People in low-offending circles can't get along. Count who she has offended. Actually, no matter what, just be yourself. For example, Venus, our common poisonous snake, is not very good and has a foothold in the entertainment circle.

"Who shouldn't be offended?" If you can, you'd better not offend anyone. It's hard to ask him for anything in the future ~ more friends are better than more enemies ~

Who did Qingwen offend in a Dream of Red Mansions? Cao Xueqin attributed Qingwen's tragedy to "people are angry because of romance, and many people are born because of slander."

Translated into contemporary Chinese, this sentence is actually "the wood in the forest, the beauty is in the forest, and the wind will destroy it."

It can be seen that Zuo Zongtang's love for Qingwen is not as usual, but a bit too lucky.

From the public's point of view, Qingwen's tragedy, of course, has the identity of "a tree in the forest, the wind will destroy it", but in fact it is more caused by her own personality. "Good luck in personality choice" makes her not indulge willfulness and recklessness from time to time with the attitude of "deputy miss" everywhere, and even become arrogant at some times and occasions. Qingwen's tragedy can't be completely restrained, but at least she won't die in such a shady way.

Those of us who read A Dream of Red Mansions always like to put Qingwen and Xiren together. We always feel that Xiren is more impressive, more frank, and a little sophisticated and cunning than Qingwen, as if some of them are "living with their tails between their legs", but in fact, if Qingwen can learn even a little from Xiren, she will not be accused of being an "unwarranted" fox.

To say that Qingwen's outspoken "assistant lady" temperament is almost criticized by many people, even saying that she "makes enemies on all sides" is not an exaggeration.

So, who did Qingwen blame?

First and foremost, she is a "good sister" who gets along with her day and night. As the grievances and enmities between xiren and Qingwen have been explained in detail above, I will pass them by here and forget about them. It should be pointed out that anyone can blame it, except those who hit people, because in Mrs. Wang's words, hitting people is actually an "ear tip" planted by Mrs. Wang in Baoyu's room, and she will report to Mrs. Wang whenever there is any trouble. Qingwen was kicked out of the ugly garden. Although I'm not sure if it's xiren, I'm sure that xiren won't have anything nice to say in front of Mrs. Wang to deal with Qingwen, who has already been accused.

The second person to blame should be Xiaohong. Xiaohong was accidentally called by Xifeng to deliver tools, and she didn't want to catch up with Qingwen. Qingwen, with a vicious mouth, immediately ridiculed her for "climbing the high branches." Xiaohong, by virtue of her excellent moral, was really recognized as a talented person by Xifeng, and often climbed up the "high branch" of Xifeng from a distance. In the handover of the book, Xiaohong is the daughter of Lin Zhixiao, the housekeeper, but Qingwen, the housekeeper's daughter, dares to criticize at will, which shows that Qingwen's wording is so rash and rash. Judging from the following article, Xiaohong doesn't seem to be a vindictive villain. In front of Xifeng, she certainly didn't speak ill of Qingwen. Otherwise, when Xifeng copied the ugly garden later, she wouldn't be partial to Qingwen. But everyone in the world has it. Can everyone have a beautiful heart like Xiaohong?

The third thing to blame is Baoyu's wet nurse, Li Ma. Although mother Li grew up with Baoyu, the scenery is not there, but at least she is the one who nurtures her master, and everyone still has to give her some face and pride. She obviously lost herself? His "respect" is still unwilling, and he often reminds these maids in Baoyu's room that he is still Baoyu's wet nurse, so he often has to have something to do, either to eat the tea Baoyu wants or to eat the buns Baoyu left for Qingwen. It doesn't matter if he catches up with a "good guy" and attacks people. When he meets Qingwen, he is not so accommodating. Qingwen was straightforward and fearless, so she accidentally stabbed Baoyu with her work, which made Baoyu very disgusted with Mama Li. As the saying goes,' no wall is airtight', and mother Li naturally knew that it was Qingwen afterwards. So Qingwen totally blames this mother Li, who nurtured Baoyu. Although judging from the following article, it may be nothing for Li Nainai to be flattered by Qingwen, it is unlikely that you want Li Nainai to speak well of Qingwen in front of people in the future.

The fourth is Zhui Er. Zhui Er stole Pinger's shrimp bracelet, so it's natural to get rid of it, but it's not Qingwen's duty. Musk knew before her that Zhui Er had stolen the tools, and people kept silent about it. But Qingwen was still ill, but she was furious and insisted on living next. She tortured Zhui Er and even used lynching to extract a confession. In the end, she put on the shelf of "deputy honey". When Zhui Er was kicked out of the house, Qingwen and Zhui Er's mother had a fierce argument. It doesn't matter even if Zhui Er is accused. Is she realistic? The game has been kicked out, but Zhui Er's mother is still in Jiafu, and she will definitely hate this arrogant "deputy miss" in the future. Qingwen blamed her. She must speak ill of Qingwen behind her back. With Qingwen's humble status, although she can't be completely brought down, the bad influence behind her can't be underestimated.

The fifth person to blame should be Wang Shanbao. Although it is not clearly stated in the book, judging from Wang Shanbao's painful accusation in front of Mrs. Wang, it is certain that Qingwen has disrespected her or offended her verbally. Everyone says, "It is better to blame ten honest people than one villain". It was Wang Shanbao's personal vendetta. After reading a book in front of Mrs. Wang, Qingwen's tragic fate gradually came.

Who did Ka Kui Wong offend? He offended * * * at that time. He wrote his dissatisfaction with * * * in the lyrics. ...

Then he was seen by the underworld ... and then he will live in our hearts forever ... and then he said he was not four years old? ..

Who did Jackie Chan offend? As long as there is a certain popularity, there will always be opposites, either for their masters or for their interests. What people like is money.

People didn't get along with each other in the past, but now people don't get along with each other. Why don't you work hard now? In the future, children will say why I don't have rich parents ... the reason is that you can do what is in front of you with a sigh. If you are satisfied, please accept it.

It's hard to say who and how many people Zhao offended.

Hope to adopt. Thank you.

May heaven always produce good people and people always do good things.

The world is free, live if you want, and don't look for substitutes.

amitabha

Who has Jet Li offended? As far as the table is concerned, no one deserves Jet Li to offend anyone, because his social activities are taken care of by his agent. If you offend him, it will happen occasionally during filming.

* * *. Who has he offended? Who has this "two and a half" Marshal Su Yu offended?

1 .peng2. Nie is half-promising. Why do you say "two and a half"? Because later, he and Yang told Su Yu and his family about this problem, saying that he had just offended "two and a half marshals". Why Xu Xiangqian refused to give it to Su Yu is a mystery. It is said that Xu's work was done by Nie.

However, after the Cultural Revolution, Su Yu made a report in the hope that. Ye handed this report to other * * * (excluding Nie and Xu). At the same time, Ye also greeted Su Yu through Yang and told him to go to the home of two bailiffs to clarify the problem.

Su Yu was an honest man and went. This is also the second time that two bailiffs visited Su Yu personally after making a report. Su Yu asked the two marshals for advice and asked them to agree. This move is really rare. These two marshals are very cunning. Both of them agreed to Su Yu face to face and agreed. Su Yu is very happy, because the two marshals are the biggest obstacle on his way forward.

1984 or 1985, I hinted to Sue's family that two bailiffs wouldn't let Sue. Obviously, Xu is one of them, because he has been running for General Su, so there are only two other marshals left. As a result, two marshals blocked Su Yu, and Deng continued to perform, which was also very difficult. Because this one and a half marshals were in front of Lao Ye, who was in power at that time, and he could do nothing about these two marshals.

The decision to deal with Su Yu was made only after the death of two marshals.

The whole Su Yu is obviously recognized by Teacher Mao, and no one has ever speculated how Su Yu offended Teacher Mao. Liu Bocheng looked down on Mao in the Red Army era, and Xiao Ke took refuge in Zhang Teli during the Long March. Su Yu's tactics are unique and unique. At the critical time, it seems better, more useful and more effective. Are you worried about Su Yu? I don't know. When studying for a master's degree, the relationship with the tutor is subtle. My experience is that instructors don't like insightful students. Once the tutor feels inferior to the students in some aspects, especially in public, he will be unhappy and proud. 1959 After Mr. Peng's downfall, he said to Sue in front of everyone at an enlarged meeting in 1960: "Don't hate me, I also listened to Peng!" , Xiaomi himself.

Peng's style was overbearing. At that time, he was in charge of the work, vice premier and minister of national defense, and Huang Kecheng served as secretary of the Secretariat and deputy chief of staff. This adds Su Yu to the middle. If Su Yu is driven away, Huang Peng can fully control the high command. Peng is still very interested in this. 1957165438+1October, Su Yu, as a member of the China delegation led by Peng, paid a visit to the Soviet chief of staff as scheduled. From the experience of the Soviet Union, Su Yu proposed to sokolovski, the chief of general staff of the Soviet Union, asking the other party to provide a copy of the Soviet Union's Written Materials on the Work Responsibilities of the Ministry of National Defense and the General Staff for reference. This extremely normal thing is considered by the leaders to be that Su Yu is "suing the foreign countries".

It is because of these estrangements and differences of opinion that the grumpy Peng often speaks ill of Su Yu. Even when Su Yu wrote the words "Vice Chairman Peng and forwarded it to the Chairman" on the submitted document, he would lose his temper and say: I am not your reporter! Peng once said: "I am an expert, I am Qiu Ba." Boss Peng once accused Sue face to face, "You are insidious!" He is afraid to go to Nanjing Military Academy. Huang is also a ridiculous person, always making right-leaning mistakes and being pretentious. /kloc-When I went to Lushan Mountain in 0/959, I had to be a resistance soldier from the beginning, and I also called him a hero. Later, he turned his back on Peng. It's best not to talk, because you can save yourself without hurting others. Nie Rongzhen's qualifications are very old. After returning from the Soviet Union, he served as chief of staff. During the Nanchang Uprising, he served as the representative of the Eleventh Army. Su Yu and Nie worked together for a short time, and the only misunderstanding occurred between Nie Rendai and the general manager. At that time, Nie was worried that there were too many things to do. He didn't think it necessary to report everything directly to the chairman. So he asked the military report to be reviewed by him, and then see if it needs to be reported according to the situation. According to the requirements put forward in the past, Su Yu, who reports once every half month, naturally listens to the advice of Nie Chao's manager. Unexpectedly, Mao paid special attention to the reduction of reports on the military system and criticized it in the summer of 2008. Therefore, Nie had to write a report to make a review. (Memoirs of Zhang zhen: "Chairman Mao called a meeting in Yi Niantang and informed me to attend. The meeting was presided over by Chairman Mao. He said bluntly: today's meeting is the succession meeting of the vice chairman who presides over the daily work. I talked to Mr. Peng, and the Prime Minister is too busy. He will preside over the daily work in the future, but will not announce it to the public for the time being. The Korean battlefield seems to be unable to fight. Finally, we should negotiate a truce, which will be officially announced after the truce. Before everyone could speak, Chairman Mao suddenly changed the subject and said seriously: Recently, I feel that young women, workers and farmers are too full to eat. However, there are too few dishes in the military system, and I am hungry. Why are you blocking me? ..... I looked at the total nie, his expression is very calm, just said nothing. When Chairman Mao saw Nie was silent, he said to him, Speak! I invited you to attend the meeting in the past, but you didn't speak. I'm afraid of breaking the chair, so I won't invite you ... Then Chairman Mao said to Chairman Nie: Rong Zhen, tell me about it. Nie remained silent all the time. Chairman Mao was even more angry and said, don't talk, organizational adjustment. At this time, other leading comrades rushed out and beat around the bush, saying that they should not rush to deal with it. When Rong Zhen returned, he would write a report to Chairman Mao. The meeting did not continue. " Su Yu felt that she was also responsible, so she also made a written review. Unexpectedly, he not only gave instructions on his own review, saying it was very good, but also compared the work of Su Yu and Nie, affirmed Su Yu's work in the past six months, and criticized Nie at the same time. He also specially handed this instruction to Peng and Nie, which caused great misunderstanding within Nie.

Chen Yi was invited out of the New Fourth Army twice. He was tired of winning seven out of seven and wanted to criticize him. He may suspect that Su Yu and Rao Shushi are working together. There are always contradictions in doing business together. Chen Yi's opinion of Su Yu is quite big, and he also criticized the point, which is not small in lethality. It's not secret protection at all. Chen Yi mainly criticized Su Yu's attitude, but he didn't do it. Chen's criticism of Su Yu is completely speculative. Kerwin Chen was the first person to say that Su Yu passed the test. But the other two and a half are not like this, especially except Peng's one and a half, which has harmed Su Yu for most of his life. It was not until this one was half dead that it was given to Su Yu.

Loyal enough to say at the meeting of Xiaomi: I was sick recently. I don't know why people who win the battle will be criticized. Forest has a high status and great contribution. Maybe Peng, Nie and Chen Dou dare not provoke him. Lin and Su Yu were comrades-in-arms, and there was little difference in their status during the Nanchang Uprising. It is also true that Su Yu is proud of his works, which is hard to avoid. Reviewing Su Yu's military works is very applicable even now, with rigorous wording and strong logic. If implemented at that time, it will definitely play a positive role in China's national defense construction.

No one can offend in the workplace 1, directly under the superior. (directly controlling the profit distributor)

2. Colleagues in the same industry (especially colleagues with similar abilities and potential competition).

3, talented people at the lower level (people with rising potential).