But I found that he gave a lot of things to his friends or disposed of them, such as sending a resume, and I was not in a hurry. Of course, all his troubles now are irrelevant emotional hallucinations.
It suddenly occurred to me that this might be an experience of life outsourcing. He outsourced some trivial things to others. Outsourcing the work to a friend (he wants to recruit a web performance for himself) and outsourcing the emotional affairs to me (I won't talk to him if I'm not interested). Focus on what is important and necessary: improve your skills and career.
The benefits of outsourcing life, in addition to what I just mentioned, can free up more time to deal with the core content, which is actually helpful to people. Maybe according to the old way of thinking, this way of disturbing others will scare each other. But now the developed information society. There are too many social opportunities. First of all, virtual relationships need each other's recognition, so many people are actually willing to help others, thus gaining a basic sense of identity. In addition, it will exclude those social units that are unwilling to take the time to accept outsourcing tasks. Anyway, don't worry about potential objects with large cardinality.
This is in conflict with what you have received about yourself before. Don't disturb others' feelings. Doing everything yourself may lead to confusion and confusion, and you can't grasp the key points. Like I am now.
Outsourcing life can explain why many people choose to be single. Because the experiences of boyfriends and girlfriends are outsourced by countless spare tires and warm boyfriends, this is actually a failure example of outsourcing life. Lost the core.