Healthy, intelligent, honest, conscientious and brave, confident and tolerant, happy, with wide interests and love of labor. These are my requirements for children. You can be excellent, you can have no personality, you can be excellent, you can have no happiness. Don't be very obedient, but be sensible. Don't know much, but be smart. I'm afraid you won't learn if you don't. I'm afraid you're crazy and you can't play. But being a real person is my educational philosophy for children. Parents should master the truth and let others play freely. First of all, we should cultivate a good attitude towards children. Between success and character, I pay more attention to the shaping of quality and character. Moral character+moral character+taste = personality Don't set too high standards on children, just do the process step by step, because the result is contributed by many factors. Parents' demands directly affect children's psychological growth.