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Good habits make people invincible, while bad habits make people fall from the throne of success. Napoleon? 6? 1 hill thinks Paul? 6? This sentence of 1 Getty makes sense.
Once, Getty was a heavy smoker. One day, on the way to France for a holiday, he stayed in a small hotel. It rains heavily at night and the ground is particularly muddy. After driving for hours, Getty was really tired. After supper, he went back to his room and fell asleep. But in the early morning, Getty suddenly woke up. He wanted to smoke a cigarette, so he turned on the light and naturally reached out to touch the cigarette he usually put on the bedside, but there was no cigarette. He got out of bed and looked in his pocket, but there was nothing. So he looked into the duffel bag again, and he was disappointed again. He knew that the hotel bar and restaurant were closed at this time. He thought it impossible to call an impatient porter at this time. Now, the only way for him to get cigarettes is to get dressed and go to the railway station, but it's still six blocks away.
It seems that the situation is not optimistic, and it is still raining outside. His car is also parked in the garage not far from the hotel. Besides, he was reminded when he stayed in a hotel. The garage door closed at midnight and didn't open until 6 o'clock the next morning. The chance of taking a taxi now is equivalent to zero.
Obviously, if he really needs a cigarette, then he can only walk into the darkness in the rain. The desire to smoke tormented him constantly. So he got out of bed, took off his pajamas, got dressed and got ready to go out. Just as he reached for his raincoat, he suddenly laughed and laughed at himself for being so stupid. He suddenly felt that his behavior was ridiculous.
Getty stood there, thinking constantly that a so-called intellectual, a businessman, a man who thinks he is smart enough to give orders to others, had to leave a comfortable hotel in the middle of the night and walk a few streets in the heavy rain to buy cigarettes.
For the first time in her life, Getty noticed that she had formed a bad habit, that is, she could give up great comfort for a bad habit. It seems that this habit is not good for him, so his mind immediately sobered up and he made a decision quickly.
Having made up his mind, he went to the table, rolled up the cigarette case and threw it out, then put on his pajamas and went back to the comfortable bed. With a sense of relief, even victory, I turned off the light and closed my eyes with satisfaction. In the rain outside the window, he fell into a deep sleep that he had never had before. He hasn't smoked since that night, and he hasn't thought about smoking again.
Getty said that he didn't want to blame those who have smoking habits with this incident. But he often recalls that night, just to show that according to his situation at that time, he was almost captured by a bad habit.
Doing one thing often will form a habit, and the power of habit is irresistible. But human beings still have a hidden buffering ability, which should not be underestimated. Since it is possible for a person to form a habit, it is certain that he has the ability to get rid of it.
Others say that good habits are difficult to form, but bad habits are unconsciously formed, which is strange. However, this is not the case, it depends on one's perseverance. In any case, habits are habits after all, and there is no reasonable theory that bad habits are easier to form than good habits.
It's only a matter of time before you are fast or slow. One is either used to punctuality or will be used to being late.
A punctual person will always realize the benefits of this habit, whether it is dating, meeting or other commitments. If someone invites you to dinner, you will be late, which will bring inconvenience to the host and other guests. You may become unpopular because of this, and people will never invite you to dinner again.
Napoleon? 6? 1 hill believes that punctuality is a particularly valuable asset for businessmen. As the saying goes, "Time is money" is always correct. In this era, this principle is more important than before. The pace of modern enterprises is a thousand miles a day, and every minute counts. Supervisors and senior staff have full schedules every day, because they have no extra time to waste, just as the production line can't be delayed.
Trustworthiness is a rare virtue of businessmen. The most promising businessmen and companies must take orders on time, reply to delivery on time, provide services, pay on time and pay off debts on time. If the waiting time has passed and the order hasn't arrived, the customer may not call you next time.
Thrift is another habit that can be formed. For a natural thrifty person, this habit will bring him more chances of success than others. People who are used to thrift only know that they should pay attention to cutting expenses and costs when they care. In today's highly competitive business society, even if you save in a small place, many a mickle makes a mickle, you will eventually save considerable things. It may even cause the difference between profit and loss.
The most valuable habit of any businessman who has just started a business is to review his reasoning before making a decision. This final inspection may only take a few minutes or even seconds, but it is very rewarding. It can give people an opportunity to sort out their thoughts and recall why they made such a decision. Such a seemingly simple process is actually very useful. It's like those very famous actors in the world. Before each performance, although they are already familiar with their roles, they still have to close the script and quickly review their roles in their hearts.
Napoleon? 6? 1 hill's attitude towards "the secret of forming this habit" is affirmative. He thinks that anyone can leave for a minute before making up his mind and calmly sort out his thoughts for the last time.
Another habit is that anyone who wants to succeed in business must get into the habit of dealing with important things easily. Successful businessmen are people who can relax themselves, and they can accept adversity calmly. His mind is always in a state of thinking and reaction. They are always ready to explore new opportunities, understand and deal with new problems and situations.
A smart businessman's relaxed mind is like a qualified football player. When a player passes the ball, he won't panic if the ball accidentally falls into the opponent's hand. So do businessmen. In the fierce business competition, he will not be in a hurry in case of unexpected events. He will react quickly. He has a way to cope with this situation. He may run with the ball tightly, or he may turn to avoid the opponent's pounce.
Some people who have just started to do business already have this relaxed internal driving force, but most businessmen have to go through repeated tests before they finally understand this truth.
A person who wants to succeed must know that the power of habit is great. He must also understand that to form good habits, he must always work hard, and at the same time be alert to those bad habits that may destroy his good habits, and also quickly develop good habits that will help him pursue.
The reward of good habits is success.
Napoleon? 6? 1 hill's good friend and successful scientist manqiunuo once put forward a psychological suggestion to cultivate good habits. He asked his students to say to themselves:
"Today is a new beginning of my life. I want to take off my old clothes, because failure has scarred it.
"Today is the day of my rebirth. The vineyard is my birthplace. Welcome everyone to taste my fruit.
"Today, in this vineyard, I will pick the fruit of wisdom from the highest and most fruitful vine. Because these are the most respectable people in my career, planted from generation to generation.
"Now, I want to taste the taste of these fruits. I want to swallow the seeds of every fruit and let new power sprout in my heart.
"The industry I choose is full of opportunities and I have never failed or been disappointed. And those who have failed, if stacked like a pyramid, must be higher than the pyramid. " However, I am in another group, and I will not fail. Because I have a direction map in my hand, which guides me out of the confused sea, away from the turbulent sea and towards the other side of success. The past was just a dream.
"My struggle no longer ends in failure, because failure, like pain, is not suitable for my life. I accepted it before because I needed training. Now I refuse because my ability and wisdom have improved. They will guide me to out of the dark, towards light and happiness. There, the golden apples are only a small part of my reward.
"If people can live forever, then he can learn a lot, but I can't, so what I have learned is limited. I want to learn patience. Because, God always does things step by step. It took him/kloc-0.00 years to create the olive tree, and I was just a small onion. I used to live as humble as an onion, but now I don't want to live like an onion. I want to be an olive tree. In fact, I must succeed (specifically, as an orator, a scientist, etc. ). "
Good habits are the key to success.
If you don't have the knowledge and experience to do great things, you will often be in a state of ignorance and even fall into the abyss of self-pity. So, how should we form good habits? Actually, the answer is simple. Start your journey without knowledge. Because God has given you more knowledge and instinct than any other animal in this primeval forest, while man overestimates his own experience.
Seriously, experience is a summary of lessons, but if you want to gain experience, you must sacrifice a lot of time. Moreover, when human beings know its knowledge, its value has declined. And the result? Rich experience, but people are dead. And experience is only temporary, and measures that may be useful today may not be effective tomorrow.
Only principles can never change, and these principles are in your hands, because these principles that can take you to a great road have been written here. It will lead you to success and avoid failure.
In fact, the only difference between a failed person and a successful person is the difference in habits. Good habits are the key to success and bad habits are the key to failure. Therefore, the first principle you should follow is to form good habits and implement them wholeheartedly. When I was a child, I might be impulsive for a little thing. In the past years, you were dominated by feelings, environment, prejudice, greed and habits, and the worst of these tyrants was habits. All bad habits should be changed, and we are ready to plant seeds in new fields and plant the hope of success.
Napoleon said, it's best to say to myself loudly that I want to form good habits and I want to implement them wholeheartedly.
So, how to accomplish this arduous and great undertaking? Is to get rid of the bad habits in life and replace them with a good habit that can help you succeed. Because one habit will inhibit another.
Second, everything becomes a habit and is easy to do.
What's the use of forming good habits? In fact, the secret of human instinct is hidden here. When you repeat these words every day, they will soon become a part of your heart. And most importantly, they will sneak into your mind and become a wonderful source, never stopping, creating an environment for you and doing things you can't believe.
When words are completely absorbed by your heart, every morning, you will wake up from your dream with a kind of vitality that you have never had before. You feel energetic. Your enthusiasm is high, and your desire for a new world will make you overcome all your fears, and you will be happier than you think.
Then you found out that you had a way to handle everything. You will be surprised to find that you can use these methods easily. Because, as long as you practice any method, practice makes perfect, and the difficult ones become easy.
So I formed a good habit. When a habit becomes easy after repeated practice, you will like to do it. And once you like to do it, you are willing to do it often. This is human nature. This is a habit when you often do it. You are a slave to habit.
Today is the beginning of my new life.
Now you should solemnly say to yourself, "Today is the beginning of my new life, and no one can stop my growth. I can't go a day without reading these books. Because there is no way to remedy this loss, and I won't find anything else to replace it, because I insist on the habit of reading every day. In fact, spending a few minutes on this new habit is just the price of smiling for the happiness that will belong to you. "
When you read these words in this book, you must not ignore any word or simplify any sentence. So as not to ignore the moral here. These grapes of wisdom were squeezed into a bottle, and all the useless residues were removed, leaving only pure truth. Drink according to my instructions, and don't waste a bite. This is the seed of success.
Today, your old look is swaying in the wind. You should strut in the crowd, whether they know you or not. Because, you are a person with a new life.
By repeating these psychological hints to yourself, you can cultivate good psychological habits.