Hello everyone! I am a resident instructor. I usually live in the school, manage students' daily life system, and standardize students' daily behaviors and habits! It's a bit like education. Some students call me "instructor"? Some students call me "teacher". Anyway, my shoulder is more or less responsible. I should at least be worthy of the word "instructor". In school work, tutors have the most contact with students, because we eat and live together, so we can know students better. But recently I went to another junior high school, and the students in this school gave me a new understanding of junior high school students.

? I came to xc No.18 Middle School, a public school from Grade One to Grade Nine. Pupils in grades one to six are relatively easy to manage, because they are young, simple, say and do what they want, and their execution is super strong. But junior high school students are different. Junior high school students are at an awkward age. Say they are old, they are not young, they are all 14 or 15 years old; They are small because they can be really annoying sometimes!

However, what can you do if you are angry? Can't fight, can't scold. For the sake of safety, the school holds a meeting for our instructors and teachers every three days, saying, what should we do if we can't beat or scold students and their psychological quality is poor? ! Who can bear the responsibility if something goes wrong? !

I have to say that our students are getting more and more arrogant now. It is said that the post-90s generation is a beat generation (I am the post-90s generation). Now I think the real beat generation is after 00 and 05! I remember when I was in junior high school, there were no smart phones at that time, and all of them were old computers used by the elderly now. I'm not bored. It's not like junior high school students now. They were born with smartphones and tablets. Not satisfied!

China has a long history of 5,000 years. In the past, people in China emphasized respecting teachers, being a teacher for one day and being a father for life. We should respect teachers, the knowledge they carry, and the truth of making children adults. We should respect and appreciate our teachers! !

? Everyone has watched TV series. On TV, Mr Xue once had a ruler. Disobedient students can be slapped and spanked. After the battle, you should bow to your husband and say "thank you, sir"

I didn't study well when I was a child, and I didn't like studying. I am often slapped and spanked by the teacher with a stick. After the fight, I have to invite my parents. At that time, my parents were working outside, and I was a left-behind child or teenager. At that time, my grandparents were in charge of me, and I was most afraid of my grandfather.

? The parents of our time were very open-minded. They thanked the teacher wholeheartedly, apologized to the teacher according to the child's head, and told the teacher specially before leaving, "If he doesn't obey in the future, you can discipline him casually and fight casually, and our child will fight!" .

Of course, most children will be beaten again when they get home.

This is the parents of our time!

I don't know what caused the students to become like this! Is it because society is developing and technology is becoming more and more developed? ! Don't fight, don't scold! A lot of news means that students have made mistakes. Teachers educate students, and students and parents don't know how to be grateful. Instead, bite back and report the teachers and schools to the Education Bureau! Leading to excellent teachers being dismissed, suspended or even expelled.

The ancients said it well: "If the son doesn't teach, the father is guilty and the teacher is lazy." Teaching is not strict, it is the teacher's laziness! As instructors and teachers, we should take it as our bounden duty to seriously educate students. If you want to teach students well, you must be strict, because strictness is great love! Pampering is the fuse! A good teacher is a teacher who teaches you strictly. A teacher, an instructor, who ignores students' mistakes is dereliction of duty!

I think parents should support teachers as long as teachers and instructors criticize education correctly. Many people are grateful to their teachers in the process of growing up, just because teachers give criticism and education in time and "pull back from the cliff" to avoid more serious consequences. More interestingly, many teachers feel that the students who really appreciate their teachers after graduation are often those who have been criticized. This verifies what our squadron instructor often said to us when I was in the army: "Be strict and reasonable in Gerry!"

The present situation of education in China is that parents are unwilling to take care of it, teachers dare not, and outsiders are inconvenient to take care of it! This kind of education is very sad! "Young people are strong, the country is strong, and young people are rich." How can such education make young people stronger and richer! How sad!

As an instructor, to be honest, I am very tired, physically tired! My heart is more tired! If the management is too strict, the students will scold us, the school will criticize us, and sometimes the parents of the students will not! If the management is too loose, the school will say that you don't work and the management effect is not obvious. No matter where you are, no matter whether you do well or not, you can't fall behind. This makes me very cold!

? I hope that the present situation of education in China can be improved in the future, so that students can become the pillars of the country! ! !