I'm Wu Qingbo, a learner and practitioner of effective time management in Ye Wubin. I am very glad to share with you the learning experience and experience of Teacher Ye's Time Management 100 Lecture through voice and text. Time is a person's scarcest resource. Everyone needs time management. If you are busy, you can study effectively. Our album has 100 issues, each of which lasts for 6 minutes and is updated at 6 o'clock every morning.

In this lecture, we will continue to share the topic of "interpersonal relationship".

A person's success, 15% depends on ability, and 85% depends on interpersonal relationship.

Take Harvard University as an example. We have spent 76 years sharing ten very important criteria for winners in life.

In addition to having an economic income base, it is important for us to have physical and mental health and interpersonal relationships.

A warm and intimate relationship is the most important opening to a better life.

Emotion depends on strong connection, that is, husband-wife relationship and parent-child relationship.

Today I want to share another connection-weak ties or weak relationship.

This is our source of information.

Strong connection and weak connection constitute two major parts of our interpersonal relationship.

Many friends have many roads, so what kind of friends are more likely to give this road?

We still use data and research to speak:

A professor at Stanford University studied how professionals, technicians and managers in the suburbs of Boston found jobs in the 1970s.

And take this research achievement as his doctoral thesis at Harvard University.

He found 282 people and selected 100 people for face-to-face interviews, and found that less than half of them got jobs through formal channels, such as watching advertisements and submitting resumes; Among 100 people, 54 people found jobs through personal relationships.

This is a considerable number. When otaku racked their brains to struggle whether their resumes were so well written or not, more than half of their jobs had been taken away by people with connections.

This article contributed by "Sociology of Shell Network" is about what is really interesting here, not by relationship, but by what kind of relationship.

Research by Stanford University professors found that the really useful relationship is not the strong connection between relatives and friends, but weak ties.

This phenomenon is easy to explain.

A group of people who hang out with us all day, we are likely to do the same thing and have similar ideas.

If I don't know about this job opportunity, how will they know about it?

Only a weak relationship can tell us what we don't know.

Later, the professor extended this theory to a paper entitled "The Intensity of weak ties".

This article is probably the most cited sociological paper in history, about 20 thousand times.

The data of this study is very simple, the thinking is very simple, but the influence is far-reaching.

The most important thing between people is contact.

Why is Facebook Mark so successful in today's world, and why is China's WeChat Zhang Xiaolong so successful?

This is because they have created powerful tools that can connect our weak ties.

Because of strong connection, we often get together by phone, email and meeting, but weak connection is very difficult.

The internet has helped us a lot. It expands our interpersonal relationship from strong connection to weak connection.

No matter where we are, we can connect with each other through the Internet.

I also make extensive use of my circle of friends to manage interpersonal relationships.

In essence, easy efficiency creates a circle and has the effect of connecting the strong and the weak.

Easy-to-behave students took part in a two-day course. In order to support everyone to practice better, we use the weak connection theory to let more people practice for 90 days and let everyone be together.

If you have read my book "Make Good Use of Time", I also apply this rule, let you read by yourself and practice with eight people around you for 90 days.

Maybe you recruited these people through Weibo and WeChat. If you can understand efficient thinking, then the person you are looking for must be someone you are not familiar with.

You will easily find 8 people after class.

If you only take online classes, or just listen to our Himalayan classes, it will not be easy.

Of course, you can let everyone learn time management together by publishing a circle of friends.

Thank you very much for your great help to Mr. Ye, but it may be even more helpful to you and even affect your life.

Practice shows that in the past three years or so, if he can practice his classmates for 90 days, his income will be very huge.

The weak connection effect has a great influence on me.

Do you remember? I shared my plan to travel around the world on September 2 1 and 20 13 more than two years ago.

Through the circle of friends, through the WeChat group, I met the partners who are now organizing the global travel plan with me.

Later, when I was planning to travel around the world, I also got to know the tour guides in Taiwan Province Province, who have already visited 100 countries.

This tour guide makes it easier for me to travel around the world.

Everyone remembers that I shared my running. By sharing my running in a circle of friends, one of my students told me how to run. Through him, I contacted Teacher Wu Dong of Jane Eyre Running Law.

In fact, from the early stage of development to today, we have done this.

My early class was in the basement, telling countless girls about iPad and iPhone. Later, I shared time management among the company's customers, and then many students helped me hold a fee-based course.

My course was extended to South China and Southwest China by many students, and then it affected all of China.

The 100 lecture time management course and the 10 fee-paying course we held in Himalaya all told me the information through the weak connection around us.

I think this information is really important, so I started.

At the same time, in the Himalayan course, many friends told me about my voice training.

So today I want to tell you that all encounters are valuable, and all encounters are reunions after a long separation.

Thank you for listening to our time management course in Himalaya. Thank you very much for your encouragement, comments and sharing.

Our interaction makes each other's lives more exciting.

The topic we share in today's lecture is that weak connection is actually more important.

Emotion depends on strong connection and information depends on weak connection, which together constitute the elements of our interpersonal relationship.