key middle school at the age of 8. 13 years old, admitted to the Physics Department of Xiangtan University, becoming the youngest college student in Hunan Province at that time. 17 years old, admitted to Institute of High Energy Physics, Chinese Academy of Sciences. In 2003, due to lack of self-care, Wei Yongkang was dismissed from the Chinese Academy of Sciences.

Wei Yongkang's life in the first 20 years was a glorious moment. However, in the rest of his life, he experienced a transformation from a child prodigy to an ordinary person, and finally his life was fixed at the age of 38. What has he experienced in this short life?

065438 can read at the age of 0 or 2, finish junior high school courses at the age of 4, and attend key middle schools at the age of 8.

Behind every child prodigy, besides talent, there is also the persistence and efforts of family members, and Wei Yongkang is no exception.

Wei Yongkang was only one year and three months old, and his mother began to teach him to read and write. However, he did not live up to his mother's expectations. At the age of two, he had learned more than 65,438+0,000 Chinese characters.

Seeing that his son likes studying so much and his grades are good, his mother tutored him personally.

Wei Yongkang is also very awesome, so he basically finished the junior high school course at the age of 4, and he didn't reach grade two or six until he was in primary school for six years. It can be said that he advanced placement all the way to school.

Eight-year-old Wei Yongkang quickly entered the county key middle school. What's more commendable is that after he came to this middle school, he won various awards and certificates, such as the second prize and the third prize in chemistry of Orsay, the second prize in physics competition and the prize in the national mathematics invitational tournament (Hope Cup), thus starting the road of child prodigy.

It is such a talented boy that he let everyone see his IQ overnight. His talent in learning is far ahead of ordinary people.

02, 13 years old to study at university, 17 years old to study for master's degree.

Time came to Wei Yongkang 13 years old. He took the college entrance examination and was admitted to the Physics Department of Xiangtan University with a total score of 602, becoming a young college student with no gap.

At this time, Wei Yongkang is a high-spirited teenager, a child praised by everyone; It can be said that it was his highlight moment, which refreshed his talent in learning again and crushed ordinary people in IQ again. Such a Wei Yongkang is undoubtedly admirable.

In the university, Wei Yongkang's study is still far ahead, and naturally, his achievements are also out of reach.

So, Wei Yongkang, who graduated with honors, went to the Institute of High Energy Physics of Chinese Academy of Sciences at the age of 17 and began his master's and doctoral studies. Such a smooth life is simply the envy of everyone.

Wei Yongkang, who is riding the dust in his studies, has a bright future according to the normal process, and his life will be more and more exciting. However, at the age of 20, he met with Waterloo.

03, the prodigy fell, and his mother wanted him to die.

It is said that God is fair. When one door opens for you, another window closes, and Wei Yongkang is no exception.

Wei Yongkang was dismissed from China Academy of Sciences at the age of 20 on the grounds that he could not take care of himself and communicate with others normally. In short, he is nothing but learning.

I don't know how to take off my clothes when it's hot, and I don't know how to add clothes in winter. Running out in a thin coat and slippers. The room was not cleaned and smelly, and socks and dirty clothes were thrown everywhere.

For a genius, maybe we can relax our requirements once in a while. However, Wei Yongkang's lack in life is comparable to a "giant baby", and the consequence of all this is his mother.

Wei Yongkang can become a child prodigy not only because of his talent, but also because of his mother's guidance and training. However, it was his mother who naturally gave him a lot of care in life in order to let him devote all his energy to his studies.

It is natural for a mother to take care of her children. Even when Wei Yongkang was in college, her mother followed her because she was young, and the school arranged a separate dormitory for her and her son.

In order to make Wei Yongkang study better, his mother not only did it herself in life, but also kept him out of it, so even when he was in college, Wei Yongkang even needed her help to tie his shoelaces.

When the mother learned that her son was expelled from school, she did not reflect on herself. On the contrary, she attributed all her disappointments to Wei Yongkang and even wished him to die.

As soon as the news that the Oriental prodigy was dropped out of school spread, it attracted a lot of people's attention. For a while, about educating children, don't just teach them how to learn? Teaching them how to live is also a hot topic.

Look at Wei Yongkang 20 years ago. It was both a success and a failure. If a mother doesn't know how to educate her children to learn life, she will eventually lose to life, no matter how talented she is in learning.

As an ordinary person, he became a wife who knows how to live.

After dropping out of school, Wei Yongkang started his job-hunting career, but the process was very bad and the result was even less satisfactory. Even if he was admitted to work, he was eventually dismissed because of "inadaptability".

Wei Yongkang spent nearly 500 yuan's money, went to 16 provinces and cities, and visited Hangzhou, Ningbo, Zhoushan, Shanghai, Zhengzhou, Maozhan successively. When Wei Yongkang arrived in Yulin, he lost all his money and was penniless.

In order to escape from reality, Wei Yongkang ran away from home more than once, the longest time was 39 days, but she finally returned to her mother.

Seeing her son like this, the mother gradually relaxed, knowing that it was all her own fault, and she would always accompany Wei Yongkang.

It was not until Wei Yongkang got married that he slowly walked out of everyone's field of vision and started the life of ordinary people.

From ordinary people to understanding life in his wife's eyes, he has completed the transformation that others have completed for decades.

However, no one expected that when Wei Yongkang appeared in everyone's field of vision again, it was a "sudden illness death". This is the news that the listener is sad and the listener is crying.