Now it is said that love is free. Young people generally pay attention to the appropriateness of personality when they fall in love. If two people don't get along, they usually don't consider whether it's appropriate or not.

When I was in college, I had several close classmates. They are all in love and have different family backgrounds.

Xiao Zhang's family conditions are average, not rich, but his girlfriend's family is relatively rich. Her father is not only the leader of a public institution, but also has several properties in the urban area.

Xiao Zhang and his girlfriend fell in love for three years, and met their parents when they were in senior three. At that time, he was quite nervous, worried that his girlfriend's parents would dislike him for having no money, and asked us for advice. But what I didn't expect was that his girlfriend's parents were quite reasonable, just knowing his thoughts after graduation and his daughter's attitude. Then they had a simple meal and didn't talk about anything related to money at all. And judging from the attitude of his girlfriend and mother, they are still more supportive of falling in love with their daughter.

Another classmate, Hou Yaozong, talked about a girlfriend in Inner Mongolia. His girlfriend is cheerful and generous, and her family condition is similar to that of Hou Yaozong.

Hou Yaozong said that he and his girlfriend's parents had watched several videos, and his girlfriend's parents were quite satisfied with him. They basically asked him nothing, but asked him to be kind to his daughter, hoping to take her home several times after marriage.

Now that Xiao Zhang has married his girlfriend, and Hou Yaozong is also preparing to buy a house for the wedding, he is basically satisfied, so I think their parents mainly look at whether it is appropriate for the two children to be together. I really didn't think too much about this piece.

Of course, young people will not think too much about falling in love and getting married. They only consider whether it is appropriate for two people to be together, and often consider the right parents.

In my village, I often hear the demands of the village elders when they give their daughters a blind date. Generally, daughters without academic qualifications will find people with academic qualifications. Even if the man has no education, he needs more money at home to be suitable.

Because girls and boys know each other on blind dates and don't know each other, basically the decision-making power begins with the girls' parents. In my opinion, this is the so-called match, but it is not the original intention of young people.

Now, as long as these young people can find someone they like outside, they will naturally think of getting married after a period of love. Whether they are in love or married, they will not dislike each other's poverty or wealth, but care about whether they can be happy together.

Nowadays, young people are pursuing happiness and happiness when they get married. It is not easy for us to find a suitable person. If you can get married, it is the happiest thing. What else will we think?

In my opinion, this old concept has long since disappeared in the minds of young people. It is the nature of contemporary young people to love the people they love as they please.