Marriage is like a blue sea. You never know what kind of world is under the sea, but it must have vast fish schools and lush seaweed, just as there must be joys and sorrows in marriage.

Some love, at first, is innocent and pure, but in the end it will be scattered in the cruel reality. You can't throw it away, you can't throw it away, but you can't do it without the taste of happiness.

Zhang Ying, 23, fell in love with Jiang Liang, 25, and married this man without hesitation, regardless of the opposition of her family. In Zhang Ying's view, although he is a little poor, he is kind and worthy of being entrusted for life.

She is not afraid of suffering and involvement. She just wants to find a man who loves herself and runs their own small family together, and Jiang Liang is such a man.

His family is ordinary and his job is ordinary, but he takes special care of Zhang Ying and cares about her feelings.

When they got married, Zhang Ying's mother said with tears in her eyes. Daughter, if you marry such a man, your future life will be very painful. ?

But Zhang Ying said with a smile? Mom, I'm not afraid of suffering. As long as he is sincere to me, we will be happy. ?

02

Sometimes, as children, we should listen to the opinions of our elders. After all, their experience and experience are more than ours, even if they don't adopt it, they should be used as a reference.

At this point, my mother didn't speak again, but her heart was mixed. Because in her opinion, Jiang Liang is not only poor, but also poor at heart. Being lazy at a young age is really not a good match.

But she has said everything, but her daughter insists on marrying him. She can only hope that she is blind and wish them happiness.

With full of joy and bright future, Zhang Ying married herself.

But it was not until after marriage that the dull years washed away the deep love that she deeply realized what kind of man she married.

In the first few years of marriage, he was still working and went to work in an orderly way every day. But then the company went bankrupt and he was fired. And he hasn't been to work since he was laid off. Even if I submit my resume occasionally, I will not carefully prepare for the interview.

No matter how Zhang Ying urged him to find a job as soon as possible, he was indifferent. He even said that he took care of the children at home and asked Zhang Ying to go out to work to earn money.

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There is a kind of man who is a little poor, but they are positive and promising. But not all poor people have this kind of fighting spirit, and some poor people have a confused future or even worse.

It was not until middle age that Zhang Ying realized that this person was the kind of person who was poor and didn't make progress.

It is said, but unlike those who are poor together, since Jiang Liang lost his job, even his former good temper has disappeared without a trace. He often yells at her that she is worthless and earns too little money.

Although he said he took care of the children at home, he didn't send them to school at all, and didn't even care about helping them with their homework. He just watches TV and plays games every day.

To this end, Zhang Ying must take care of his family, and at the same time, he must go to work to earn money. He is just exhausted.

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So, as long as a man really loves you, does it really matter if he is poor? Middle-aged women have gambled on the happiness of the rest of their lives and have given the answer: no. Some men are not only poor, but also poor in heart. With such a man, there is no happy future at all

Women can share joys and sorrows with men, but they can't stand men's lack of progress. So, man, you must make yourself a poor man, right? Real men? Only in this way can we reap beautiful happiness.