The mother-in-law of the woman below belongs to the selfish person above. Let's listen to what she said about her mother-in-law.
Hello, Teacher Lin Dong: The case you just wrote about "My mother-in-law forced her daughter-in-law to divorce and wanted to occupy her daughter-in-law's house" is very similar to the problems in my previous marriage. From my personal point of view, I think the mother-in-law who calculates her daughter-in-law is very low, not only in emotional intelligence, but also in IQ.
You mentioned the word "kill the goose to get the egg" in that article, and I think it is the most appropriate word to describe my mother-in-law.
Kill the chicken to get the egg, that is, kill the chicken to get the egg. My mother-in-law calculated this for me, to calculate my money, to occupy my house, and to kill me.
Although many people think that what happened will be bloody, and some people even think it is untrue, I still have to say it, because I know that I am definitely not the only one who has encountered such problems.
My ex-husband and I just got married when my mother-in-law asked me for money. She knew that I had a lot of pre-marital property, and felt that since I married their family, the money no longer belonged to me, but to their family. She thinks it is reasonable that the money must go to her.
I didn't give it to her at that time, and I popularized with her what "premarital property" was. I thought she listened to me, but I offended her.
Then she did two things to get back at me:
First of all, she framed me and betrayed my marriage.
I swear to God, I didn't betray my marriage. Although I have friends of the opposite sex, I'm just friends. And in order not to leave messages for others, I am not allowed to be the only woman at every party or dinner. I'd rather not go if all the people present were men.
But this ordinary thing was interpreted by my mother-in-law as betraying marriage, and then she began to encourage my ex-husband to divorce me and asked me to clean up the house.
Although my ex-husband is honest, he is not stupid. He knows that my mother-in-law has wronged me. When he dared not challenge his mother-in-law, I let him make a choice. "If you choose to listen to your mother-in-law, then we will divorce!"
He didn't continue to compromise with his mother-in-law, and at this point, her mother-in-law failed in her calculation this time.
Second, she framed me for stealing her money.
I have to say, this despicable trick is really naive. She thought that I could be wronged by setting a trap casually, and that she could take hundreds of thousands from my premarital property by lying that she had lost hundreds of thousands. That's ridiculous.
She thought I would obey because of my face, but when my mother's family and the police came, she couldn't answer anything.
My mother asked her, "Do all your possessions add up to hundreds of thousands? Lying is not afraid of being struck by lightning? " She was speechless.
Being counted twice in a row, I was completely chilling. My mother and I decided to divorce after discussion, because if we don't divorce, there will be a third and fourth calculation afterwards. If one day she plays dirty and really kills me, then I will definitely die unsatisfied.
In my opinion, in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there is only one kind of mother-in-law's most fall in price behavior, which is my mother-in-law's calculation of "killing the goose that lays the golden egg". I hope other mother-in-law will not imitate my mother-in-law. I hope other daughters-in-law can pay attention to safety when they meet this kind of mother-in-law. If necessary, they should divorce as soon as possible so as not to find themselves guilty.
The emotional implication in Donglin xi Pavilion: Although the problems mentioned in the above cases are very common in the marriage world, they will inevitably emerge one after another, and one mother-in-law is calculating her daughter-in-law.
Although not all women will have such a mother-in-law, they should be treated with caution when they should be treated with caution. Especially for women with better conditions, if they don't want to be calculated by their mother-in-law and suffer heavy losses after marriage, they should pay more attention to their husband's family before marriage, and make three rules with men.
The so-called "three chapters of the contract" is to communicate the problems in the case clearly. What should I do if there is no such problem? What should I do if there is such a problem? Make it clear in advance, and then follow the rules whether it appears or not.